In 2022, the first law of the People's Republic of China, the Law of the People's Republic of China on the Promotion of Family Education, was officially implemented, which also raised the traditional moral concept of "the son does not teach, the father's fault" to the legal level, which means that the era of bringing a baby according to law is coming.
In fact, since 2021, a number of laws and regulations related to family education have been introduced, which also shows that in the future, taking a baby according to law is a routine operation, and it is also a thing worthy of parents' attention, especially for those parents who do not have a "certificate to work". Today, Grandma Dali will come to give parents "literacy" to see how to bring the baby according to law!
Stop misinterpreting homeschooling
The Family Education Promotion Act, a law for family education, clearly stipulates that the implementation of family education for minors is a responsibility that parents must fulfill.
What is homeschooling
Family education refers to the cultivation, guidance and influence of parents or other guardians on the moral character, physical quality, life skills, cultural accomplishment, behavior habits, etc. implemented by minors in order to promote their comprehensive and healthy growth.
What does it look like in real life?
An important part of homeschooling
In the newly promulgated Family Education Promotion Law, it is also clearly stipulated that parents should pay attention to the physical, psychological and intellectual development of minors, pay attention to the mental health of minors, teach them to cherish life, and promote their healthy physical and mental development.
A set of data from UNICEF's State of the World's Children 2021 report shows that by 2020, the total number of adolescents aged 10-19 in the world will exceed 1.2 billion, and more than 13% of them will have mental illness.
The data also show that 45,800 adolescents die by suicide worldwide each year, or more than 1 in every 11 minutes [1]. Another survey result also shows that the number of suicides in China is 287,000 per year, and the number of children who commit suicide every year is about 2,583 based on the 0.9% of children [2].
How important is life education?
Respect children, don't be a "nibbler" family
Privacy is a clichéd topic, whether it is between friends, or between parents and children, people get along with each other, should give each other space, respect each other's privacy. But many parents do not understand this truth, they always try to spy on their children's privacy, completely disrespect their children's wishes.
Don't create "influencer children"
Don't let your child become a "left-behind child"
Most of the new generation of parents have understood that children in the adolescent period need the company of their parents most, and the younger the child, the more they need the careful companionship of their loved ones. In the "Family Education Promotion Law", it is also clearly pointed out that when parents implement family education, they should personally raise and strengthen parent-child companionship, and both parents should participate together and give play to the role of both parties.
What are urban left-behind children?
Good habits are far more important than "chicken babies"
If in the past, it was only the nature of parents to hope that children would become dragons and daughters to become phoenixes, in today's generation, having a baby without a "chicken baby" is a bad parent. Many parents also spare no expense, from a young age to arrange a variety of training for their children, play chicken blood. However, "chicken blood therapy" may not be effective, and the "chicken baby" that is promoted by pulling seedlings is not worth advocating.
Looking at the present, many parents in order to "chicken baby", a large number of cram classes squeezed out the remaining time of the child, the lack of exercise in children, lack of sleep is a common phenomenon, according to the Chinese Sleep Research Association released a survey shows that more than 60% of adolescent children sleep time less than 8h, 95.5% of primary school students, 90.8% of junior high school students and 84.1% of high school students sleep time is not up to standard [4]. Also because of this intense learning state, in recent years, the incidence of childhood anxiety disorders has also shown a trend of increasing year by year, and research data show that the proportion of children with anxiety disorders in the mainland has reached 24.78% [5].
Is your educational philosophy correct?
In fact, in the process of educating children, it is also the process of parents learning to be parents, I believe that there are no incompetent parents, only parents who are unwilling to learn! As for how to bring a baby according to law, I hope this article can help parents who are groping forward on the road to parenting!
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