In the dream of the Red Chamber, there is a wooden stone former alliance, and there is a golden and jade good relationship. The former alliance of wood and stone is the fate of the previous life, and the golden jade good fate has an artificial component, which is subjective will. Since it is the subjective will of people, who is the director behind jin yu liangyuan, and who planned such a heavenly match that is comparable to the former alliance of mushi? Based on the text we carefully analyze.
When the Golden Jade Liangyuan first appeared, it was in the eighth time, a topic provoked by Xue Baochao, who first asked Jia Baoyu, "The Cheng Ri family said that your jade has not been carefully appreciated, but today I want to see." After Baochao had read it carefully twice, and read the words on it twice, the handsome warbler took the opportunity to say that the words on the golden lock of Baochao were a pair, and added that these eight words were sent by the leper monk, saying that they must be engraved on the gold.
Among the people present at that time were Xue Baochao, Jia Baoyu, and Ying'er in the middle, and Aunt Xue was outside. The conversation that occurred between these three people should have been heard by Aunt Xue outside, but she did not interject, and Xue Baochao interrupted Ying'er's words and ended.
The second time there was a good relationship between gold and jade was in the twenty-eighth time, this time it was Xue Baochao's own psychological activity. In the Dragon Boat Festival Yuan Chun gift, Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochao gifts are the same, Jia Baoyu is strange that he and Lin Daiyu are different, and more people realize that this is a hint made by Yuan Chun to marry Xue Baochao, Xue Baochao has since begun to avoid Jia Baoyu, what she said in her heart is "In the past, my mother mentioned to Lady Wang and others, the golden lock was given by the monk, and it was necessary to wait for the future to have a jade Fang to marry" Here Lady Wang and others, obviously not including Jia Mu, are people under Lady Wang.
The third appearance was in the thirty-fourth time, when Xue Pan brought it up. Xue Pan said, "Once upon a time, my mother told me that you should choose the one with jade to be right" There was no monk in Xue Pan's mouth, it was Aunt Xue who said it.
Three times in succession, it was said out of the mouth of the Xue family, it can be seen that this is the Xue family's intention, but if we are careful enough, we will find that the three statements are not consistent at all, although the theme is "golden and jade good luck", the monk in the end is giving the golden lock or giving the eight words, whether it is the monk who said that the gold and jade match or Aunt Xue said that the gold and jade match, they did not do rehearsals, the caliber was not unified, there was a flaw. So who is the director behind this golden and jade good fortune statement?
Excluding Xue Pan and Ying'er, aunt Xue and Xue Baochao, who is the director and who is the actor?
Let's first look at Aunt Xue, she and Madame Wang are two sisters. Madame Wang is mean and unkind, and seems to eat and pray to the Buddha, but she is fierce in handling things, if Aunt Xue is also as scheming as she is, then the character descriptions are similar, and literary works are also taboo to repeat, so Aunt Xue is gentle and generous, and aunt Xue's IQ cannot think of such an idea.
Aunt Xue herself is a housewife with no idea, after Xue Baochao's father died, the big and small things in the Xue family are actually Xue Baochao in charge.
The book reads that "since the death of his father, when he saw that his brother could not stick to his mother's arms, he did not take the writing as a matter, but only paid attention to things such as needlework and family planning, so as to share the worries and relieve the work of his mother", this plan and other things are obviously not just housework, to say that Xue Baochao has this heart and this ability.
After Xue Pan was beaten by Liu Xianglian, Xue Pan wanted to take revenge, and Aunt Xue wanted to use the power of Jia Fu to capture Liu Xianglian, and Xue Baochao analyzed and persuaded Aunt Xue from three angles. First of all, Xue Pan was originally in trouble in his daily life, then Aunt Xue doted on Xue Pan, and third, let Jia Fu come forward to appear that the Xue family was bullying. This analysis was reasonable and well-founded, and I couldn't help but make Aunt Xue not adopt her opinion.
Obviously, Xue Baochao's consideration is much more mature than That of Aunt Xue, Xue Pan's violent beating of Liu Xianglian would have been disgraceful and unreasonable, and if Jia Fu were to deal with this matter, it would inevitably be known to everyone, then Xue Pan's scandal would be magnified, and the reputation of the Xue family would not be good. In particular, Xue Pan had Feng Yuan's murder in his body, and in order to avoid the limelight, he should have acted in a low-key manner. Compared with the thoughtfulness of her daughter Xue Baochao, Aunt Xue ate dry food for several years in vain.
At the same time, Xue Baochao also had a far-sightedness than Aunt Xue, and Xue Pan felt that he had to go out to do business on the face, and Aunt Xue thought, "You guard me, I can still rest assured." Moreover, there is no need to make this transaction, and there is no need to wait for these hundreds of taels of silver to be used to refuse.
Aunt Xue was worried that Xue Pan was afraid that he was suffering outside, and second, she was worried that he would cause trouble. But children always have to grow up, to face the world independently, and sooner or later they have to let go. Xue Pan also complained that Aunt Xue "said every day that I didn't know the world, but didn't let me learn", and this kind of parent now has many "cut off the child's wings with his own hands, but complains that the child can't fly", and the effort is not gratifying.
Although Xue Baochao is only a little girl, she can persuade Aunt Xue to let go when she should let go, it is better to let him go out to exercise, "If you only stay at home, this year, next year is still like this", even if it is better to spend a little silver and learn a lesson than to stay at home.
Xue Baochao had insight and knew that human growth required some experience, and it was impossible to grow up in the greenhouse, and Aunt Xue once again listened to Xue Baochao's advice.
From these things, it can be seen that Aunt Xue is a housewife with long hair and short knowledge, she also has no strategy, when Xue Baochao was small in the family, she was looking for Madame Wang, Xue Baochao was slightly older and became her main backbone, she did not have the heart and ability to come up with such an idea as "Golden Jade Good Fortune".
Xue Baochao is the general director of Jinyu Liangyuan, but after all, it is the girl's family, embarrassed to pull down her face to say bright words, and in ancient times, she was not happy to take the initiative to sell herself, and she could only let her mother Aunt Xue cooperate with the performance and walk to the front desk. However, Aunt Xue's IQ is not high enough, her acting skills are not good, her reaction is not fast enough, and her heart is not fierce enough, so she will say it when Jia Baoyu has a fever attack
"Bao Yu was originally solid-minded, but Qiaolin girl grew up from childhood, his two sisters grew up so big together, different from other sisters, this will say go, don't say he is a solid child, even the cold-hearted adults must be sad"
When she said this, Xue Baochao was also present, but did not speak. Fifty-seventh time, even say it
"I think you treasure brother, the old lady hurt him like that, if you say that the outside world, you don't like it, it is better to tell him Sister Lin, isn't it all in all four corners?"
"All four corners" means perfect, which obviously negates the golden and jade good fortune. It can only be said that if Xue Baochao did not teach her, she would say a lot of words from her mouth that were not conducive to Jin Yu's good fortune, and almost ruined the girl's affairs, but no matter what, the mother and daughter were connected, and she would eventually help Xue Baochao.