The emergence of the two-child policy has made many families have a series of illusions. For example, some women will choose to continue to have a second child after the age of 35, and they are constantly running for this matter. In fact, for women over the age of 35, the requirements of advanced mothers are relatively high. And after giving birth to the second child, there will be corresponding changes in their way of life, and the gap between having a second child and not having a second child is really quite large.
Ms. Wang is now 35 years old and wants to have two children when she is young, because two children in the family are always happier. However, when I was young, because I was very busy at work, I never made time to have a second child. Now Ms. Wang can be said to be both fame and fortune, and at this time she also thought of a relatively good idea, that is, to have a second child.
On this matter, Ms. Wang's husband also agreed, so the two people gave birth to the child not long after. I thought that having two children in the family was a very happy thing, but I didn't expect that from this moment on, countless problems would all emerge in front of me.
Because Ms. Wang's own physical condition is not as good as imagined, coupled with the difficult birth and heavy bleeding when giving birth to the second child, she has fallen into sequelae. At the same time, Ms. Wang's physical condition does not allow her to continue to take care of the children, and Ms. Wang's husband is also very busy and has no time to take care of the children, so Erbao has not tasted the taste of father's love and maternal love at a young age.
Now that Erbao has gradually grown up, he has never been close to his parents, and Ms. Wang has some regrets in an instant. Knowing that this was the case, the second child should not have been born in the first place.
In fact, for women who do not have a second child after the age of 35, the gap in all aspects is relatively large, and some of them are completely out of imagination. Once such a situation occurs, it is absolutely very passive for itself.
What is the difference between women and women who do not have a second child after the age of 35?
When it comes to this issue, we should take into account the physical gap. The biggest advantage of having a baby when you are young is that your physical condition is relatively good, so the speed of recovery is also relatively fast. If you choose to have a second child after the age of 35, then one of the most likely problems is that your body will become very weak, and there is no way to return to the way it was before. At the same time, it will be very difficult in the process of giving birth to a child, and there will even be problems such as dystocia and heavy bleeding.
There are many women who choose to have a second child after the age of 35, so they will look very old. Women who do not choose to have a second child will not have corresponding problems. The biggest feature of these women is that their appearance is very good, and they can play with Dabao every day, and their physical condition is also very remarkable.
The reason for this situation is that when women reach the age of 35, the function of the body begins to decline continuously, so even if the child is born, they will suffer a lot of sins.
Then there is the gap in life, if you do not choose to have a second child after the age of 35, so many and a half will stay in their own jobs and do their own work seriously. In this way, their living conditions will become very remarkable, and they will also have their own living space.
If you choose to have a second child after the age of 35, then the most likely problem is that you simply can't put all your energy into your life, and there will be some mottles in your work. And when Erbao gradually grows up, women after the age of 35 still have to take Erbao to school.
Every day needs to be busy in front of the second treasure, so there is no personal life time of his own. And those women who do not choose to have a second child can perfectly control their lives, such as going out for leisure, or doing some of their own business, which is a very good choice for women.
Then the most important thing to pay attention to is the gap in economic conditions, if women after the age of 35 choose to have a second child, then the economic aspect will be a big gap with no children. After all, there are some women who are not as optimistic as they think, and once they have two children, they will have to cut back on food and clothing.
You should know that the child's expenses are very large, when they are young, they need to buy milk powder and buy diapers, and when they grow up, they need to spend tuition, and they have to enroll their children in special classes. If the economic situation is not as good as expected, then everything will fall into a passive situation. If you do not choose to have a second child after the age of 35, you will reduce a large amount of expenses, so that you can invest more money in your life.
Therefore, having a second child is not something that can be born if you want to, especially for women after the age of 35, you must carefully consider it. Otherwise, it would be easy to push yourself into the pit of fire, and it was absolutely tragic at that time.