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I don't know when society "gave" the role of "mother" a lot of tasks. This includes picking up and dropping off your children from school, as if starting from kindergarten, and after each school, you always see your mother. Maybe it's the habit, because it is a mother at any time, so I turn a blind eye to my mother's "pay" and always feel that it is deserved.
But they never knew that they gave up a lot in order to pick us up on time. They could have worked normally like everyone else, but in order to better pick up and take care of us, they could only choose to work half a day. While taking care of the baby, they also hope to reduce the pressure on the family for their husbands.
But no one ever cared about them. I feel that life is like this, and they should be like this. She took care of everyone's feelings, but no one took care of her feelings.
The 42-year-old mother picked up her son in a "pink tracksuit", but the son pretended not to know
A few days ago, I brushed a video of a mother waiting on the side of the road for her son from school, but when the son came out, he looked at his mother and then walked away.
The mother called her son, and the son ignored her. It just so happened that the students saw it and thought it was her sister, and they all shouted "sister" next to her.
The mother stepped forward to take her son's arm, but was also avoided by the son. Seeing this, I feel that my mother should be very sad and lost.
The mother does not know why her son is angry? The son felt angry and embarrassed because his mother wore a "pink" sports suit to pick himself up, causing a misunderstanding between classmates.
In his son's eyes, his classmates were "making fun" of themselves. But for my mother, being called "sister" by others is a happy thing. First, they are all sons' classmates, and their mothers feel that they just think that they are their sons' "sisters" and have no other meaning; second, being called "sisters" also shows that they are very young! The older people get, the more they want to be "young" in the eyes of passers-by, and maybe this is the psychology of people.
This may be the psychology of "adolescent" children! Feeling is a very common thing, but in their eyes, it is a "hurting self-esteem" thing.
People call themselves "mom" sister, doesn't that mean that their mother is young and beautiful? I should be proud! I remember when I was a child, if a child said: Your mother is so beautiful and good-looking, aren't we also very proud? Why is it that now the mentality has changed, feeling that other people's "praise" is "making fun" of yourself.
Therefore, for adolescent children, parents must pay more attention and communicate more. Although it is often said that children are older and have their own ideas and secrets. Secrets can be there. However, if you feel that your child has "signs" of wrong ideas, you must communicate with your child more.
~Write to the end~
Everyone's understanding of life is different, so the way they behave will be different. But I think it doesn't matter what color you're wearing, as long as you dress appropriately.
Maybe for "moms", if it wasn't for picking up their children from school, maybe they wouldn't be out for a day. Therefore, picking up and dropping off their children from school became the only time they could "sneak around".
At this time, they also want to dress beautifully and dress themselves well. By dressing up, you can prove that you have never "derailed" from this society, and that beauty is a state of mind that can make you feel "happy".
Sometimes "dressing up" is not for others to see, but an attitude towards life, a passion.
So, please give "Mom" a little more understanding. After all, she is the person who loves you the most in the world. Even if sometimes her behavior accidentally "hurts" you, she is unintentional.
Afterwards, you can say it, but don't "ruthlessly" throw her away.
(In the text, the son ignores his mother and leaves, do you think the son did the right thing?) Welcome to leave a message interactive ~~)