In love, boys taking the initiative to chase women have always been taken for granted, and girls have always enjoyed being pursued. In recent years, there is a strange phenomenon that many boys do not actively pursue girls, and this phenomenon is becoming more and more common.
So what is the reason for this phenomenon? In fact, the reason is nothing more than these 5:
1. Economic restrictions
One of the main reasons boys do not actively pursue girls is timidity, and the main reason for timidity is economic factors.
Now is a society where consumerism is rife, and people have become more materialistic. However, rich people are a minority after all, and most boys are just ordinary people.
Therefore, before boys pursue girls, they will definitely think that chasing girls will definitely cost money, such as buying gifts, eating, watching movies, going out to play, and so on. Thinking of this, many boys will be timid.
Many boys know very well that they have nothing, and they are not embarrassed to take the initiative to pursue, afraid of being hit, afraid of being disliked, and even unwilling to let girls suffer with themselves, so they are not willing to try.
2, girls are demanding, do not dare to approach
There are many girls who are really not low in requirements, like to have a house and a car, like the second generation of the rich, like the rich and handsome, like the high emotional intelligence, and so on.
When encountering such a girl, ordinary boys must retreat from difficulties and dare not approach, after all, everyone has self-knowledge.
3, girls are brainwashed by online poisonous chicken soup is too serious
Now there are more and more poisonous chicken soup on the Internet, saying that girls should be spoiled by boys, how to toss boyfriends is deserved, and even think that this is "feminism".
For this situation, the boy will definitely measure in his heart, if he pursues such a girl, the cost is too high, after all, everyone has limited energy, and he is definitely tired of turning around each other all day.
Moreover, if you go after it, you are afraid of paying time, money, energy and feelings, and in the end you will not get the sincerity of the other party, and I believe that no one wants to have such an ending.
4, addicted to games, not interested in falling in love
Now many people are becoming more and more homely, there are many boys who like to play games at home, or even stay up all night, for such boys, playing games is more tempting than falling in love.
Maybe the real world is too cruel and too complicated, and they are addicted to the unreal game world, because in the game they can be proud of the crowd, and hang up can start all over again, unlike life without turning back.
This kind of boy doesn't even have the idea of falling in love, let alone actively pursuing girls.
5, by the ex-girlfriend hurt too deeply, afraid
There is also a category of boys who have experienced failed love experiences and been hurt by their ex-girlfriends, so even if they meet a girl they like again, they dare not take the initiative to chase.
Because of the fear of being hurt again, it is said that once bitten by a snake, ten years afraid of the well rope.
Love is originally beautiful, met the beloved girl, boys should pluck up the courage to chase.
But the reality is often cruel, if the girl requirements are too high, the boy takes the initiative, and then have the courage is in vain, afraid of their own affectionate wrong payment, afraid of the end of the bamboo basket to hit the water empty.
Therefore, now many boys do not take the initiative, after all, no one wants to be hit, no one wants to be hurt.
In fact, girls should not be too demanding of boys, or first examine whether they are good enough and then ask each other. After all, love is mutual, and both parties need to pay.
There is also that when encountering love, girls should also try to run to the person who loves you, do not have to struggle with who should take the initiative to chase whom, what era, after all, it is not easy to meet the right person, and it should be grasped when encountered.
For boys, even if they have experienced hurt, even if they are not so rich, they should not lose the courage to love, and when they encounter love, they should still take the initiative to fight for it!