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The ancients said: "Sometimes there must be something in fate, and there is no time to demand it in fate." ”
There are some things that fate should belong to you, and you can have them anyway. And some things do not belong to you in the first place, so even if you force them, you will not get them.
Just like people's lives, some people are born with rich and noble lives, a lifetime of smoothness, both to meet opportunities, but also to meet nobles, not to worry about eating and drinking, a lifetime of peace and stability.
And some people in this life, either through hardships, or in the misfortune of struggling, completely live a "unsatisfactory things often eight or nine" life.
Many times, we are thinking, why is there such a big difference in the fate of people. It is not a question of ability, nor is it a question of talent, but a question of "destiny".
Ten years ago, two entrepreneurs went looking for investors, one talented and the other mediocre, but their projects were both profitable. In the end, others chose the latter and abandoned the former.
A few years later, the investor and the former met by chance. Talented, he asked the investor: "My project is definitely better than his, why didn't you choose me?" ”
The investor replied with only one sentence: "In the case of similar interests, we still have to look at fate." ”
Whether life is good or not, in fact, we can only change part of it. And the rest is arranged by Heaven. You will eventually understand that people who are born with a "good fate" have these encounters.
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People who are born with a good fate have great "chances".
What is "chance"? That's what we often call "opportunity" and "fate.". When you get the chance, you'll be able to jump on the top. And when you encounter fate, then you will have more noble people around you and less villains.
However, is this so-called opportunity and fate really something we can fully grasp? Not necessarily.
For example, twenty years ago, a large number of people discovered the opportunities of the Internet, did these people succeed in getting rich? Unfortunately, 99 percent of them became stepping stones to the 1 percent elite.
Can we say that these 99% of Internet entrepreneurs do not work hard?
Again, there are some opportunities that should belong to you, as long as you jump lightly, you can get it. And some opportunities do not belong to you, then no matter how you jump, you can't reach them.
Another example is the nobleman of fate. Why did he appreciate the talented Zhang San instead of the talented Li Si? This is the problem of fate.
Those who are born with a good destiny have more opportunities than we can imagine.
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People who are born with a good destiny have a clear direction in the "subconscious".
We might as well think about the question, why do we take the initiative to do something? Why did we make that choice?
From the perspective of human psychology, any behavior and choice is not unrelated to our "subconscious".
What kind of subconscious we have, then what kind of things we will make, what kind of choices we will make. It is these things and choices that determine our experiences for the rest of our lives.
Years ago, I had three friends who went to open a shop. Two friends partnered to open an offline store, while another friend opened an online store. And these three people are very familiar with the owner of the wholesale supply.
In recent years, the two friends who opened offline stores could not continue, and the stores closed. Friends who open online stores are mixed up and have already made a lot of money.
Many people have asked him, why did you choose to open an online store when the offline economy was so hot in the past?
The friend said this, "At that time, I didn't know if this online store could be bigger. But my inner voice kept telling me to try the online store. So I opened an online store. ”
In this world, although everyone has a subconscious mind, not everyone can go to the most brilliant future. Some people's "subconscious", that is smarter than the average person. In other words, these choices of theirs are predestined.
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People who are born with good destiny can "just happen" to do everything.
When people live one lifetime, we just want to be "just right".
It is just right to meet the person you love; it is just right to meet your own career; it is just right to meet the most coincidental opportunity. This life of a person is just a "just right" process.
For the three words "just right", the vast majority of people do not think so, thinking that they can not pass the customs by chance, but to win the others, and even to win the sky and half a son.
Two years ago, Lao Zhang's son and Lao Liu's son took the college entrance examination in the same year. In terms of daily performance, Lao Zhang's son can reach the 211 line every exam, while Lao Liu's son can't even reach a line.
However, after the college entrance examination results came out, people were stunned that Lao Zhang's son could not even pass the exam, while Lao Liu's son had just been admitted to the local 211, not much, not much, just right.
There are many things that are difficult to go along with our wishes. But we will understand that as long as we meet the "just right" future at the right level, that is enough.
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Write to the end
Whether a person's "life" is good or not depends not only on his personal ability, but also on his acquired performance.
The day after tomorrow there are opportunities, there are noble people to help, there are many good conditions to come to his side, then his life will not be worse.
On the other hand, if he has nothing, everything "just right" passes him, which is the real sadness.
That's all.
Wen/Shushan has deer