Today is March 8 Women's Day, first of all, I wish all female friends, happy holidays!
Many people say that today's female friends should be called queens, but in fact they are not endowed with goddess queens, they do not need to flaunt their "greatness", nor do they need to identify what "weak" they are, they only need due respect and care.
Undefined, irrelevant to age, every one of her sparkles in life.
However, in today's world, there are still many women who face many injustices and dangers, workplace discrimination, fertility problems, family responsibilities... There are still many problems that plague them.
Among them, there is another problem that needs to be paid attention to by society----- domestic violence!
Domestic violence, only zero times and countless times
Domestic violence seems to be an old problem, but it has been put on the topic list again and again.
Because the victims are not limited to age, gender, and identity, and the perpetrators do not care about power, status, wealth or wealth, at the moment of swinging their fists, they are called ---- domestic violence.
According to a set of data released by WHO, about 1/3 of women worldwide have experienced physical or sexual violence by intimate partners in their lifetime.
This also means that 1 in 5 people survive domestic violence.
Mainland law also clearly stipulates that it is the common responsibility of the state, society and every family to resist domestic violence, and the state also prohibits any form of domestic violence.
In places where we can't see, there are still many sins hidden
But the problem is that whenever a pile of domestic violence incidents surfaces, the self-persuasion of "bedside fighting and bedside fighting" makes the victims fall into a dilemma again and again; the traditional concept of "it is difficult for officials to break housework" also makes some bystanders choose to remain silent.
In fact, domestic violence is always only "next", it is an endless cycle of black holes, with the first time, there is the Nth time.
Domestic violence is not a domestic affair, and violence in the guise of the family is still violence.
When violent injuries occur, why don't victims leave sooner?
Whenever domestic violence occurs, there is always such a voice: why not leave earlier? There must be something hateful about the poor!
But for the parties, anti-domestic violence is not an easy task, they often need understanding and help, but how should the victims collect evidence? How do you protect yourself from harm?
Today is Women's Day, and while blessings, we also hope that every female friend can remember these:
Domestic violence should not be an unspeakable secret, and this society needs to hold up the umbrella of the rule of law and let the victims break the silence.
Once the seeds of violence are planted, it is difficult to remove them completely.
Marriage or family should not be feared, but full of hope and respect.
May every marriage use feelings as a bridge, not violence as a deterrent;
May every family be based on the companionship of each other, not on the communication of fists and feet.
bibliography:
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[2] World Health Organization. Violence against women[EB/OL]. 2017-11-30[2020-5-6].
[3] World Health Organization. World report on violence and health[M]. Geneva: Who, 2002: 66-210.