Text/July Chang'an
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There are countless people in the world, and their personalities are very different.
There are optimistic and positive, some are outspoken, some are grumpy, and some are more taciturn.
The silent person, on the surface, seems to be not good at words, shows in front of people with a kind of honest image, but behind the silence, there is a fiery heart - that heart accumulates strength in silence, and once the time is ripe, it will erupt like a volcano and make a big splash.
Albert Einstein, the world's most famous and admired physicist, once said: "The monotony of a quiet life is the best contributor to my imagination." ”
He is a taciturn person, immersed in the world he has created, devoted himself to academics, and finally achieved very significant achievements.
Never underestimate a taciturn man, because he has a shining golden light on his body, and once he breaks through the shackles, he soars into the sky.
01. Silent people, more independent and focused
I like the poetic words: "If there is an afterlife, be a tree, stand in an eternal posture, without sorrow and joy." Half serene in the soil, half flying in the wind, half sprinkled shade, half bathed in sunshine, very silent, very proud, never dependent, never looking. ”
With a silent heart, actively facing the sun or rain and dew, never complaining, never looking for dependence, I am a beautiful landscape, and strive to stand as I want.
Silent people know how to manage themselves, with an independent character to open up a piece of their own sky, in their eyes, Silent is just to better enrich their hearts, so that they can do what they want, without the slightest concern, all the way through the thorns, perhaps there are countless falls, but after falling, they stand up again and again.
They are convinced that in this world, no one can rely on a lifetime, only on their own, independent, even if they have failed countless times, they still stand in an eternal and undefeated posture.
I am independent, I am proud; I am independent, I am silent; I am independent, with the same system of change.
I remember that there was once a very taciturn classmate, who never said anything to people and was very introverted in personality.
But it is such a talent is terrible, his independence is always stronger than ours, a person is always immersed in the world of books, relying on himself to overcome one problem after another, and finally jumped from the achievements of the middle and upper reaches to the first place in the whole grade.
Silence is not closed in the heart, but immersed in a certain aspect with a focused heart, or academic or academic, and dare not waste time talking to people, so it is difficult to think unsuccessfully.
02. Silencers, a better mindset
When people live for a lifetime, mentality is the most important.
Those with a positive attitude, everything in the world is sunshine and rain; those with a negative mentality, even if the sun is shining, are like living in the dark.
The silent, who does not speak to the people, does not argue, and treats them with a calm heart.
There is a saying that goes: "Explicitly ignoring someone is not complete disregard." But silence is the highest disregard, and the highest disregard is speechlessness, and not even the eyeballs roll over. ”
This kind of person has a very good mentality, always maintain a kind of light and cloudy, the more fierce you are, the more stable I am like Taishan, the more anxious you are, the more I am unmoving, they know the truth of taking a step back from the sea and the sky, do not calculate, and do not retaliate with tit-for-tat.
Except silence is silence, and wordlessness is speechlessness.
Disdain for the immediate argument, nor disdain for wasting time with others, laughing at it, laughing at it, laughing at the enmity, in fact, their hearts are just a kind of disregard, ignoring the impetuous superficiality of the perpetrator, ignoring the impulsiveness of the person in front of them, and the mentality is as solid as a rock, unaffected by any influence.
A wise man said to his disciple, "Why argue with people about their heights and quarrels, but it is only a bad mentality, and it is the best response to treat them with silence." ”
There are too many disputes and quarrels in our lives, if we have a good mentality, we will be silent, and try to restrain our impulses, which will save ourselves a lot of time and effort.
Silent people, no quarrel, the mentality is always as bright as the sun.
03. Silence is golden, don't underestimate a taciturn person
This sentence is well said:
"That is the self who can work silently for a goal, do not complain, do not be impetuous, are not afraid of loneliness, can handle loneliness well, silent but hard working yourself, one day, we can be strong enough not to disturb our inner peace." 」
Adjusting his mind in silence, the wind smiled lightly.
Realize yourself in silence, abandon the attraction of the outside world, grasp the shadow of silence, and fill your heart.
In silence it flows like a small stream, to the rivers and seas, to the poetic distance of longing, where there must be stars and the sea.
Not to sink in silence, not to be helpless in silence, to erupt in silence, to achieve everything in silence.
Silence is golden, don't underestimate a taciturn person.
They are positive in their hearts, they have the stars in their hearts, they are the wind, they are the rain, they are the sunshine and the rain, they do not argue with others, and they concentrate on their own affairs wholeheartedly.
I used to dislike my cousin very much, because he was always silent, but one day my cousin went to a prestigious university and soared to the sky, only to know that his silence was only an outward phenomenon, and the fiery concentration of the heart was king.
Those who underestimate silence are shallow in vision, and those who must not know that silence have already spread their wings and soared.
Underestimating the silent person is the narrowness of the heart, and when you despise others, others have already despised you in their hearts a hundred times.
Underestimating silent people is ignorant, and their strength is unimaginable to you.
You should never underestimate a taciturn person.
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