Perhaps no one cares, Xi Mengyao's wind comments quietly reversed.
Since receiving a license with He Youjun in 19 years to giving birth to a son and a daughter, gossip in the market always wants to see her jokes.
A few days ago, she wore a 5-carat diamond ring to blaze 99 pink lychee roses, seizing the first hot search on Valentine's Day.
This time, not only was she not dissed as a hot monthly user, but the entries were praising her as a winner in life.
But even if it is enviable to this point, Xi Mengyao still can't avoid being urged by netizens to hold a wedding again...
Indeed, it has been more than five and a half years since the certificate was obtained, and the wedding has been delayed again and again.
I think it should be affected by the epidemic in the past few years and the death of the gambling king in 20 years.
After all, her mother-in-law Liang Anqi took her to her hotel to study management, so she would not be dissatisfied with her.
But it reminds the sheep of an old melon.
Among the girls who He Youjun dated earlier, there was a most satisfactory daughter-in-law candidate for Liang Anqi, who was Singapore's celebrity Lin Huili.
Looking at her recent situation, she escaped the fate of wealthy marriages and child-giving machines, and chose free love. But he was twice killed by the "man with a mysterious identity" and almost eaten out...
Although He Youjun and Xi Mengyao's children have a happy family, it is a bit unauthentic to pull "He Youjun's ex-girlfriend" and not let go.
But at that time, Lin Huili was stepping on Xi Mengyao to ridicule, and was praised for not having to swallow her anger in a wealthy family, but feng shui took turns.
The B-face life of the top rich girl in the Lion City, who is free to marry, does not seem to be as glamorous and decent as we think.
From a famous lady in the Lion City to a prospective daughter-in-law of a gambling king
Kim Lim, born in Singapore in 1991, is a top Bai Fumei in the Lion City.
Her father is Singapore's billionaire "stockbroker king" Peter Lim.
Lam's companies include Kangsheng Medical Group, Valencia Football Club and Old Trafford Football Hotel, as well as Ronaldo's exclusive portrait rights.
With conservative assets of more than US$2.5 billion (contract 17 billion RMB), it ranks eighth on the latest Forbes Singapore Rich List.
After finishing primary school, Kim was sent by her father to Queenswood Girls' High School in England to attend boarding school.
He did not return to China until the age of 16, attended high school at Huazhong International School, and entered the Singapore Institute of Management after graduation.
Not long after the rise of Ins, Kim quickly became a Southeast Asian Internet celebrity with her fancy high-profile show off wealth.
However, in 14 years, the mother of Lin Fuxing, the owner of the Ascend Group, was kidnapped in Singapore.
The kidnappers confessed that their "preferred meat ticket" turned out to be Kim and her brother, and planned to extort 50 million from Lin Wing Fook.
Since then, Kim has noticeably lowered his profile, deleted Lufu's dynamics, and reserved his shared life.
However, from her girlfriend's social circle, she can already get a glimpse of the social life of the city's celebrities.
Playing with her, there are Singapore's tens of billions of gold and stone Zhenshan and Wu Jianhao's ex-wife.
(Her gossip is also very interesting, when she married Wu Jiahao divorced, she was very embarrassed, and I like it at the end of the article I want to see, and we will talk about it in detail when I have time)
Hong Kong Huanya Qianjin, the rich third generation Lin Tian'er Lin Xin'er sisters, gambling king Qianjin He Chaoying, and the third generation of officials Cheng Yingjie and so on.
It was also under He Chaoying's introduction and matchmaking that Kim met He Youjun.
Needless to say, the same "girlfriend introduction" drama was later staged again on Xi Mengyao.
And Kim can be said to be the only seed player in the previous girlfriends that He Youjun talked about.
At the beginning of 16, Ho Youjun took her back to Macao to celebrate her 21st birthday with her mother and grandmother.
Also showed affection in a high-profile show in Ins, calling the other party "Princess Kimmy".
Kim has a well-behaved personality and is particularly liked by Liang Anqi, and is also known as "the most optimistic daughter-in-law of the fourth wife".
Looking back at the time when He Youjun and Kim fell in love, sweet is really sweet.
In addition to the aforementioned ones, take Kim back to Macau to meet my mother and grandmother.
He would fly to Singapore to accompany her on the Ferris wheel, and would send couples to tighten their rings.
The two traveled to Paris for Valentine's Day and sprinkled a handful of dog food under the Eiffel Tower.
However, the two suddenly broke up in April '16.
There are various theories as to the reasons for the breakup. It is said that long-distance relationships are not easy to maintain, and it happened that Kim went to South Korea to develop a modeling career.
It is also said that He Youjun was almost disfigured in a car accident, and Kim ignored it and was too indifferent.
In short, it didn't work.
Later, the people around He Youjun kept changing, and then the marriage proposal Xi Mengyao stabilized.
And Kim's modeling career did not stop, and began an 8-fold life of being tricked into marriage and having children by scumbags.
The rich girl couldn't escape the pig-killing plate
First marriage
A pig-killing plate tailored for her
In October 16, Kim, who had a long-distance relationship with He Youjun, traveled to Thailand to relax.
She met her first husband in a Buddhist temple.
Her first impression of him was that he was tall and looked very boyish.
Kim, who believes in fate, sees this as fate, believing that it is her "true destiny".
In October, she posted a back photo of the two traveling to Bali together on Instagram.
Revisiting Europe in November, the same Eiffel Tower bears witness to a different kind of affection.
In February of the following year, the two secretly married because Kim was pregnant by this time.
And she was 83 kilograms fat during pregnancy, and directly chose to withdraw from the net, so the outside world knows little about this relationship.
On July 18, Kim gave birth to his son, Kyden.
Not long after, he directly held a 100-day banquet for his son at the Ritz-Carlton Meinian Hotel.
Due to the rapid progress of running the red light all the way, the market once thought that the child's father was He Youjun.
Kim had to come forward to clarify.
However, even so, the Singaporean media still knows a little, but not much, about Kim's husband.
Only knowing his name is Kho Bin Kai, other family backgrounds are still missing.
The original plan to hold a make-up wedding in March '18 was postponed to October because Kim lost weight without success.
During this period, he held a first birthday party for his son Kyden.
Originally thought that the birthday banquet was so big, then the wedding was repaid?
The outside world, which was fiercely expecting, first waited for the scandal of Kim's husband.
In August 19, Kim's husband Kho was revealed to be out of business, using a false name to facilitate remote gambling, and finally spent S$25,000 bail.
Only at this time, Kim knew that the meeting between the two in Thailand was not accidental.
Because her husband is not a stranger at all, but a friend of her assistant.
It was from Kim's assistant that he obtained Kim's specific whereabouts and carefully planned the "encounter".
Don't encounter it, isn't this a proper pig killing plate? Trick Bai Fumei into giving birth to a baby.
Similarly, it was this arrest that the media learned a little more about Kim's husband.
For example, I have been doing business, but the scale is unknown.
After the gambling incident, Kim and her husband chose to separate, but due to Singapore law, marriage must be more than three years before they can leave.
It was not until March 20 that a divorce application was officially filed.
Second marriage
Just two months later, the prototype was revealed
In October '20, Kim shared the joy of being proposed on Instagram.
In addition to the 5-carat diamond ring, the engagement gift included a Patek Philippe rose gold watch, priced at $980,000 each.
The outside world also doesn't know much about this new boyfriend:
"The identity of the 33-year-old man is mysterious, but he is tall and engaged in the IT industry."
Does it have an inner taste?
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And the new media, which has some connections, only heard that her fiancé's name is Leslie, and he calls himself LL.
is a self-made IT upstart, 3 years older than Kim, and his IG account @waleoweh not public.
My sister's face didn't look like this before
The two met through mutual friends. In Kim's view, Leslie is gentle and responsible.
After a brief relationship of a few months, they got engaged.
On December 18, Leslie came to the door to make a job, which is often called the "big gift" ceremony.
Excessive gifts are a very important etiquette in Chinese weddings, and it is generally set to choose an auspicious day before the wedding to give the dowry.
Because his father Lin Rongfu's ancestral home is Putian, Fujian, Kim's marriage also follows the customs of southeastern Fujian.
Leslie was dressed in a Shanghai beach costume, and sat on Rolls-Royce to deliver S$2 million (contract of more than 10 million yuan) worth of mountain and sea delicacies and gold and silver jewelry.
Among them, in addition to the precious abalone wing belly, roast pig wine cake. It also includes 15 gold bars, 8 pairs of giant dragon and phoenix bracelets, 2 pig tags, and gold and silver jewelry and diamonds.
and two Hermès bags and a pair of Rolex.
The dazzling scenery is very beautiful, and there is a lion dance team escort along the way, which is quite magnificent.
Yang You remembers that he was on Weibo hot search for several days, and even the Hong Kong media reported the whole process.
On 22/22/22, Kim and Leslie registered their marriage.
The registration ceremony was held at Kim's mansion that day, with an outdoor rooftop covered with pink rose walls and a custom wedding dress by Vera Wang.
Can't help but compare it to an ex-boyfriend who proposed with plastic fake flowers
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In the tea toasting ceremony, father Lin Rongfu also gave his daughter a wedding gift.
An old 10,000-yuan banknote that stopped selling as early as 2014, which followed him to start a business for many years, means "overcoming all difficulties".
The sheep interjected.
Although Kim pays attention to ritual, he is not extravagant and wasteful.
The flowers used for the wedding were then repackaged and given to the elderly in the nursing home. Canned dry food from the oversized dowry was also given to charity.
At the same time, in order to celebrate the big day, she also donated 100 packs of dog food to the dogs in the stray home.
Kim's then hosted a lavish wedding reception at Singapore's shopping landmark ION Orchard.
Among the more than 200 guests present, in addition to relatives and friends and business partners, there were also Singaporean popular artists Cheng Huiyu, Sit Sushan, Lin Huiling and so on.
I thought, how can I have better luck this time, right?
However, Kim, who especially likes to bask in happiness, has rarely seen her husband Leslie on Instagram since April.
It wasn't until late last year that Kim admitted in an exclusive interview with Fenghua in Bangkok that her second marriage lasted only 2 months.
Kim said the two quarreled almost every day after marriage, because Leslie judged the two before and after marriage.
From being gentle and considerate to irritable, sometimes even out of control, and often cursing, her depression worsened.
He was also diagnosed with "borderline personality disorder" at one point.
So from April, the two began to separate.
And a big part of the reason for frequent fights is that Kim has his own beauty business.
She started the Scalp Care Center and Aesthetic Clinic in 2019 with Leslie's support.
Leslie, however, didn't care.
After the separation, Kim even hid in the cloakroom to sleep because there were too many traces of her ex-husband at home...
Looking at it this way, Kim's emotional history is really twists and turns.
She refuses to marry the gambling royal family and escapes from the tools of wealthy marriage + childbirth, and she either runs into fraudsters around the corner or pretends to be a fanatic.
Many people often say that girls who grow up in wealthy families do not have to worry about their livelihood from an early age, nor do they have to go through difficulties to break through, and they do not have so much scheming and calculation.
The flowers in these greenhouses, when encountering scumbags, are often confused by the gentleness of the surface, unable to see the essence of the other party, and often meet people who are not scumbag.
And for Kim, in addition to these, there is a period of PTSD from childhood trauma.
When she was only 4 years old, her parents began to divorce, and the lawsuit lasted for 7 years.
The reason for the divorce was determined by the judge to be that his father Lin Wing Fook cheated on Singaporean actress Lin Li Concubine.
In order to fight for the custody of their children, the lawsuit between the two sides lasted for nearly 4 years, spending more than 3 million yuan, which caused a sensation in the city.
Source: Lianhe Evening News, 1999 edition
Lin Li's concubine Xiaolin Rongfu is 17 years old, has acted in some unknown TV series, and has also broken into the Hong Kong entertainment industry.
However, the only work that has survived to this day is the song "A Woman Who Can't Do Without Love".
In this divorce lawsuit, in addition to Lin Rongfu's cheating bottoms and Zhang Yufeng's beating accusation.
There is also Lin who blames Zhang for not taking care of the children, Zhang accuses Lin of buying the maid, etc., in short, the two sides expose each other's scars to make a fuss.
Source: Lianhe Evening News, 1999 edition
Kim, who witnessed the most unbearable scene of the marriage up close, left a great psychological shadow.
Her childhood was quite tense with that of teenagers, and she was bullied at school when she was in elementary school.
Not only that, the year Lin Rongfu remarried his new wife Lin Li Concubine, Kim was sent to England to study.
Maybe it's to let her start over in a different environment, or maybe it's because she is worried that her daughter and stepmother won't be able to get along.
If the divorce battle between parents is the first step to hurt the child's body and mind, then forcibly sending them away regardless of their wishes is the second step.
While studying abroad, Kim suffered from anorexia and depression, began to overeat and induce vomiting, and often had masochistic behavior.
The sequelae of this are often gradually revealed in adulthood, affecting daily life to varying degrees.
This includes the choice of the other half.
Kim's attitude towards marriage and meeting scumbags are still a little similar to Han Anran in China.
Daughters in new-money families with loose rules enjoy a lot of freedom to self-determine marriage.
Although it is to break free from the shackles of the old money and tycoons, it also means that the risk is greater.
Patriarchal social discipline has led many women to seek security, and stable marriages are an important part of this security.
Under the double pressure of personal growth trauma and living environment, rich girls who marry themselves are more likely to be targeted by pig killing.
They are simple in mind and lack of love, and are easily confused by superficial phenomena, which can also be understood as "love brain".
However, rich women have a home to give them back, and they can have unlimited opportunities for trial and error marriage.
But for ordinary girls, the price of looking away and marrying the wrong person is too heavy.