Many boys feel that if they like a girl, they should boldly show their hearts, so they and the other party did not know each other for a long time to stupidly confess, resulting in friends can not do, in fact, confession is really not the necessary process of chasing girls, chasing girls is a relationship to a certain extent after the water to come to fruition.
Of course, there are exceptions, that is, if both sides are introverted and implicit people, obviously both sides like each other, know each other's feelings, and have reached the best time to confess, but they are embarrassed to break through this layer of window paper until the final patience disappears and returns to plainness.
For such a relationship, as a boy, it is still necessary for us to bravely confess, so when is it more appropriate to confess?
You should know that it is not certain that the girl has a good feeling for you and can directly confess to her, only when you have experienced a period of time in an intimate relationship, the feelings tend to be stable, you can confess.
If you find that a girl likes herself, you will immediately go to confess to her, which will often cause a series of unpredictable consequences such as the girl's sudden decline in interest in you, or the reverse insecurity.
Therefore, the timing of our confession is as far as possible when the girl's emotions are high, a person is in a calm state and a state of high emotions, and the attitude towards confession is absolutely different.
When we are calm, there will be a lot of messy thoughts in our heads, and we are more inclined to weigh the pros and cons. At this time, you go to confess to her, and the girl will think about a lot of "serious" questions: Is this going to be together? Will there be no freedom in the future? Oh my God I'm so nervous what to do? So you are likely to get a non-committal answer, a good confession is procrastinating, the sense of ceremony is gone, the romance is gone, this is definitely not what you want, nor is it what girls like.
When emotions are high, the thinking will be single, and it is more likely to be dominated by emotions. In particular, this high emotion is driven by you, and girls will focus their attention on you and then be easily guided by you. For example, find a cozy tavern, drink a little wine with her, chat happily, under the double blessing of good mood and slight drunkenness, the girl's rationality is suppressed, and her sensibility is extremely active. At this time, she looks at you more and more pleasantly, which is a good time to confess.
Of course, just choosing the right timing is not enough without the right method.
So when confessing, what can be done to succeed?
1, the performance is natural
When confessing, you must first adjust your emotions, and you must behave naturally, because your emotions will drive the emotions of girls. If you behave naturally, the girl will be more relaxed, her mood will be relaxed, and the effect of confession will be better.
2, do not be too solemn
Some people are misled by television and think that girls like the kind of special pomp and circumstance confession ceremony. When the male protagonist confesses on tv, he pulls up a group of friends and puts candles and flowers in public, which is big enough, and then his friends will encourage the melon-eating crowd around him to shout and cheer together, shouting "together", and he is holding a bouquet of roses on one knee: Is it okay to be my girlfriend? Then the girl was touched and nodded her head in agreement with tears. In reality, the girl will only be embarrassed to the point of self-esteem, and cry out in her heart how I will see people tomorrow, whether I am going to die socially... Then flee the scene at a high speed. Next, the cleaning uncles and aunts use the ultimate weapon: the fire extinguisher, to draw a colorful end to your confession ceremony.
For most ordinary girls, this is the case, and the grand confession makes her super uncomfortable, feeling only an extreme sense of embarrassment. It is best to choose a place with fewer people, a relatively private environment. In this way, on the one hand, you can express yourself more delicately, on the other hand, girls are more willing to feel your affection in a secure environment. Moreover, using body language is better than spoken language! For example, after the eyes of two people collide, gently grab her hand, and then kiss the back of the hand, as long as the girl does not resist, it is equivalent to you have silently declared together.