Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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Love will make people blossom in the right feelings.
Love will make people in front of the wrong people, it is difficult to withstand half a bit of snow, rain and frost!
Love has two extremes, one end is a honeypot and the other end is poison.
The right person will make you fall into a honeypot and be full of energy every day. The wrong person will leave you devastated and irreparable.
Most women are blind and irrational in the face of feelings, so much so that they always crave love and are afraid of love.
Only a small number of women, accompanied by reason, pay selfless affection to people who deserve it, and finally reap the consummation.
For a woman who is blind in her feelings, love is nothing more than a disaster for her. Because, she always makes herself helpless and scarred in the days when she can't distinguish between true and false.
Feelings are a gamble for the rest of your life. Winning a bet is an investment that doubles its return, and gambling and losing is a nightmare that you won't wake up for the rest of your life.
Therefore, in the face of unworthy people and wrong relationships, stopping losses in time is the best respect for yourself. When you know how to respect yourself in your feelings, you can be in the most correct posture and be in the feelings.
Only in this way can you meet, love, and accompany the right person!
At present, we often see some women, who are pandering to and humble to men, but men have evolved from the initial pity and intolerance to the dispensable or more than a glance.
In particular, in the face of men's various sudden disconnections and decisions, women are always approaching more than once in the analysis of various self-flaws.
However, blindly posting and kneeling and licking is just a contempt for oneself! You say, such an act will be exchanged for a man's sincerity?
You know, men who really love you are absolutely reluctant to suddenly break off or often disconnect from you! All the sudden disconnections are "premeditated"!
The man who loves you may turn off the phone on impulse, so that you can't contact him. However, after the mood subsides, he will definitely take the initiative to come to you! Because, he is reluctant for you to keep unhappy for too long.
However, if a man always breaks off from you suddenly from time to time, and you need to be hot more than once to approach you to give you a little tenderness, he must not love you!
At least, he doesn't love you as much as you think!
The man who often breaks off contact with you does not love you, and you will stop looking for him, there is no point! Letting go is the best choice. The reason is simple:
1: People who are too hot will never be cherished
Looking at the real emotional world, the people who have experienced it or seen and heard are all overheated people, which is even more "despised" in people's bones.
Yes, in the face of a deeply loved person, in the face of a relationship that wants to last for a long time, we are often willing to ignore the pain of ignoring ourselves. Even, in order to make the other party like, we do not hesitate to do the look that we think he likes.
However, in the end, in a relationship, the way he likes it is only our own "self-righteousness"!
Love is mutual! If you can't get the response you expect, and you still blindly post, that is the beginning of self-cheapness, the inevitable end of others' contempt!
Love needs to be built on pleasing each other. When a man often takes the initiative to disconnect from you, and every time he needs you to post and pester, he gives you some response, there is no doubt that this is a manifestation of unlove!
Don't be too self-examining in a relationship! Even if you have too many flaws, it is common for him to take the initiative to break off the connection, which means that he can't accept you before, and he can't accept you in the future!
What's more, you may not be really that bad, aren't you?
Second: People who always make you "unreliable" have never loved you so much
Some people say that a woman's sense of security comes from herself! This sentence is very correct, but there is a necessary premise:
Security, before getting involved in love, is 100% solid! After getting involved in love, the sense of security for feelings is never just a matter of one person!
If, someone is completely convinced that a person will establish a sense of security through himself after getting involved in love, and there will be no fluctuation in the direction of the person in front of him, he must not have really experienced what it is to fall in love with a person.
Anyone, as long as they move affectionately, will definitely have more or less moments of lack of security. Because, he is afraid that if he does not do well, he will reduce the praise in his other half's heart!
However, the lack of security is divided into two types: rationality and sensibility. A sane woman will correctly analyze whether the lack of security needs to do better or needs to stop losses in time. Only emotional women will constantly doubt themselves and lose themselves.
So that rational women, most of them know that when a man often takes the initiative to break off the connection with himself and always makes himself unreliable, she will definitely withdraw in time and not be consumed indefinitely.
The man who loves you occasionally makes you unsteady, that is your emotional thinking. Often the habit of making you unsure disconnected, he must not love you enough, so he ignores your feelings!
Third: People who truly love you are absolutely reluctant to break up with you
Falling in love does not mean that there are no contradictions. There are contradictions, does not mean that everyone will be good at solving problems!
So, when some unpleasantness comes, some men will use the "both sides calm" and the most unacceptable way for women to let each other cross the moment of anger and then solve it.
In this way of solving, there will be a short disconnection, but the person who takes the initiative after a short disconnect must be him to "coax you". Instead of relying on your countless messages and countless phone calls that have been hung up, he "pitied" you and gave you some handouts.
A short disconnect will definitely not exceed one day. Men who truly love you will not let your contradictions "stay overnight" with the Cold War phenomenon. Because, he is afraid that you will be in such a period of time, thinking wildly, and finally really give up!
On the contrary, a man is often a little conflicted (no matter how big or small) and starts to play disappear, disconnect, or nothing happens he suddenly breaks the connection, and the length of the disconnection will exceed 2-3 days, he must not love you. At most, you're his spare tire!
How can a man who truly loves you make you suffer from gain and loss, wash your face with tears, and be anxious in a long wait?
Disconnection, whether active or passive, is the final test of true love.
When a man is always disconnected from you more than once, seriously, you don't want to look for him again! If, he is really so serious about this relationship, he will definitely take a serious attitude.
But the connection can be disconnected from time to time, which is obviously not the correct posture for seriousness.
If you still have illusions about the man who often breaks off contact with you, needs you to be infinitely humble and hot, and takes the initiative to find him, so that the relationship can barely continue in your caution, please ask yourself:
What exactly are you involved in love for? Is it to reap happiness for the love of two directions, or to grievance yourself to cater to a person who does not love himself and feel pain?
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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