Some time ago, my youngest son's 10th birthday, out of the epidemic did not want his children to celebrate outside, so he decided to let his son invite some classmates to come to the house to celebrate the birthday together.
They had a great time that night, but one of the little boys caught my attention.
Because our family usually takes off their shoes in the house, I bought a lot of disposable shoes that night, but the other children all walked in directly, and only he changed into disposable shoes.
When eating, other children directly threw the garbage on the table, some even threw it on the ground, only he took a paper towel and put it on the table, then put the garbage on the tissue, wrapped it up and put it in the trash can after eating.
After dinner, my son played games with other classmates at home, running all kinds of jumps and giggles, only he sat on the couch and watched them smirk.
I cleaned up the table and sat down next to him, he was a little shy. I smiled and asked him, "Why don't you go over and play with them?" ”
He said shyly, "My grandfather told me not to cause trouble for others when I visit other people's homes." ”
I said, "It's not a hassle, just have fun." ”
Then he said, "Auntie, your house is upstairs, and there are people downstairs, so it will affect other people, and I don't want to cause you any trouble." ”
I had to think in my heart what kind of parents could educate such sensible children. Later, my son told me that the little boy did not have a grandfather, and that he lived with him.
To be honest, the child was sensibly distressing. Children who do not have parents to accompany them will generally be more restrained, timid, and less arbitrary and happy.
But I have to say that this grandfather is really well educated, the child understands things on the one hand, it can be seen that the grandfather loves boys very much, but also a cultural person who pays attention to education and upbringing.
No matter who the child lives with, when he sees the child now, he can see what he will look like in the future. Educated children are likable wherever they go. Although things are small, small things depend on character and know education.