At the two sessions held in Beijing, a deputy's proposal to stimulate fertility was on fire, and this deputy said that through taxation means to encourage fertility and effectively reduce the economic pressure on families. As soon as this policy came out, it was not recognized by netizens. After some calculations, netizens concluded that this plan only works for the rich, but the rich do not consider this tax. So this policy really reduces loneliness. Housing, pension, education, childcare and other aspects of the pressure, there is no other real practical policy, where is the courage and self-confidence, and then have a second or even a third child? Such a push will only make everyone more nervous.
"Easy to be born, difficult to raise" can not afford to raise, no one to bring, but also many young people have fewer births and later births. The news of a parent's domestic violence against a child that breaks out from time to time is also a negative impact. Some parents are not responsible for their own responsibilities, how to raise a healthy, optimistic and confident child? Fast-paced, high-stress life work makes many people busy without private time. The complexity of work life, the chaos squeezed in the heart, there is no place to vent, so that many people have more or less problems in their hearts. Many people face the workplace every day nervous, and even want to escape, over time, anxiety will occur. There is no way to digest such emotions on their own. Bring this emotion to the home, affect the family, affect the child, and even inexplicably get angry with the child. Gradually, you will find that such emotions also have an impact on children, and children will also have anxiety. What to do, the parents in charge will find their own way to solve. Also help the child to solve.
We are taught from an early age that self-confidence is a good quality of human beings, but there is no curriculum that teaches us how to become confident. Hopefully, the purpose of raising the next generation is because of happiness, because of happiness. Instead of for the sake of society to cope with the pension, let everyone have a second or even a third child.