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At the beginning, when the Museum of Broken Love was very popular, in the middle of a pavilion, I saw a mop wedding dress full of sequins.
Next to this wedding dress, the story of the girl and the past is written. That man, she had been obsessively in love for eight years.
The beginning of the story has now become blurred with the passage of time. As a result of the story, the boy turns around and marries someone else.
At the end, she wrote: "I didn't wait for the rain that turned the world upside down, nor did I wait for the you who said you would abandon the world for me, so I didn't wait." ”
1. All people know that you love him
When the song "Fog" was on fire, there was a saying on the Internet: 'When the fog is gone, the whole world knows that I love you.' “
You stand in front of me when the fog comes. When the fog clears, the bricks leave. From start to finish, it was just a one-man show for me.
All people know that you love the person in front of you, only the other person does not know. Or maybe he just pretended not to know.
In the end, everyone around you is trying to persuade you to give up. You can't give up, you can't put it down, you can't leave it, you make yourself a lot of holes, waiting for the other party to turn back.
But he won't look back. Didn't you know this result from the beginning? Why do we have to obsessively wait for an outcome that won't happen?
No matter how good your past is, everything you have has disappeared the moment the other party abandons you. They're just a bunch of the past.
You can't always indulge in the past. The calendar doesn't go back to last year, the train doesn't go to places off the tracks, those are all doomed.
2. Say goodbye and live up to the encounter
Anyone can love anyone very much, but not anyone can accompany anyone to the end.
Some people are destined to be just passers-by. It's a latte you buy at a convenience store, and when you're done drinking, you're going to throw it in the trash, not a treasure.
When the other person takes someone else's hand, even if one day he lets go, he is no longer your hero, not worth your repeated mistakes.
Any departure is a premeditated decision. It either has enough disappointment or it can't help but betray.
So, don't feel reluctant, you just gave up a relationship that no longer suits you, that person, is not the right choice.
Promise yourself not to find a lover in the trash, and don't waste the best time of your life for someone who doesn't deserve it.
Some people, meeting is fate, but when it is time to say goodbye, just wave goodbye, and after praying, don't meet again.
3. Memories are memories
If you really can't let go of the things that don't belong to you, listen to those who stand in the perspective of your ex.
I don't care about the little essays you write, and I don't want to receive those retained words at all. For me, it was just a burden. ‘
I will have my own life, I will have new lovers, I will have old friends, but there is no place for you. ‘
'What about the effort you give?' Don't be silly, I don't love you anymore. Anything you do anymore is ridiculous trouble for me. ‘
Memories are called memories because they never happen in your life again, they can only exist in the past.
No one will sympathize with an infatuated person who can't get out of the past, especially if he has been betrayed and expects the other party to get lost.
You should understand that the ones you are painstakingly guarding are worthless in the eyes of the other party, so why should you continue to hold on?
4. You always have to grow up
Life, that is, there will be a lot of emotional experiences, which are experiences that everyone may have when they grow up.
However, I hope that one day you will understand that you can love a person to the point of chaos, and you must also learn to be calm when letting go.
Love this thing, too much, is not love. That is the ink spot of your life, the bondage to your progress.
At that time, washing off was the only answer.
Above all, I wish you a good dream and good night.