It is said that poor couples are sad, and the following hot search is exactly so.
Recently, Jinhua, Zhejiang.
Because the family is tight, the wife borrows money from the mother to buy milk powder for the child, while the husband wants to buy a cigarette for the uncle who has a birthday, and the two disagree and quarrel.
The child's mother told that the child's milk powder money was borrowed by her mother, although the price of a cigarette is not high, but she feels that she should take care of the child first, but the child's father wants to buy cigarettes on the uncle's birthday and help the original people.
In the end, after the two people's unit learned of the matter, they advanced their wages in advance and funded the purchase of milk powder for the child.
Seeing this hot search, the heart is a little uncomfortable, just as the first one in the hot search: Alas, I just want to say that I want to regenerate the baby, milk powder can't afford to buy ...
Others have questioned, "Aren't the poor worthy of having children?" ”
I agree with the following netizen.
Don't say anything to give children a super rich life, that is, the minimum daily necessities must have money to buy it (food, clothing, school), if these are no money, it feels still not good, of course, no one can stop others from having children, just bitter children.
But the child has been born, and since this is the case, parents should take responsibility.
Parents who are incompetent and irresponsible are just suffering their children.
You don't need to be rich and able to live the life of an ordinary person.
Xiaobian feels that as long as it is a healthy person, down-to-earth, with their own hands can support the family.
But ordinary people's lives have priorities,
As this netizen said:
Mr. survival, after life; children's food and clothing is the root of survival, and the uncle's human feelings are a kind of life.
In the case of not being able to meet the needs of food and clothing, the problem of survival should be considered first. And then think about the problem of face,
To put it badly, children can't eat milk powder, can they still take care of face, it's rotten.
At this point, this man is really doing a terrible job.
I can understand that men want face, but they should be more pragmatic, see the current situation clearly, and solve problems.
Although in the end the company came forward to pay wages and bought milk powder, it only solved the urgent need, and it was also known by everyone in the company, and the face was lost even more, presumably this was also what he did not expect.
I would also like to say that this woman is really good, her starting point is not wrong at all, why can't you understand her?
It is said that having a child is a lot to consider.
In addition to financial manpower.
The woman is pregnant, confinement, lactation, postpartum recovery, and reinstatement.
Whoever brings the child, the mother brings it herself, or ask the nanny or the elderly to bring it.
Family division of labor, children's education, income expenditure, interpersonal relationships, and so on.
As long as he gives birth to a child, there will be endless things, such as eating and drinking Lazar, food, clothing, shelter, joy and sorrow.
Worried that he was abducted and sold and lost, he had to stare at him when he went out, he had to take care of him carefully when he was sick, he had to clean up the mess when he made a mistake, and he had to teach carefully afterwards.
What is more difficult is to teach him to develop good habits of behavior, moral character, to explore his potential, and to cultivate a sound personality.
Having children, only to find out how hard it is to be a conscientious parent.
Many people often tell the editor that as long as the child is born, in short, it will not starve to death.
Of course, I know that children will starve to death.
But the problem is that having a baby is not a bite to eat!
In addition to money, it is more for parents to invest a lot of time and energy.
Whether to have children should really be well considered and planned, and never because of a momentary impulse to brew unexpected fruits.
Also beware of imposing your own desires on your children.
It is better to hope that the son will become a dragon or a girl into a phoenix than to improve yourself.
Text/Song Qian
Be true to yourself and love life.