Who is the luckiest woman in "Parental Love", many people must say that it is the heroine Anjie, but the truth is that there is a woman who is luckier than her.
Who is it?
Watching "Parental Love", more people like Jiang Dehua who works hard and complains, and even many people are uneven for her, thinking that Anjie met Jiang Dehua is a blessing cultivated for several lifetimes, and even feels sad that Jiang Dehua still continues to be an old mother after marrying Lao Ding, a lifetime of hard work.
Have you ever thought about what kind of life Dehua would have lived if he hadn't gone to the city?
Because her husband went out to fight and did not see anyone dead or dead, Jiang Dehua could not leave her in-laws' house for a while and a half, plus the rural farming needed labor, and the in-laws' family used her cattle-like summons, and even if she worked hard, she often scolded her. Seeing those rural people come to Jiang Defu's house, they obviously came to enjoy the blessings and cheap, and they dared to scold Dehua in person, but Jiang Dehua, who had sharp teeth, did not return his mouth, so you can imagine what kind of life she lived in the countryside. The neighbor still said this about her, and the in-laws didn't have to think about it, it would only be worse than this. Speaking of Anjie, she did not dare to go back in the face of other people's accusations against her, which shows that she has acquiesced to their words, and deep down she thinks so.
It can be imagined that if she is not taken to the city by the third brother, in a few years she will be grinded into an animal, after all, no matter how tired others are, they have a spouse to accompany and have children as sustenance, and she, only working, does not know how to look forward to the future, and does not even have a little thought, such a person lives purely and lives.
But she came to town and met Anjie, a kind and cultivated person who was a little bit of a lady with a temper. To be honest, I don't know why so many people don't like Anjie, but I think Anjie is not worse than his sister, the same standard everyone is a bridesmaid, has a tutor, knows the general body, and knows how to advance and retreat.
Jiang Dehua, who had just entered the city, did not show much goodness, but rather had a hateful face of being poor and evil, and bullying people. She felt that it was her brother's house, her own home, and her sister-in-law was an outsider. People asked her to come and help, not to let her come and take charge of the house for someone else. People who don't have this self-consciousness can stand it for a cultivated person like Anjie. If you change to someone like Jiang Dehua, you will have left her earlier, where you came from and where you would go. Even Wang Xiu'e was distressed that When Anjie was pregnant with her second child, she couldn't eat anything but still vomited and had to work, but Jiang Dehua said that her work was not tired, just sitting there, like some evil mother-in-law's thoughts now?
Don't say what no Jiang Dehua, Anjie alone with so many children is not tired to die, whoever leaves this earth can live, people can also ask for a nanny. Anjie is not the kind of person who eats and is lazy, and she never shirks the family's affairs because she is at work. Although Jiang Defu's official position brought a lot of convenience to Anjie, Anjie also deserved him. She married Jiang Defu, but it was only caused by the times, even if her husband became a commander, she was also working while taking care of the family, and no one ever wanted to enjoy the blessings of Qingfu, just taking care of life and raising, never had such a thought.
But it is not a sister-in-law like Anjie, but Jiang Dehua's life is very different.
Later, she chased after Lao Ding, knowing that people did not like her, and also rushed to run to people's homes every day, Jiang Defu was speechless about her behavior, but Anjie stood in the perspective of a woman, hoping that the sister-in-law could marry the person she liked. Even for the sake of the sister-in-law to teach Lao Ding, when he said this, he had to complain that Jiang Dehua was a nester, and Anjie was angry for her, and she in turn said that Anjie spoke heavily. Funny isn't it? Embarrassing everyone, she selfishly lives in her own world. When others scolded her, she didn't even dare to return her mouth, only dared to yell at Anjie.
Although marrying Lao Ding was her wishful thinking, just changing places to be an old mother, she didn't mind at all. It is said that women will be happier to marry men who like themselves than to marry men they like, just depending on how you look at it, Jiang Dehua belongs to the kind of thing I just need to get what I want. She was content and happy, and didn't mind if Old Ding had her in her heart. Of course, Old Ding is also a good man.
I have to say that Jiang Dehua must have saved the galaxy in his previous life to meet a good sister-in-law like Anjie and a man like Lao Ding.
Although Jiang Dehua helped Anjie with children, although she worked hard and made great achievements, don't forget, she just didn't help Anjie with her children, and she was also treated as a cow in her hometown, and she didn't get the respect that Anjie gave her. They ran into each other for a short time in the early stages, but in the later stage, Anjie really treated her like a sister-in-law, and even her brother-in-law was not as good as this sister-in-law.
Although Lao Ding did not like her and did not give any help in life, he also recognized her efforts like Anjie and gave her equal respect. Although she did not get the love she wanted in Lao Ding, she could be with the person she liked, and her spiritual world was rich and comfortable and satisfied.
Besides, the old Ding is good-looking, and although her official position is not as high as Jiang Defu's, she is a rural woman, she is still a second-married woman, one is not young and two is not beautiful, and if she can marry an officer, it is also a great fortune. In addition to the bad ingredients caused by the times, Anjie is young and beautiful, and when he marries, the dowry is enough for people to have no worries about food and clothing for a lifetime. Jin's marriage Chinese Li's family always fell into trouble because of Wen Li's indiscriminate spending, but Anjie hardly spent a penny on jiang Defu on herself, and the dowry clothes were enough for her to wear for a lifetime.
It can be said that Anjie can be looked up to by Jiang Defu, all by her own strength, and Jiang Dehua has the life he wants but relies on all luck, meeting a good sister-in-law like Anjie, tolerating all her shortcomings, and spoiling her into a princess who can act arbitrarily. She met a person of good character, and although she was seeking perfection, she never failed her good husband.
An Xin is happy because she and her husband appreciate each other and love each other, but she has experienced ten years of turbulent hardship and repression!
Teacher Ge was lucky to finally live the life she wanted, but she did not have her own children in her life.
Anjie is lucky to get the favor of Jiang Defu's life, and he has no worries about food and clothing. But in the middle of the night, the moment we found the photo in the book, we still know that she always gave up the life that should have belonged to her.
Their beauty, cultivation, learning, goodness... Let us take their luck for granted.
In such a comparison, does it feel that Jiang Dehua, who lacks beauty and knowledge, is the luckiest woman in the whole play?