Crooked Mother was once fanned by one of the Meng Bao strength circles in the rice circle, that is, Lucy, the daughter of Qi Wei and Lee Seung-hyun. She is eccentric and sweet-looking, like a miniature version of DaqiWei.
The most lovely thing is that she loves beauty as much as her mother, and she has been obsessed with cosmetics since she was a young age, and she has to wear her favorite clothes every day to go out. Once, she sat in the car and made a lot of noise, and her father, who has always been highly intelligent, could not do anything with her, but when her mother said that as long as she sat obediently in a chair, she could help her choose the lipstick she put on today, and she immediately became well-behaved and serious, looking like a beauty artist.
It is said that children are the shadow of their parents, mothers love to dress up, children will also love the house and Wu, so mothers who love to dress up will generally have a baby who loves stinky beauty. Mothers who do not like to dress up may raise a baby with low self-esteem. This reminds me of an experience that my friend Xiao Liu complained to me about.
"Mom, don't you come and pick me up, can you change your father?"
"Mom, don't you come and pick me up, can you change your father?" One day after kindergarten, the daughter of her friend Xiao Liu walked slowly to her, lowered her head and tugged at the corner of her shirt and whispered, her words were full of grievances.
"Why, baby." Xiao Liu touched his daughter's head comfortingly and asked with a surprised face.
"I prefer my dad to pick me up!" The daughter looked up at her mother, and then at a "fox spirit" standing next to her.
It was the daughter's good friend Meng Meng's mother, who was still wearing a long pink dress and delicate makeup on her face, and people who didn't know thought she was going to college.
And the daughter of this "fox spirit" is meng meng, who is looking at her "good friend" with proud and slightly provocative eyes at the moment.
Xiao Liu instantly understood, suddenly her heart was like a thousand horses galloping, and she was embarrassed and ashamed, and there was an inexplicable anger, she resisted the impulse to go mad on the spot, fiercely pulled up her daughter's hand, leaving only the two words "home", and fled as if to leave the scene.
After women get married, most of their minds are spent on their husbands, children and housework, there is little time and opportunity to dress up and run themselves, and they also have a lot of heartache and helplessness in their hearts, and no one tells them.
But when the child reaches a certain age, he will care about the eyes and views of others, see other people's mothers dressed beautifully and decently, and their own mothers are dressed sloppily, it is easy to inferiority, which is a normal psychological reaction, and children hope that their mothers can become their pride.
In fact, the "love to dress" mother to help the growth of the child is more than this, in many ways have a profound impact on the child, is not a small thing.
"Love to dress up" and "don't love to dress up" mothers, the children raised are really different
If moms feel that "dressing up" or "not dressing up" is their personal freedom and has nothing to do with their children, then you are really wrong, because your behavior does affect the growth of your child.
"Love to dress" mothers, raise children more clean and decent
If the mother loves to be clean, not sloppy, and clean up the home properly every day, then the child's personal hygiene must not be bad, they will develop a good habit of loving hygiene from an early age, and they will not lose everything. Conversely, if the mother does not pay attention to hygiene, then the child will be worse. They don't like to brush their teeth, they don't like to fold quilts, they throw toys everywhere, and the books on their desks are placed in a mess.
"Love to dress up" mothers, raise children more confident and sunny
"Love to dress up" mothers, in addition to dressing themselves, go out will also dress their children as little princesses or little princes, a variety of exquisite hairstyles, fashionable and cute clothing, clean and fresh face will leave a good impression on teachers and classmates, and their praise will also make children more confident, so they are more willing to express and show themselves.
On the contrary, "don't like to dress" mothers will let their children become "small transparent" in the crowd, or even be ridiculed, which will make children inferior and introverted.
"Love to dress" mothers, raised children more self-respect and self-love
If you want others to love you, you must first learn to love yourself. "Dress-up" mothers will spend a lot of time and effort to manage themselves, and the same children will also see in their eyes, they will love themselves more in life, and will not let themselves be wronged. On the contrary, the mother who "does not like to dress up", the child will treat himself more casually, then others will have less respect for him.
"Love to dress" mothers, raised children have more aesthetic ability
Do not underestimate the "dress" thing, in addition to making your child clean and tidy, confident and sunny, self-esteem and self-love, it can also enhance the child's sensitivity to beauty, and aesthetic ability is cultivated in the long-term aesthetic edification. In addition, it will also make children more sensitive to the things around them, so that they know how to think and choose.
Moms need to note that "loving to dress up" does not mean overly dressing up
"Love to dress" does not mean that mothers must pursue the trend, dress up every day, "love to dress" is not equal to over-dressing, must be a good scale. Don't let your "personality be fashionable" and become the "immodest" of your child's classmates or even his teachers, which will bring a lot of negative pressure to your child.
And over-dressing up will also cause poor guidance to children. For example, they will become more picky, they must wear their favorite clothes when they go out, and all daily necessities must be what they are satisfied with. In addition, too much love of beauty will also make children indulge in the praise brought by appearance, rather than spending a lot of time learning and improving their self-ability, and then delay their studies.
Write at the end:
Parents are the best teachers for children, and it is very important to teach by example. In order to make their children grow better, mothers must also stand up, learn to "dress themselves", become the best role model for their children, and imperceptibly pass on positive influences to their children.