Text/Moran
I have always felt that loving someone is to have a weak rib and be held by the other party at all times. When you love someone, you are reluctant to argue and argue with the other party, but you will become soft.
Maybe usually a person is more tough, but in front of the person who loves, it seems to become a different look, without the previous attitude, but will become very weak, which is probably the power of love.
In fact, the person who really loves you must be the one who will make concessions for you and change for you. Therefore, love will make people soft, and even the years with each other are gentle.
I once heard the saying that true love is actually softer than anyone's heart. Because the person who loves you is always the first to compromise.
If you say that with a person, he has not given in the slightest concession or change, in fact, it means that he does not love you so much. If you don't love, it doesn't matter, and you don't care about your feelings.
But when a person will lose because of you, and the person who once seemed unruly will actually take the initiative to apologize, admit his mistakes, and realize his problems, then he must be because of love.
Loving a person will change because of the other party, in fact, it is not so much a change, but more afraid of loss. The person who loves you is more afraid of losing you than the truth.
Therefore, good love is always soft, will consider each other, and will try to make each other happy, absolutely reluctant to see you wronged and sad.
I have seen the love of many people, and for the kind of people who must win everything, in fact, they have never understood love. True love is compromise, it is concession, it is willingness to soften oneself.
For the person who truly loves you, he should realize that nothing is more important than losing you. For the so-called results, success, are far less important than you come.
Probably if you love someone, you will not make concessions yourself, because loving you, it seems that winning is not so important. People who don't love you will only think about themselves, do things decisively and crisply, and never have a little emotional color.
In fact, most people never want a result, but an attitude of the other party. Especially for a woman, as long as the other party is willing to make concessions and say a few nice words, nothing will happen.
If a person cannot compromise because of this, then he loves himself more. Feelings are not male or female, it is always to see how much a person loves you.
And the person who really loves you has always been the one who is soft-hearted, and would rather wronged himself than see you wronged and sad.
Love will make people softer and softer, and it will also make the loved one feel a burst of warmth.
People with soft hearts are not without temper, but they care more about you. He knows your weaknesses and will not fight back, but is more tolerant of you.
The softer the person, the more he loves you more than you think. Because I love you, I am willing to surrender my weapons. Regarding love or not, a person's attitude speaks for itself.
A cruel person, he does not consider the love between you, he pays more attention to reality. And people with soft hearts care more about you.
Sometimes the soft-hearted forgiveness and tolerance are not not calculating, but because the other party is the person they love the most, more important than anything, so they willingly choose tolerance and compromise.
So, the rest of your life is not very long, be sure to be with someone who loves you. The person who loves you will feel sorry for you, will always remember your preciousness, and cherish it more than you do.
People who don't love you will trample on it and make your life bleak and worthless.