Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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When a woman can still argue with you, her heart you can still get back! When a woman becomes quiet, you have to be careful:
Must have saved enough disappointment and is leaving!
In the interaction between men and women, men will always "overestimate" the pressure of women and overestimate their "charm". Therefore, when countless contradictions come, they will use the most poignant language and behavior to make women sad, disappointed, and finally desperate!
In this regard, friends have the deepest feeling. He said:
"Once upon a time, I always thought that the woman was unkind, had to "oppose" herself everywhere, and "bound" herself at all times. However, in order for me not to lose the dignity and status of a man in this marriage, I either spoke harshly to her or ignored her with cold violence.
Later, she was really "honest". However, not long after, when I felt the crisis, I saw the divorce agreement she took out!
And just like that, I lost her completely. After she left, I realized how much I loved her. However, I no longer have the ability to chase her in the first place!
Because, she was disappointed in me to a certain extent! She no longer wants to give me her trust! ”
In fact, in the relationship, what is the win or lose? Two people have a problem, and solving the problem is the key! If anyone wants to use their strength and self to overwhelm each other and satisfy their "sense of achievement". Well, he must be a loser in the relationship.
You know, no one wants to be a grievance ghost in a relationship, and they are willing to be a little baby, right?
In the relationship, the real big winner is to solve the problem under the premise that it does not affect each other's feelings!
It's just that some people don't understand! In particular, for individual men, they don't have more patience to analyze what a woman's basket of really means. There is no more patience to care for a woman's emotions.
Therefore, in many women it is deeply felt:
I have broken the truth so much, why don't you understand?
Over time, the woman didn't say it, and the man thought he had won! In fact, it was the woman who was completely disappointed! Anything about men, it doesn't matter!
Some men may feel that sensible women love themselves. In fact, women who are desperate and women who don't love you are very sensible!
Men and women interact, women are completely disappointed, there will be the following performance, men should feel with their hearts, which is very good for you:
First: Stop arguing with you
Some men say: I hate quarrels, spend too much time wasting on quarrels, really bored to death!
But who wants to argue?
There are women who make unreasonable trouble. However, most women's quarrels are only because they can't stand it, and they have to express their demands and feelings and tell the necessary truths.
However, in the face of such normal emotions, men rarely reflect on what they have done enough, but do not pay for women's emotions. Thus, the normal mood of the woman perfectly evolved into unnecessary quarrels.
In the end, men ignore women's language because of countless times of introspection, and only see women send out emotions that annoy themselves, resulting in women being sad, disappointed, and desperate in such "countless times". Then it was quiet.
Try your best to do things, no results, encounter problems, always can not be well solved! Then, it is "useless to say more".
Instead of meaninglessly letting yourself be consumed, it is better to live yourself. As for men, if they don't care, they won't affect their emotions!
Second: become very "sensible"
Sensible women who don't love you that much or have never loved you!
In the interaction between men and women, there is never a woman who understands things all the time. Women who know the general body will also have their own small willfulness, small temper, and small personality.
Therefore, men must not over-beautify women, so that they cannot look directly at the flaws of women's normal existence.
Once upon a time, when you drank too much wine, she scolded you while boiling soup and cleaning up the food for you.
Later, you drank too much and she didn't scold anymore. Other behaviors that care about you also depend on her mood to do it.
Once upon a time, when you had too much contact with the opposite sex, she would talk to you formally and even check your phone.
Later, even if she bumped into you and someone else who had crossed the line, she was calm and calm, and she never touched your mobile phone again.
Once upon a time, wherever you went, as long as you came back late, she would make countless phone calls to ask questions, and when she came back, she would break the casserole like a detective and ask the end.
Later, you just didn't return all night, and she didn't have a phone call!
Don't think that she has been "conquered" by you and does not dare to make you again. In fact, she was disappointed to a certain extent, and desperate.
If, you "cherish" her current understanding, you must be a very sad man!
Third: After the desperate love, you are dispensable
Why did your "broken horse" woman disappear before? Because, in her heart, you are dispensable! Even, she's ready to leave you!
Don't argue, don't make trouble, all the face you want is given to you, all the words you say she doesn't refute, what you are willing to do and what you do, there is no restriction on you...
Congratulations, you are really free! Moreover, it is the freedom of "widowhood"!
In this world, the saddest person is to push the person who loves him deeply to the cold place with his own hands, and finally the person carries a body of frost and allows himself to suffer unexpected reaction.
When a woman's heart is cold to a certain extent, her former heat of love will suddenly decrease to the freezing point. At this time, she will be unusually calm and sensible. No words or deeds of a man will make any waves in her heart.
Moreover, at this time, the woman, facing the feelings in front of her, is also deeply dispensable.
The reason why I have not been able to leave immediately is because of the final respect for the feelings I once had - to give men the last chance to self-reflect and change!
If this last chance is still not grasped by the man, then the woman will really leave.
At any time, men should not think that the woman who loves him deeply will be extremely sensible, and do not think that you have not quarreled in a relationship.
As a man, no matter how much you feel good about yourself, you must admit that in an emotional relationship, when there is a contradiction, you have too much self, which is the cause of the contradiction.
Many times, a woman's emotions only need a man's words, which will immediately turn women from anger to joy.
You know, your woman, really, is probably not being unreasonable! Most likely, you, as a man, are not doing well enough.
When the woman who is tired of you at all times does not understand things and find quarrels, men and women should choose to reflect on themselves first, whether they are really so "perfect" and do not need to change!
When men and women interact, it is often easy to love each other and difficult to keep love. Don't be happy at first sight, don't get tired of it for a long time!
Life is short, and do and cherish!
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