Dad lied, Dad didn't go to see the patient, he stayed in one place for an hour and he cheated again...
The 14-year-old gray gray tears, told his mother, and angrily questioned his father.
Mom soothed Ash's emotions, and after talking to her father who cheated twice, she talked to Ash.
Mom first said that he was unfortunate when he was a child, his mother surpassed his father in all aspects, his father was mentally weightless, plus the new factory director wanted to fire him, and his father was angry, accidentally injured the factory director, and committed suicide.
And now, your dad is also experiencing your grandfather's mental weightlessness, because his job is getting worse and worse, and mom is going well...
So, Dad didn't go there for an hour, just walking around one by one, thinking about things... But Dad was mentally weightless, and he wanted to go back to the old house and separate from us for a while...
This is the plot in "The Season of Encounter", Ning Yu, played by Yuan Quan, suppressed the anger, grievances and resentment in her heart and talked to her son when her husband cheated on her for the second time and shamelessly asked her for money and a house.
Ning Yu talked about his childhood experience, using analogy to save his son from anger and hurt...
Raindrop was shocked by this calm and wise mother, and was conquered by Yuan Quan's acting skills.
You must say that this is a TV series, a language refined by the screenwriter, in life, where there is such a wise mother, do not vent fire to the child is already Amitabha Buddha.
But in life, there are really such wise mothers.
Going to the beauty salon for treatment, the beauty salon owner Ms. Wang talked about her daughter.
After the Spring Festival, Ms. Wang's sixth grade daughter asked Ms. Wang to transfer her school, and after several inquiries, the daughter said why, and there was a boy in the class who said he liked her. So, the mother and daughter had the following conversation.
Mom: It's nice that my daughter has someone to like! So you like him don't you?
Daughter: Who likes him, his nose is runny, he looks so ugly...
Mom: Oh? If he's handsome, do you like him?
Daughter: No, I'm still young, I don't know anything, learning is the main thing.
When Ms. Wang heard it, she was relieved.
Mom: It seems that my girlfriend is really good. However, what if you transfer to another school and you are so good and there are boys who like you? Will we transfer again?
The daughter fell into deep thought.
Mom: An excellent girl will meet a lot of people she likes, and we must not only refuse, but also learn to face it bravely. This bravery, not only some people like you this thing, but also face setbacks bravely!
The daughter thought about it and said: Mom, I know, bravely face everything, I will not transfer schools. However, how to deal with this matter at present?
Mom: How to deal with it? I think you should ask your sister. You think, your sister is so excellent, from elementary school to high school, there must be a lot of male classmates who like her, she must have experience.
The little daughter ran to her sister's room, the two talked in secret for a while, the little daughter came out, she said to her mother: "I know what to do, first privately reject him, and then as if nothing happened, go to class to study well, after class to have fun!" ”
Ms. Wang is a wise mother. Affirming the daughter's excellence, asking questions twice to solve the problem, and finally it was simply a stroke of God, pulling the eldest daughter in, affirming the excellence of the eldest daughter, and making the two children enhance their feelings. It's a three-bird kill with one stone!
You know, many parents face the problem of their children's early love, it is a headache, is arbitrary, "your age, what do you know?" Study hard! ”
Once, a friend's daughter who was in high school was written by a boy to show her kindness, and the daughter asked for help from her friend, but the friend said: "Find the answer from yourself, why didn't he chase others?" ”
You see, how happy this child with a wise mother is, even the problem of early love is affirmed, and then guides the brave face of everything.
Perhaps, you would say, there is no connection between these two things, but the wisdom of the two mothers is the same.
Maybe you will also say that Ning Yu has wisdom again, and isn't Ash still hurt by his father?
Yes, there was once a child, the father cheated, the mother could not stand to jump off the building and fell into a cripple, that child compared to ash?
Therefore, the wise Ning Yu wanted to minimize the damage to Ash Ashes caused by his father's cheating.
Therefore, Ning Yu loves ash, and ash protects her mother Ning You.
May we all be wise people in life, as long as you are open enough to think from the perspective of children.