Today, let's talk about what things babies cry about. Learning to recognize crying and unlocking your baby's cry code is the beginning of building trust and affection with your baby, and it is also an essential skill for every parent
Babies cry a lot, which can be these reasons
First, people's sleep can be divided into two categories: shallow sleep and deep sleep, about 3-4 hours at night alternately, the baby may alternate between deep sleep and light sleep for a shorter time, about 2-3 hours to exchange once. Adults and many babies who sleep all night, when shallow sleep arrives, can better self-adjust and re-enter deep sleep, and there are many small babies and even many adults, there is no way to self-adjust to sleep, so they wake up from shallow sleep, so the baby cries at night.
Second, wet diapers, urinary intention. Because the diaper is too wet or too tight, it will also make the baby uncomfortable, some babies want to pee when they are not willing to pee easily on the diaper, will also turn over and unstable, careful mothers can observe it, the symptoms of treatment, will effectively solve the problem of the baby crying at night.
3. Bloating. Less than one year old baby is prone to bloating problems, if you eat too much before going to bed, or there is no hiccup exhaust after drinking milk, the baby will wake up due to bloating, most of the older babies are eating indigestible food within a few hours before going to bed, as long as you pay attention to the baby massage, exhaust and adjust the diet can solve the problem of the baby crying at night, the baby who has accumulated food can use a little Chinese medicine treatment.
Is the baby crying?
First, the baby will have separation anxiety from the age of 1, 1-3 years old to reach the peak, with age, the baby can be aware of the existence of self, in the "mother-infant symbiosis" stage, lack of security. For example, when your baby first goes to kindergarten, he tries everything he can to escape, in large part because he doesn't want to leave his mother or a familiar caregiver.
Second, the cry is suppressed, very loud, rhythmic, and there are no tears, the time is relatively short, sometimes it is more like shouting twice, and the mood is relatively stable.
Third, hungry and thirsty for these needs. Each baby sends out a different signal, such as the most common hunger, some babies are low crying, rhythmic, some babies are high-pitched, continuous these signals need to be grasped and understood by mothers themselves. For example, when my baby is hungry, his crying is very high-pitched, and the corners of his mouth are pressed down, revealing a special aggrieved small expression, and the baby's boredom needs. In particular, do not think that the baby does not know boredom, from the baby 6 weeks will be bored, some babies need adult babies to solve boredom, some babies need adults to play with to solve boredom.
What should I do if I cry?
First, moderate comfort or gentle touch can effectively alleviate the baby's emotions.
Second, breastfeeding mothers try to avoid eating irritating or caffeinated, alcoholic foods and drinks, so as not to affect the baby's emotional response.
Third, hugging can effectively soothe the baby's emotions, may wish to hug him more.
If the baby is crying, the parents should make timely decisions and nursing behaviors according to the baby's age and actual situation and the baby's state, so as to avoid the baby being more uncomfortable. Welcome to the following exchange of parenting experience, I am willing to listen to it~