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Today is March 8th, I wish all the women in the world a happy holiday. On March 7, the photographer paid attention to the story of Lu Xiaofang, a female college graduate after 80 years, who gave birth to 5 babies in 7 years, and 5,000 yuan is the limit that the whole family spends in January" to pay attention to the story of Lu Xiaofang, a female college graduate after 80 years in Hefei, Anhui Province, and did not want to stir up thousands of waves with one stone, and the story of Lu Xiaofang and 5 children aroused the attention of millions of netizens, there was support, there was opposition, and the opponents accounted for the majority. On the morning of March 8, the parties responded to the criticism of netizens. The picture shows Lu Xiaofang and her youngest daughter.
Lu Xiaofang was born in an ordinary family in Hefei, Anhui Province, a post-80s graduate from a college in Hefei, Anhui Province. When she was in college, Lu Xiaofang had the idea of becoming a teacher, and after graduating from college, she went deep into a village primary school on the outskirts of Hefei to support teaching. Later, a school for the children of migrant workers was also established, which was specially designed to absorb the children of migrant villagers, and at most the school had hundreds of people. In September 2015, Lu Xiaofang takes care of boarding children at a migrant workers' children's school.
The story of Lu Xiaofang's establishment of a school for the children of migrant workers attracted the attention of many media, including the central media, for this school, Lu Xiaofang even pulled up her parents and brother, and exhausted all the family property. Even in January 2018, when the school was closed because it did not obtain legal qualifications, she did not regret it. Pictured here are children of Lu Xiaofang's migrant workers' children's school in 2015.
Lu Xiaofang's migrant children's school attracted not only the attention of the media, but also the attention of many caring people in society, including her husband, who was a former volunteer. The two came together shortly after they met and had two sons in 2014 and 2016. The picture shows Lu Xiaofang feeding her daughter porridge.
After the school closed, Lu Xiaofang became dispossessed and had to return to Hefei to make a living renting. During several accidental pregnancies, Lu Xiaofang was reluctant to beat up the child, so she had three children in March 2018, April 2019 and January 2021.
The burden of 5 children naturally increased, and in the days that followed, Lu Xiaofang became a housewife, and her husband was responsible for working to support the family, and her life was tight. Fortunately, her relatives, friends and society are very concerned about her, and in Lu Xiaofang's view, although the children's material conditions are not very good, they are very happy, and she herself is also very fulfilling. The picture shows that after the eldest went to school, there were four children left in the rental house.
The picture shows the fourth elder sleeping.
This is the story of Lu Xiaofang, on March 7, the photographer disclosed the story of Lu Xiaofang and 5 children on the Internet with the title of "Post-80s Female College Graduates Have 5 Babies in 7 Years, 5000 Yuan is the Limit of the Family's January Spending", which quickly aroused the attention of netizens, and the opinions of netizens were divided into positive and negative dials:
"I am not responsible for myself, for my children, for my parents, for my family. The two accidents are not responsible for themselves, they must give them a good quality of life when they are born, and they cannot be better if they are born more, which affects their parents and the whole family. "I can't understand that life is self-seeking." "Don't know that the price is now expensive to raise children? The poorer and poorer, the worse the quality of life, who is to blame? Also highly educated. "The picture shows the old five playing on the cabinet.
"It is true that there is no planning for life, and it is easy to have children, but if there is no responsibility to give birth, the economic conditions are not good, it can only be bitter adults and children, it is better to have fewer eugenics." "Do things according to your ability, not I like to have children." Children's happiness and unhappiness are inconclusive. At least children lack the joy that their generation deserves. ”
"No support! Dragging down parents is not filial piety, children eat and play, kindergarten can not afford, where is the happy childhood? I surround my children every day, disconnected from society, my husband is under pressure, causing a burden to society, and I want the community to care about donations, I do not sympathize. "Universities can only teach knowledge, not IQ." The picture shows several children playing in bed.
The picture shows the second oldest.
"As a knowledgeable modern person, her state of life is of her own making, having so many children, and now raising problems, I personally don't think it deserves sympathy!" Worth pondering! Don't be surprised, you're highly educated! "When I went to college, I was a baby?" "The daughters that parents have worked so hard to cultivate have caused their parents to be left homeless, and they have neither a career nor a good life, not to mention filial piety to their parents, that is, they will have a lot of children, and the meaning of your life is to have children?" "Selfish, bitter child."
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The picture shows the third elder wearing shoes for his sister.
In the face of Lu Xiaofang's 5 babies in 7 years, the voice of opposition came to the face. Of course, there is no shortage of sympathies and supporters.
"Support her, because she likes children, so people don't refuse, her career is also related to children, but now she encounters difficulties, her career cannot be carried out, this is the key." "Lu Xiaofang's five children are a little overloaded, very tired and bitter, but there are also tempering, which is beneficial to the growth of children, and the growth process of children benefits for life." "Proper winner in life, decades later your efforts may become hers." "It's a woman with faith, whether it's career or family, she just has no planning and no experience."
"As long as the heart is rich, even if the material is poor, it will live a wonderful life." This woman is just as not afraid of suffering as I am, born in 1972, I also have 5 children, a total of four girls and a son. Now that the children are 51 years old, the two older ones dropped out of school after junior high school because they took care of their younger siblings, and they are already married and have a family. Two girls have graduated from college and are already working, and the youngest boy is already in his junior year this year. The children who came out of difficulties were very sensible and filial, and every holiday they turned red envelopes to greet each other, and I had a special sense of accomplishment at this time. The picture shows Lu Xiaofang's eldest son's four children after going to school.
"Less accusation and more love Xiaofang is a kind and loving person, with a simple heart, everyone understands more."
So in the face of network criticism, what does Lu Xiaofang think? On March 8, Lu Xiaofang responded: "Having 5 children is not intentional, I actually took contraception, but I still accidentally got pregnant, which may be related to my body, so I will believe that God has given me so many lovely children." The picture shows Lu Xiaofang.
In the face of netizens' criticism, Lu Xiaofang said that she was also expected, and Lu Xiaofang responded: "I think it is very normal, because my family does not understand me very well, let alone netizens." Everyone thinks differently, so the choices are different, and I don't care what others say. "But no matter what other people say, we are responsible for our children, but they think that I have not given the things that they think they give to their children, and I think that as long as the children are happy, and then they are healthy and healthy, and they can achieve academic success in the future." 」 The picture shows Lu Xiaofang taking care of the children upstairs in the stairwell.
"Everyone educates their children differently, they think that giving their children material sufficiency is good for their children, and I don't think that's the case, so I will give birth to children." "Unexpectedly, I will try to bring up my older children, and I believe that my life will be better." Lu Xiaofang said.
The photographer does not want to evaluate the right and wrong of Lu Xiaofang giving birth to 5 children, just like a big dish, some people like spicy, some people like sweet, life needs to live out their own taste. What is happiness and what is happiness? A thousand people have a thousand standards, the rich live in villas and drive luxury cars are still unhappy, and the poor have a few more babies and may have their own happiness. What do you think? Welcome to comment on the message. The picture shows the second and third elders eating ham sausages given by neighbors. Original works, it is strictly forbidden to reprint in any form, infringement will be investigated!