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Chang Qingjun Introduction: His birthday, also known as "Mother's Day", when a woman is pregnant and gives birth, it is a very painful, dangerous (and even life-threatening) thing, especially in ancient times, when the level of medicine was very underdeveloped.
"March 8" Women's Day is coming, chang Qingjun can't help but think of a story he once saw in a magazine many years ago:
There is a father, whenever on his birthday, he will close the door to thank guests, sit alone in the house, meditate and reflect, recall that when his mother was pregnant and gave birth to himself, he went through hardships and hardships; he did not understand things when he was a child, naughty and naughty, let his mother his heart; when he grew up, he was far away from home, went to study abroad, and rarely had time to accompany his mother to nag and talk; after graduating from college, he was busy finding jobs, earning performance, and often working overtime; after getting married and having children, he was busy earning money to support his family and raising children; and now the children have grown up. Whether it is in the economy or time, I am more relaxed than before, and I can finally accompany my mother, but my mother has been ancient, and every time I think of this, I feel guilty and feel pain in my heart.
The day when the father is worried about the mother
Chang Qingjun, who is also already a father of man, has a very good understanding of this father's actions and feelings, the so-called "adoptive child knows the grace of his parents" and "whoever says anything will repay the three Chunhui." "Yes also!
His own birthday, also known as "Mother's Day of Difficulty", said in the "Zhanyuan Jingyu" in the Yuan Dynasty: "Near Liu Ji Zhai Hongji, Shu people, on the day of his birthday, he will burn incense and sit upright, saying: 'The day when the father is worried about the mother's difficulty. ’”
When a woman is pregnant and gives birth, it is a very painful and dangerous (even life-threatening) thing, especially in ancient times, when the level of medicine was very underdeveloped, it can be said that it is a ghost door, and to put it more graphically, it is suffering.
Modern medicine divides the human pain index into 10 levels, from the 1st level of mild pain to the 10th level of very painful, while the pain index of women's natural childbirth has reached a level of 9.7-9.8 that is close to the highest level 10.
In some countries and regions of the world, on their birthdays, children should bow to their mothers and invite their mothers to dinner to express their gratitude for the pain and hardships suffered by their mothers when they "conceived in October and gave birth".
Paid parental leave for men
During this year's "two sessions," some people's congress deputies suggested extending and enforcing paid parental leave for men, sharing the pressure of female childcare, and reducing gender discrimination caused by the difference in maternity leave in employment.
Chang Qingjun praised and supported this, because on the one hand, women have experienced and experienced the pain and toil of being pregnant in October and giving birth alone before giving birth to a child, and if after the birth of the child, they continue to let the wife (who is also the mother) as one of the couples mainly bear the burden of raising the child, especially during the critical confinement and lactation period, which is both unkind and unfair.
Extending the number of days of paid maternity leave for men, or the implementation of joint maternity leave for husband and wife, men (husbands, but also fathers) can not only help women to raise and take care of children together during the vacation, the husband and wife can not only work together to take care of children more carefully, but also to a certain extent, reduce the mental pressure and housework burden of women to raise and take care of children after childbirth.
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