When school starts, you have to buy new shoes, buy new clothes, and have a new atmosphere! This is the idea of many parents, and parents are also following this habit to help their children make new semester arrangements! However, some parents have a big hand, and they usually like to spend high prices and dress up their children. Once it's the beginning of school season, in order to help children show a new look, it can be described as a big ah, even I, an adult, envy and hate.
I saw a message before that a primary school student, wearing a "million-dollar luxury dress" to go to school. Although some schools stipulate that school uniforms are worn, the child who is standing back and forth seems to be dressed casually and comfortably.
Some sharp-eyed netizens recognized that the brand of clothes worn by this child was a first-line big brand, worth more than 30,000 yuan. Shoes are a limited edition of a large brand, worth up to 800,000. My God, is this foot stepping on a luxury villa?
Netizens are completely one-sided about this phenomenon, and everyone feels that primary school students do not need to wear such luxury. However, some netizens believe that people have money at home, how expensive to wear for children is their own business, and it has nothing to do with outsiders, outsiders only need to look at it, it is best not to always be nosy.
For primary school students to dress too expensive, dress too luxurious, some media people have also expressed their own opinions: primary school students do not need to be too luxurious, dressed up ordinary, but more conducive to growth.
Primary school students dress up too "local tycoons", which is very unfavorable to the growth of children
"It is difficult to buy what I am willing to buy when I have money" and "the money I earn, I can spend it as much as I want", this is the idea of some rich parents. However, sometimes, the growth of children is really not something that can be done with money. To know what you look like, it may cause some negative effects on your child.
1 Child vanity bursts
Children always wear designer clothes, the price is luxurious, too expensive, and it is particularly conspicuous in the crowd. Then, children will easily become "different" in the eyes of other children, but children themselves may be complacent, very fond of this kind of dress, and have a sense of pride in their hearts. Over time, if parents do not guide in time, children will be prone to vanity and become a person who loves vanity.
2 Children do not value money
Parents always buy expensive clothes for their children to wear, and when children wear them, they have developed a habit, and naturally they do not cherish money enough. The more expensive a child's clothes are, the easier it is to spend money in the future and ignore the hard-won money.
3 Influence small children to make friends
I had also heard of a child wearing a very expensive skirt to go to school, and then the skirt was accidentally torn by a peer, and the parents demanded a claim of nearly a thousand yuan. In the end, the children were isolated and had no girlfriends at school.
When children go to school, they will have their own social circle, but they cannot all be the children of "rich" families. Once the gap between rich and poor between children is too large, bumping, and breaking the child's clothes and pants, the child's circle of friends will be dragged down by wealth, but it will interfere with the child's clean circle of friends.
It can be seen that dressing up a child is too rich, in addition to satisfying the child's seeming vanity, more is just to meet the addiction of parents to dress up children, and even to meet the vanity of parents, which is essentially not much good for children. Therefore, parents of wealthy families, when dressing their children, do not have to be too rich, and they must pay attention to the scale.
Wealthy families don't have to be too "local" when dressing up their children
Even if the family is very rich, parents of wealthy families should still pay attention to dressing their children, and they must control the amount of expenditure and not be too generous. After all, the height of children is growing, the size of their feet is increasing, children are growing taller, and their clothes and shoes must be replaced no matter how expensive they are. Once the new model is replaced, the money will automatically become a thing of the past even if it is spent in vain.
Therefore, when buying clothes for children, it is enough to buy almost the same amount, and the average primary school student who buys about 500 yuan is a high-end version. Lending children the opportunity to buy clothes and dress up, parents take the opportunity to cultivate children's correct consumption concepts, which is the most important thing, which is far more meaningful than dressing up children.
So, if a child asks for expensive brand clothes, how can parents refuse?
It is very simple to tell the child directly that the child is too young, still growing up, and does not need to wear such expensive clothes to go to school. Otherwise, if the accident is damaged and damaged, the parents will be distressed, after all, this money is not easy to earn. Then, tell the child that if you dress too richly, other children may not really play with you, will stay away from you, and worry about being damaged by what you have been given.
Children who know this may be able to understand that it is very good to dress simply and be generous. As for whether the clothes and shoes you wear are expensive enough, it really doesn't matter, as long as it's comfortable.
How much do you think it's appropriate to buy clothes for your child? Is it expensive to buy shoes for more than 500 yuan? Welcome to interactive messages, talk about the current economic level, how expensive clothing to buy for children, is not a luxury waste?