From learning from home to returning to school,
What is the recent situation of the "Divine Beasts"?
Is learning and physical and mental status "online"?
The report has been established today
After reading this push, I hope -
Parents smile
Kids are motivated
Guests of this issue
Chen Chun
Teacher of Wuxi Jiyu Experimental School
Host: Now that most schools in Wuxi have resumed classes for a week, they have returned to school after learning at home, and children need to re-adjust their learning and psychological state.
Chen Chun: Many children may have an anxiety because they are not in place for self-management or learning planning at home. For example, there is a child in our class, the first day of the resumption of classes did not come, the parents told me that the child's state today is not too good, I said very understanding, may need a buffer stage, I told the parents can ask for a day of sick leave. I told my students not to dwell on the past, not to feel guilty about past behaviors, to use actions to drive emotions, and to face learning positively.
Host: Like many parents around me, because of their busy work, there is no way to accompany them often. In reality, how to accompany efficiently has always been a problem for many parents, what do you think?
Chen Chun: Now parents go to work, and children are at home alone or with their grandparents after school, which is more common. I learned that some parents will discuss and make a schedule with their children, including the time to get up every day, study, entertainment, catering, as well as housework, sports, leisure, etc., record it and implement it on paper, and discuss the results with their children, and maybe the children will be more willing to accept it.
Trick
Accompanying children is expensive in the heart.
The means of companionship are as diverse as possible.
Respect your child's wishes.
Communicate with your child to maintain a good and stable mood.
Host: When parents and children have conflicts, how should they deal with them?
Chen Chun: The older the child, the stronger the self-esteem, even when parents criticize the child, they still have to try to leave a little leeway for the child and save a little face.
Key Points ——
Parents should be willing to listen and give their children a certain degree of attention.
Good kids are all boasted.
Keep your expectations for your child and look at it with a developmental eye.