preface:
We all know that people are too close to each other, and it is not necessarily a good thing.
The trivialities of life will cause a lot of contradictions between each other.
Excessive estrangement can also affect feelings with those around you.
So interacting with each other is a very unique skill, and in my opinion it's also an art.
We interact differently as we age.
What's more, people of different ages have different views and perspectives on interpersonal relationships.
Young people feel that the more they interact with the people around them, the more enthusiastic they become.
Middle-aged people feel that people need to keep their distance when interacting with each other, and there is no need to get too close.
There is a saying that the friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, and this light relationship will make each other comfortable.
And the old man feels that only with his family is the happiest.
Therefore, people of different ages have different inner thoughts in interacting with the people around them.
When people reach a certain age, they must learn to know how to break away,
What kind of people to associate with or what kind of people to reject should be clear in your heart.
Social things will no longer be as important as when they were younger.
Therefore, more and more young people are willing to stay on their own in their free time and are not willing to interact with the people around them.
Maybe this behavior is very incomprehensible in the eyes of others.
But in my opinion, how to sit comfortably, so as not to go against my heart.
At the same time, a person means more freedom,
If a middle-aged person does not like to visit other people's homes, he is often caused by the following 4 reasons.
One. Unwilling to bother others
Everyone's personality is different, so the way of doing things for people is also different,
People who are reluctant to visit the door enjoy a pure land in their hearts, worried that going to other people's homes will disturb others.
We tend to be guests, and others will behave very friendly for face,
Therefore, the kind of people who don't like to visit the door often know how to think about others.
After all, each of us is busy every day, so most of the time we like to be alone.
No matter how luxurious and lively other people's homes are, some people feel that their homes are the most comfortable and comfortable.
So people who don't want to bother others, they will definitely earn respect.
Two. Worry about etiquette
We all know that the interaction between people should be mutual,
There is a kind of person who is reluctant to visit other people's homes for fear of causing trouble for themselves.
Of course, people who love to be lively will not worry about this happening.
On the contrary, those who are accustomed to being alone will love to be alone very much.
At the same time, the thought in my heart is that I don't want others to disturb me,
People around you over time will also know what kind of person you are, but it saves a lot of trouble.
Three. Use your precious time to do something meaningful
We all know that visiting the door requires a certain cost,
Some people are already frustrated in their lives and their jobs are a mess.
So they don't use precious time to do such meaningless things.
Visiting someone else's house will only ask about your work and relationship status, which will also make us very embarrassed.
So this kind of person is very clear-headed, but also knows the cruelty of life.
As adults, even if we have good friends around us, we still need to support and maintain ourselves after encountering difficulties.
It is so many and more people who are unwilling to use their precious time to do these meaningless things.
Four. Masquerade socializing
Each of us has in our hearts what we think are true friends and false friends,
True friends must be comfortable together,
And those fake friends getting along together is what we call masquerade socializing.
Meeting each other with smiling faces and chatting slightly awkwardly, this feeling will make us feel very uncomfortable inside.
At the same time, this is also finding unhappiness for yourself, so more and more times going to relatives has become a process.
So more and more people began to resist this kind of thing as masquerade socializing, and the relationship slowly began to alienate.
After reaching middle age, people do not go to relatives and friends not because they look down on each other, but because they look down a lot.
There is no need for a good relationship to contact every day, only when you need each other to help, so that you can be considered a real friend and family.
Conclusion:
From the above 4 points, it can be seen that people who do not like to visit the door actually have a reason.
After all, what people need after reaching middle age is a relaxed and quiet state of mind and state.
His own home is also the habitat of the soul, and he is even more reluctant to disturb others at will.
At the same time, people should also leave some privacy between themselves, so that they can live easily.
But I would like to advise everyone to feel the warmth of family affection when they get together,
When we are alone, we must also bear the burden of life, which is the happiness we most desire.
END.
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