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Mr. Yang Dai said:
"Everyone you meet in life, the order of appearance is really important. Many people, if they know each other at a different time, will have a different ending. Some people cling to it and dry their tears to continue to love you, and some people are calm enough to weigh up on you. ”
The most beautiful love story in the world is that a lover will eventually become a family. It is a pity that the person who creates and manipulates people, often the last to enter the marriage hall with us, is not the person we love the most.
Two lovers pass by in the world, have the fate of love, but do not have the blessing of staying together, and become the most familiar strangers.
Even if we can't live with the people we love, we still have to live our lives.
In the face of former lovers, even if they can't be husband and wife, they will hope that the other party can live happily. As long as two people do this one thing well, then they can be happy with each other, and this thing is forgetting.
One: To forget him is to let go of yourself
The world of love is small and can never accommodate the existence of three people. When you are no longer together, giving up in moderation will not make yourself too embarrassed. There is no longer a place for you in the other person's world, and your presence is a kind of disturbance, making yourself seem so out of place.
Only people who are still looking forward to love will try to grasp something again and again to prove that they once loved.
But love is already doomed to be fruitless, and even if you prove that there is love, it is only love. There was no point in it except to make myself feel pain.
Repeatedly torn wounds will never heal, and the only thing that can get you out of the pain is yourself. You've already missed the stars at night, are you going to let yourself miss the morning sun again? The right person will warm you, the wrong person will consume you, don't let your obsession turn what was once a good feeling into a mistake.
Trapping yourself in a fruitless relationship is like banishing yourself into a maze with no exit, where you run into walls and consume your own life and the once beautiful love.
The most beautiful thing about love is to cherish each other when they are together, and cherish each other after the end. The connection after separation, like a quilt in summer and a fan in winter, will only look ridiculous and redundant.
Zhang Xiaoxian said: The memory is too good, and sometimes it is a burden. People who are easy to forget the past are happy.
Only if you yourself first forget that period of time and no longer disturb the other person's life, you can start a new life. You cling to your love, but in fact you are shackled on your feet, imprisoning you to another period of happiness.
There are so many beautiful things around you, don't always look at the places that make you sad.
Two: To forget Him is to fulfill each other's happiness
To love someone is to hope that he will have a good life, even if the person who is with him is not himself. As Yukio Mishima said: Life is easier to live by constant forgetting.
You are already doomed not to stay together, and each other's worries can only make the past never pass, and the future can never come.
If he does not have a family, your appearance will make him recall your past again and again, and think of regrets that he can't ask for again and again, how can such a life be happy, both of you will be trapped in the past and can no longer come out.
People who have loved cannot become ordinary friends, because they have loved each other so much. You are the corner of his heart that cannot be touched, and every thought of it will sting.
If he already has a family, your presence is the seed of his family's contradictions.
No partner can be generous enough to accept the ex of their lover without hesitation, appear in their current life. You're like an untime bomb in their lives, not knowing when they're going to detonate, blowing up his hard-won peaceful life to pieces.
So forget the man you love and let him disappear into your life.
It may be difficult, the process may be painful, but you can give everything to time, time may not necessarily heal you, but at some point, let you say goodbye to your former self.
Two people are truly in love with each other, but they can't be husband and wife, this is not necessarily a tragedy, you can completely take this love and become a better person. After all, even if some people have met, they are enough to be grateful. He has amazed your life, tendered your years, loved each other, this memory will accompany you for life, and every time you think of it, you will feel extraordinarily beautiful.
Love can have many forms of existence.
It is a kind of love to be with each other in the twilight, and to silently put each other in your heart, eternal thoughts, is also a kind of love.
Although there is no chance to be a husband and wife in this life, it is enough to have met. The choice of forgetting for the rest of life is not thin affection, but the understanding of the highest state of love, that is, fulfillment.
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