Since the national policy allowed the three children, how much joy and worry have been faced with the question of whether to add one more small family member.
Some people say, "One more baby is not one more pair of chopsticks!" Both are brought up, not more than this one";
Some people say, "The three-child policy is good!" Giving birth to a baby is a good thing that benefits the contemporary merits in the thousand autumns, and solves the imbalance of demographic structure";
Some people also say that "some people just stand and talk without waist pain, even survival is a struggle, and fertility is a luxury";
Some people also say that "children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, I enjoy happiness without children and grandchildren, one more child is faced with school district housing, good educational resources, tutoring homework, a high-cost and low-yield thing I do not do"...
There are many opinions, but it can only be said that different families and different individuals have different situations and choices, and natural attitudes and positions are different. It is said that "do not fight the battle of unpreparedness", we only talk about it from the mother's point of view today, what needs to be prepared for the third child.
First, accept physiological changes
Women who have not gone through the whole experience of pregnancy, pregnancy, childbirth, and parenting may not be able to imagine, nor can they think so comprehensively, to be a mother in the first physiological thing that may have to go through, just to say how much change does not represent the whole.
A three-child friend told her that "changes in hormones during pregnancy, stretch marks, pelvic tilt, postpartum urinary leakage, postpartum depression, postpartum uterine prolapse, rectus absorption, pelvic floor muscle lateral incision..." It really hurt her, and this experience she came 3 times.
Second, learn to adjust psychologically
As a mother, which child is a treasure, the energy of each child will be objectively different in fact, in front of the eyes is the youngest three inches inseparable, the upper boss, the second old study, life, body, three meals a day, etc. are all problems to consider and worry about.
At the same time, there is also the coordination of the relationship between the pregnant mother and the father of the child, and the family, the family division of labor and the allocation of tasks, at this time, different family conditions and types, for the three-child mother is naturally a different challenge, which has to be carefully considered before pregnancy.
Third, face the reality of the workplace
When the male parents who have a baby will involuntarily complain about themselves, "Since having a child, it can be said that the future is like a bright future," it is tight at hand, tight brows, tight clothes, and tight time", that for pregnant mothers, it is even more time for promotion in the workplace and the realization of life value that has to be moved backwards.
Maybe when I think that the two children have grown up, they can start to have more time to do what they want to do, at this time, sanwa naturally occupies the golden time of several years again, "life efforts are not afraid of late", that is also based on everyone's body, state, conditions and other factors to weigh all, this point Mothers also have to be included in the scope of careful consideration.
Life's choice question is never either/or, it is precisely because of the intricacies to weave a different life, the fate of children and parents is also the biggest arrangement of heaven, whether it is a second child or a third child, I hope that life can always not treat every "mother".