"Do you know that loving you is not easy,
It also takes a lot of courage to be providential,
A lot of words can't be said,
I'm afraid you can't afford it. ”
There is a kind of love, not to say, does not mean dislike; breaking up, not not not loving. Maybe they can't help themselves, or maybe it's the boy's pity for the girl.
Jacky Cheung and Luo Meiwei met in a play - "Crazy Me". She and he were both newcomers, shy and shy.
That day, the company took a picture of the scene, and the director called them out and asked them to look up at each other. At the moment of looking at each other, the two suddenly turned red and unnatural, and immediately turned apart.
What does it feel like to be electrocuted? It should be at the moment when the two young men look at each other. Later, the outside world rumored that the two faked the real thing, but both laughed and denied it.
She said: "Xueyou is a very mature person, and he will not like me like such a wayward, little girl-like. "But love never has a corresponding condition, and if there is, it is not love." The following year, he publicly admitted to the relationship.
"Do you believe that I have met you in this life,
It is what I owe you in my previous life,
It's Providence that makes me fall in love with you,
Only to let you leave me again. ”
Unfortunately, both of them are too young, and the relationship lasted only one year, and Mei wei offered to break up. There is no third party, no one changes their heart, and the breakup is because the two parties have incompatible personalities.
It turned out that Mei Wei was born in a single-parent family, and she lacked family warmth since she was a child, and she lacked a sense of security in love, and she needed the other party to have enough time to accompany her, which was a problem for Xueyou, who was in the development stage of her career at that time.
Mutual incomprehension led to the two arguing constantly over trivial matters. Although the lovers quarrel with each other, but often quarrel will definitely hurt the feelings, perhaps timely separation for a period of time can make each other calm.
Someone asked Xueyou, Mei Wei said that your personality is incompatible and leads to a breakup, what do you think? He said: "Personality incompatibility is an excuse for a breakup, and if you want to reconcile, you will say that it is complementary personalities.
"Maybe reincarnation is already predestined
I should give it back to you in this life
A heart in the wind and rain
It's all for you."
After that, Meiwei's career developed smoothly. Xueyou's is not satisfactory, he does not have a handsome appearance like others and will not interact with fans, and he once wanted to give up when his career was low and he was drunk in bars all day.
At this time, Mei wei came to him, and she still loved him.
After separation, the two saw less and quarreled less. The two who calmed down understood that this love they had paid a lot to each other, recognized their own hearts, and since they did not want to let go, they held hands again.
With the company and encouragement of Meiwei, Xueyou regained her confidence and slowly found herself. He said: "At the most detrimental time, I saw Mei wei's true love for me. "The feelings that have gone through suffering are precious.
"You are willing to be bitter along the way"
Don't forget your original intention, you have to be consistent. In 1996, Mei Wei finally became Mrs. Zhang. From the acquaintance and love in 1986 to the marriage in 1996, in the past ten years, they have also experienced breakups, career troughs, and then reconciled and accompanied like ordinary couples, fortunately they have not given up.
He strives to balance the two ends of his career with his family. He who values the family wants to give her a complete and loving home, hoping that she can feel the warmth of home. Similarly, she loves him and cherishes him, willing to give up her career and only want to be the little woman behind him.
Later, with the birth of two daughters, the sweet family of two became a cozy four-person home. Now, after 20 years of ups and downs, they are as loving as ever and have become a couple that everyone envies.
Jacky Cheung once said: "Everyone's personality is different, even if you find a person with the same personality now, can you guarantee that the pace of each other's maturity and development in 10 years will be the same?"
As a husband and wife, there are problems that should be solved, the key is to see how to face and solve them, these problems should be solved in one lifetime, no hurry. The vows and commitments of marriage are once in a lifetime, so it is also necessary to learn with a lifetime. ”
A husband and wife for a lifetime, a lifetime of learning, love and marriage is like this, it should be so for the lover, love her, love her for a lifetime. Life has been stormy, meet the right person should be cherished, a lifetime of waiting is never those simple pale mountain alliance sea oaths, sweet words. The most rare thing in life is to have a confidant, no matter how difficult it is, she is willing to hold the hand of her son and never give up. Thank you for having you along the way, accompanying me to suffer, accompanying my painful lover.