In recent years, celebrities have babies, and babies have been repeatedly mentioned. The stars on the baby are also very good, which is not generally good for the baby. Like Li Xiang and Lin Xinru, they all want to give the best to their children, which I can understand. There is a hao there is a clear stream, like Guo Jingjing, who married into the rich, with a baby is definitely worthy of everyone's praise.
Just in recent years, Xi Mengyao married into the rich, but also repeatedly appeared in front of the screen, now she has children, so what way will she choose to take the baby?
Xi Mengyao raised her daughter and bought 13 bibs priced at nearly 200, which caused controversy among netizens
Xi Mengyao married into the rich, once not favored by many people. However, with the birth of her son, her position as a magnate was secured. Immediately after, Xi Mengyao spelled out her second daughter, and she can be said to be a real winner in life.
Recently, Xi Mengyao has attracted the attention of netizens because of a video on the Internet. It turned out that Xi Mengyao shared baby products with everyone on the Internet, which was a saliva towel prepared for her daughter. She praised the towel in the video, and said that she bought 13 in one go and left it at home for her daughter to spare.
Curious netizens will go to the Internet to check, what is the brand of this kind of saliva towel? The result is not to check do not know, a check is really a shock, the original Xi Mengyao daughter's saliva towel from a brand in Japan, the price of each one is more than 200 yuan, a bought 13, it will be nearly 3,000 yuan, which is also a big expense for ordinary families.
However, we all believe that these thousands of yuan can really only be "drizzle" for Xi Mengyao. After all, Mengyao is also an independent and strong woman, and now that she has become a mother, she will also be a good mother.
Many netizens said that Xi Mengyao was following in Li Xiang's footsteps and planning to raise her daughter. This is also not strange, after all, the economic conditions of the rich family are there, of course, spending money on children is not stingy, ordinary families of course can not be compared.
However, some netizens mentioned that Guo Jingjing, who is also married into the giants, is very frugal in her daily life, whether it is for her children or herself, and many people also admire and praise her as a clear stream in the giants. Children who follow such a father and mother will certainly grow up to be very good.
However, I think it is better to raise children richly or poorly, which is really not something we can define casually. After all, we are all ordinary working-class families, saying that sons should be poor and daughters should be rich, and they should not be treated differently according to the gender of children.
When we raise children, some aspects should be rich, and some aspects should also be poor. Wealth not only represents the investment of money and materials, but also represents the time and energy of parents.
Parents should be rich in several aspects of their children, we should pay a little more, the children grow up better.
Parents' attention and companionship to their children should be rich.
The growth of every child is inseparable from the company of parents, and the attention and love of parents bring children a sense of security, bring children self-confidence, and bring children the warmth of love. Therefore, if parents want to cultivate children with cheerful personalities and self-confidence and sunshine, they must give their children more companionship, attention and encouragement, and give them spiritual wealth.
Parents should be willing to spend money on the healthy growth of their children.
The child's degree of eating and wearing, we should still try to use better quality within our own ability, especially the child's underwear, food, etc., must have certain requirements for quality, and ensure the healthy growth of children. Now the child's self-esteem is very strong, although we do not want the child to compare, but also want to let the child grow up healthy.
Parents should be rich in cultivating their children's learning and long-term insight.
Children's education is the most concerned by parents, we are in the training of children's learning, are trying to let children enjoy a better educational resources, for the child's future development to lay a solid foundation. In addition to learning, it is also very important for children to gain insight. Reading, traveling, and participating in activities will enrich the child's life and the amount of knowledge of the brain will also be enriched, so parents cannot be stingy with their children's long-term knowledge.
Raising rich children consumes a lot of money and energy, so many parents are very tired. However, not everything a child has that we need to pay so much. In some respects, parents should be poor to him.
In these aspects of the child, we should raise some poorly, and the child will be more excellent when he grows up.
The child's own things should be left to him, and the parents should help less.
Parents are very tired, sometimes because parents manage too much, many things are the child's own, you should let the child do it himself. For example, children eat, get dressed, get up, go to school, and do homework, which parents should train their children to do independently. Children have strong independence, which is good for future development, and parents do not have to be so tired every day.
Children's difficulties should be faced more by themselves, and parents should do less on their own.
In the life of a child, there will always be a lot of unsatisfactory things, and when the child encounters setbacks, we should try to train the child to solve it by himself. For example, if a child fails an exam, summarize the reasons by himself, find a way to overcome his shortcomings, and catch up with the results. Children have to experience wind and rain to grow into strong and brave people, so we should learn to let go, let children get exercised, have a strong will and hard-working spirit.
Whether children should be poor or rich, I think the most important thing for parents is to improve their personality as parents, think about what children need most, and give children the best environment for growth.
The child will eventually fly alone without the parents, and we should not break the child's wings when giving the child the best living environment and conditions.