For kids playing with their phones, my point is this:
First, it cannot be completely banned, otherwise the child will be out of touch with the current rhythm of life, and when the peers are discussing the content on the mobile phone, the child is confused. I will make strict rules and regulations for my children, for example, not to play from Sunday to Thursday, and to play for an hour a day on Fridays and Saturdays, in order to give children access to mobile phones.
Second, you can't completely indulge, otherwise the child is easily addicted, and even be badly damaged by the bad information in the mobile phone. After all, at the age of children, their cognitive ability and self-control ability are not enough, and you can't control the content in the phone, so the result of complete indulgence is definitely more harmful than beneficial.
It is wrong to pick up the rags without reading!
I have seen a lot of such videos on the Internet before, the video content is probably like this, the child is not willing to learn, the mother said to the child, do not want to learn after you have to pick up the rags, and even some parents, really take the child out, in the neighborhood or in the park to pick up.
A little boy brushed up on such a video, and then he asked his mother very nervously: Do you have to pick up the rags when you grow up without reading?
The mother replied:
This is not entirely the case, because there are no absolute things in life except life and death, reading is only a choice of life, and picking up rags is only a way of survival.
There is a profession called "resource regeneration", which means to pick up the rags on the street, disinfect, process, and remanufactured through modern technology, and then you can continue to make clothes, bags, daily necessities, industrial supplies, and so on. So, the really advanced pick-up of rags requires reading, otherwise you wouldn't have used this modern technology at all.
Although reading is only a life choice for you, it can affect your life, and it can determine whether you will have a hard life in the future. For example, sanitation workers, is their work very hard? It's because they didn't make an effort to read when they were kids. Moreover, their hard work in exchange for income is very small, we can respect these people, but we must know the truth.
If cars can sweep the floor and robots can sweep the floor in the future, are these sanitation workers easy to replace? After being replaced, they need to find other jobs, and these cars and robots are invented by those who learn well.
The purpose of reading, in addition to making it easier for you to make money later, will also be a good way for you to screen your friends. If you have a primary school degree, the people around you are basically the same degree, if you are a doctor or an academician in the future, just like Grandpa Yuan Longping, you will also be surrounded by such people.
When you are surrounded by excellent people, you have more opportunities to be exposed, because these things may be something that people with a primary school education will not be able to touch in their lifetime. So, if you want to be with people who are good, you have to be great yourself.
In thinking that your mother has spoken too well, she did not directly equate "not reading" and "picking up rags", but told the child the stakes in a very simple metaphor, and also let the child better understand the importance of studying hard.
Guo Degang said that shaving your head, pedicure, and cross-talk are all a kind of work, a way for people to survive, as long as you are willing to do it, there is no shame or shame.
This mother not only did not put pressure on the child to learn, but also let the child understand what the purpose of the effort, in professional terms, the mother is actually to stimulate the child's "internal drive", once the child has the internal drive, learning is no longer a pain, but will become a driving force.
Why some people are in their thirties and forties, still achieve nothing, and their eyes are low, small money cannot be seen, and big money cannot be earned, a large part of the reason is that when they were young, their parents instilled a kind of idea, that is: the work at the bottom is humiliating!
Therefore, while looking up to the work at the bottom, we must also let the children know the meaning of hard work!