Every parent wants their children to be healthy and healthy, and it would be better if they had a high value.
However, there is always no perfect thing in the world, although some children are born safely, but they have some birthmarks on their bodies, which greatly affects the appearance of children, so that many parents are more concerned.
I still remember when I was in school, a girl in the neighboring class often liked to have a hairstyle that was half covered, she looked very quiet, but many classmates were very curious, why she liked to have such a hairstyle, so much affecting her vision.
In addition, the students also have a question, that is, she has such a hairstyle, which is not allowed in school, but the teacher seems to be the same as she did not see it, and no teacher has let her change her hairstyle, which has increasingly aroused the curiosity of the students.
Until one day, a student in the class was really impatient with curiosity, secretly lifted the girl's hair, only to find that the reason why the girl had been keeping long hair on one side was because the girl had a large birthmark on the side of the forehead, which was really frightening at first glance.
In this regard, the matter gradually spread, and the girl was also affected a lot because of the leakage of the birthmark incident.
Long birthmarks have a lot of impact on children, and pregnant mothers quickly pay attention to it
After more and more classmates learned that the girl had a birthmark on her forehead, the girl faced many problems.
Impact 1: Self-confidence is frustrated
When her birthmark was discovered by her classmates, the girl who was already quiet became more introverted and became very unconfident, whether it was learning or other things, the girl felt that she was not doing well, and even did not want to try, resulting in extreme inferiority complex.
In addition, the girl always feels that she belongs to the "outlier", no matter whether others talk about herself or not, she will feel that others are excluding her.
There are many children, when the birthmark is in a more obvious position, such as the face, it will make the child extremely unconfident, feel that they are born "inferior", and they will be ridiculed by others for doing anything, so they begin to become unconfident, become inferior and even self-abandoned.
Effect 2: Inability to communicate normally with classmates
Originally, when the girl's birthmark was not discovered, in fact, she had no problem communicating with people, very natural and smooth. However, when her birthmark was discovered, the girl lost the conditions for normal communication with her classmates.
And there are two main factors that affect her:
Because the birthmark is their own heart knot, so girls can no longer communicate with people in a normal state, and it is easy to have a situation of only promises when communicating, and they cannot correctly express their communication intentions. When the classmates find that the girl has a birthmark, they will derive a strange feeling from the heart, subconsciously excluding her from the range of normal friends, so it is difficult for other students to communicate with her normally.
Effect three: produce large psychological changes
The exposure of the birthmark has made earth-shaking changes in the girl's inner world, and she, who was originally only more introverted and quiet, began to become more autistic and depressed, and then even because she thought too much, she produced some extreme personalities, such as being easy to get angry, grumpy, etc.
Eventually, the girl was forced to change schools because she was completely unable to adapt to her current school life. Therefore, if the birthmark appears in the obvious parts of the child's body, it will have a considerable impact on the child, including but not limited to the child's learning, life, communication, and future marriage and work.
Pregnant mothers do two things well, the baby's skin is white and not "found" by the birthmark
The appearance of birthmarks is likely to have a very negative impact on children, so as a pregnant mother, you should pay attention to reducing the probability of birthmark formation, so that children are born in vain and pure, without a trace of "color".
Before and during pregnancy, try to avoid pollutants
During pregnancy preparation and pregnancy, pregnant mothers must pay attention to stay away from pollutants. The pollutants we are talking about here include air pollution, dietary pollution, radiation pollution and all other factors that may stimulate human variation.
Therefore, in the preparation for pregnancy and pregnancy, we must pay attention to the green diet, avoid the use of cosmetics, avoid hair coloring, avoid going out when the air quality is poor, avoid the use of some strong radiation electrical appliances, etc., so as to reduce the probability of fetal birthmarks.
During pregnancy, care should be taken to avoid external stimuli
Simply put, it is that the pregnant mother tries to avoid bumping into foreign bodies in the stomach during pregnancy, or being subjected to some abnormal external forces, thus causing a certain impact on the fetus. If the fetus is damaged by capillaries under the impact of this external force, there may be problems such as pigmentation, which will lead to the production of birthmarks.
Therefore, pregnant mothers must ensure their own safety during pregnancy, if the stomach is relatively large, then try not to go to some people, narrow or there are a variety of uncertainties in the place, so as not to expose the fetus to external forces.
Parenting message
Generally speaking, if the birthmark grows in some inconspicuous positions on the body, it does not have much impact on the child.
However, if it is a "disfiguring" birthmark, then parents need to pay attention to taking their children to medical treatment in a timely manner and remove this mark for their children as much as possible. However, the best thing to do is to pay attention to the care of pre-pregnancy and pregnancy, and try to avoid the formation of birthmarks.
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