Many female friends will wonder about a problem, that is, the other party has changed later in the relationship. When pursuing sweet words, when they were just together, they were also happy and romantic, but instead they were unusually indifferent in the later stages of communication, so they were very dissatisfied and painful, why did the man who was deeply in love and active at the beginning change his appearance.
Some people feel that it is inevitable that two people have become a family, and some people feel that they will no longer cherish it after they have it.
However, in a relationship, men become more and more cold, for no other reason than these reasons, but because each is not a difficult problem to solve.
Tired of it
Everything in this world has a shelf life, and feelings are no exception.
A man suddenly has a noticeable change in attitude, not simply because he is too busy, but because he is tired of the relationship or even you as a person.
The initial greater probability of love is due to the influence of hormones, the hormone concentration changes, the freshness is over, and it is tired.
In fact, if you really separate, he may miss or even regret it, but at the moment, there is really no feeling, and even feel that you are annoyed.
The food is delicious, eating for too long will be tasteless, the game is not updated, and no new tricks will feel boring.
The same is true of people, when their attitude is obviously different, you should realize that you are actually tired.
No more love
There is no love so much, and the natural attitude changes.
We may not be able to identify the authenticity and depth of each other's feelings 100% accurately from words, but we must be able to feel the love from the details of the attitude.
Everyone's way of expressing love is different, to distinguish his feelings, the person has been deeply loved and concerned about you, the most right to speak, but also the most accurate, because you have truly seen his good and warm state, the contrast is the most obvious.
Even if he thinks you are cute like a kitten, he will hate you at this moment, promising that your life is not fake, and it is also true that this moment has changed.
Don't do it, don't make excuses for each other, face the problem of two people, in order to find the best way to deal with it and find the limit of stop loss.
Meet someone who is more suitable for you
Change, not necessarily you are not good, or there is some irreconcilable contradiction, to put it bluntly, he has found that he has found someone more suitable for him than you.
People are all interested in profit and avoid harm, especially men will consider problems more rationally, and will instinctively choose a person who is more favorable to themselves.
It may be that the other party is gentle and considerate like a sister like a mother, it may be that the other party is capable and can become their own help, or even the other party's superior family can become their own springboard to reduce their own pressure.
Overall, having someone who is more favorable to themselves will naturally change when it comes to facing you. There is the desire to leave, and there is also the instinctive dislike, after all, under the balance of comparison, he is more inclined to another person.
A period of tuning for indulgence
Men in order to pursue the desired woman faster, generally will do whatever it takes to get the lover's heart as soon as possible, but it will be low posture or even kneeling licking, but the maintenance of long-term relationships can not be sustained by anyone, the change in men's attitude at this moment is not empathy, but in the adjustment of the mode of relationship together, or their own position in the relationship.
Women are prone to insecurity, and often use small tempers to test feelings, but at this time men may feel hard, so they want to take back the initiative.
But at this turning point, excessive "doing" or ignoring violence may really bring the relationship to an abrupt end.
Therefore, this is not an easy task for women, because women care too much about what they feel, and they are more likely to be emotional, and it is easy to be hysterical in the face of attitude gaps, and love is still there.
Women should understand that the only man in this world who can spoil you into a princess is his father, and no matter how much the lover or husband loves you, he will not always hold you like a daughter in the palm of his hand, so using mature thinking and ways to solve problems and handle relationships will make himself less hurt, and he can also manage his feelings without losing love.
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Text/Relief Emotional Station
(Author: Xiao Yu, psychological counselor, focusing on the emotional field), good at the restoration of romantic relationships, marital contradictions and differences, and the healing of psychological trauma caused by the original ecological family. The lonely journey of life, listening to your grievances and pressures, helping visitors improve their skills in getting along with the sexes, saving their lovers, managing their feelings, and striving to become happier people.