What do you think is the charm of a man? What kind of men are most attractive in the eyes of women?
At this time, I think there must be a lot of men who say without thinking - money, I do not deny, wealth, power, reputation, all have a pivotal role, but in fact, many people in the relationship, do not have so much time, or absolutely rational to search for this information.
In the relationship between the sexes, in fact, attraction is always the core cornerstone, after all, this person can not have a long-term relationship without a little bit of appreciation and admiration.
Behind "I love you", there must be a lot of affirmation and appreciation for this person, but many men are confused, do not know how to become the object of love in women's hearts, so look for a lot of sister cheats, disguised as a variety of, he thought it would attract women's appearance, but in fact, in the female perspective, the vast majority of attraction to them often start from these aspects.
External image
It is nature to love beauty, and women are no exception, and everyone will unconsciously like something pleasing to the eye.
Wilde once said:
"Even love is purely a physiological problem and has nothing to do with our personal will."
We all know that when a man and a woman walk together, a hormone will be produced on the body, and "phenylaminopropionic acid" will increase secretion, making people emotionally high and producing a feeling of joy. When the concentration increases and two people are affected by this hormone at the same time, the feelings become the strongest, so this feeling and relationship is usually defined as "love".
Therefore, between men and women, often the initial feelings are changed from the physiological beginning, and the external image can more directly promote the change of this hormone.
It is said that love at first sight is to see the color, and the appearance of the person actually plays a crucial role, which may be temperament, may be skin, and may just happen that the man's speech and actions are in line with the aesthetics of women, thus infinitely exaggerating the excellence of the opposite sex, and constantly giving her what she thinks is good in men.
Personality traits
I have received many private messages from men asking "I like a girl, I don't know how to pursue it more easily successful, please ask what type of man the girl really likes"
I have to say that this question is a bit too broad.
Everyone likes the type, the pattern of yearning for the relationship is different, some people like gentlemen, some people like warm men, but also some people just like the big boys who are bad and bad.
But what ultimately attracts women is the magnified epitome of their own personality traits. A person's appearance is important, his economic situation is important, his knowledge is important, but his personality is the most important.
There are always men who will misread the word personality, either too pandering to submission, or too revealing themselves to pose as a man, thinking that this is masculinity, and thinking that women will like the type of security.
Good character is not to bow down to the woman of your choice, nor is it to pretend to be indifferent to everything in order to win favors, but self-confidence but not pride, witty and humorous but know how to respect, that is a kind of cultivation, but also a synthesis of emotional intelligence and intelligence.
As mentioned in "How to Make your loved one fall in love with you", the sublimation of love stems from the massage of self-esteem, that is, after two people are together, they must let each other feel that after he (she) and himself are together, they have inexplicably become so good, so excellent, met you, met the right person, and they can be so good.
One of the techniques of this series of spiritual massages is to praise, rather than constantly showing their excellence and waiting for the admiration and applause of the other party.
Personality manifestation also requires skill, need to express themselves, but also in the right way to express, right will accept, in order to like.
It's not about just kneeling and licking, or showing off your excellence. More critically, in addition to personality, you must be loyal, that is not simply the attribute of your personality, but women want you to be loyal only to yourself.
Men's work
A person's work reflects not only economic value and social status, but also integrates a series of lifestyles and ideas.
People of different work nature, natural temperament, vision and preferences, and even the circle of contact will be very different, so what attracts a woman often starts from the man's work, and does not rule out the reality of self-interest, such as income and future prospects, will become the reason for attracting women's admiration.
Floral butterflies are not simply aimed at women, and it is not necessary to have enough spending power to attract women, but anyone who has the characteristics of attracting women can get the other party's favor and like you.
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(Author: Xiao Yu, psychological counselor, focusing on the emotional field), good at the restoration of romantic relationships, marital contradictions and differences, and the healing of psychological trauma caused by the original ecological family. The lonely journey of life, listening to your grievances and pressures, helping visitors improve their skills in getting along with the sexes, saving their lovers, managing their feelings, and striving to become happier people.