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Name is a very important "name" of a person, parents to the child to name will be very concerned, after all, this title will accompany the child for a lifetime, but a good name is not so easy to obtain, many parents have encountered difficulties when taking names.
After all, parents want their children's names to be unique and have unique meanings, it is best to call it catchy, but in the process of taking names, parents can easily bring some trouble to their children's growth because of some harmonic problems.
Dad's surname is "Ma", and he gave the child a perfect name
There is a father surnamed "Ma", when giving the child a name, he encountered difficulties, wanted to give the child a good and meaningful name, and as a result, because of his own mistakes, the child's growth was a little more troublesome.
In fact, the surname "horse" is a big surname, and there are many names that can be taken, but the father of the surname "horse" in order to avoid duplicate names, the result is to name the child "Ma Tong Calcium", the meaning behind this name is that I hope that the child can thrive like "calcium" and be healthy in the future.
Papa Ma's idea is very good, but he pays too much attention to the meaning of the name itself and ignores the possible harmonic sounds of the name. "Ma Tong Calcium" harmonic "toilet lid", wait until the child goes to school, this name teachers are embarrassed to roll call in class, embarrassing at the same time other students in the class are also easy to make jokes.
After this name was spread to the Internet, it also caused a lot of netizens to discuss, everyone opened their minds at the same time, but also directly called this name to take a "master", the nickname of the child will also accompany a lifetime.
If the name is not taken well, the child will have a lot more unnecessary trouble
First, being given a "nickname" by peers
I remember when I went to school, there was a classmate in the class named "Fu Yanjie", which sounded very much like "gynecological clean", and as a result, a girl carried such a nickname for a lifetime.
And this female classmate has a very good academic performance, every year-round commendation meeting, in front of thousands of people, the name "Fu Yanjie" was shouted, and the following were all laughter, and the embarrassed female classmate could not look up.
When parents take names, they should still pay attention to the possible harmonic sounds of the name, if it is easy to have a bad meaning, it is easy to be maliciously nicknamed by classmates, which hurts the child's self-esteem.
Second, it's awkward to go anywhere
People with unambiguous names are very afraid of being called names in public, and everyone's eyes will be focused on you, some are looking at jokes, some are laughing, and these eyes will make me unable to face.
Over time, it may cause harm to the child's personality, produce inferiority feelings, and dare not express themselves when there are many people, thus missing many opportunities for life and work.
Give your child a name, and parents should pay attention to the following questions
First, don't have a harmonic sound in your name
Chinese culture is too broad and profound, there are many cases of multiple meanings and multiple sounds of one word, if parents do not pay attention to the name, it is likely to produce a harmonic situation, and children will inevitably be laughed at in the future. Just like the son of the star Huo Siyan, he was also nicknamed "stomachache" when he went to school, and he did not want to go to school, which showed the influence of the harmonic nickname on the child.
Second, try not to have strange words in the name
Some parents do not want their children to have the same name as others, so they will find some strange words to put in the child's name, which can indeed avoid the problem of duplicate names, but there are also some problems.
The first is that the strange words are too complicated, it is very troublesome to write, and when the child first learns to write his own name, the difficulty is several times that of the same age. The second is that many people do not know the strange words, and it is easy for others to call the wrong name, so that others are embarrassed and embarrassed.
Third, try to avoid taking four-word names
I don't know when it started, it is popular to give children a four-character name, obviously it is a "single surname", but the hard patchwork has to give the child a multi-word name, like "Yue Ai Di Sheng", "Zhang Dynasty Twilight", "Glory of the King", etc., it seems very different, so parents still have to give their children a good name to avoid unnecessary trouble.
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