Every morning, as soon as I open the pen box in the classroom, I can see a "small note of love" written with words of encouragement and positive energy... This is not a bridge section of the campus fairy tale, but the experience of the 8-year-old Golden Seed Shell and the 7-year-old Golden Seed Qiao sisters and brothers.
It turned out that since October last year, my parents have begun to write them "pen box letters", and now they have written 68 letters. For them, the "pen box letter" makes every school day a fairytale surprise.
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Originated from a finishing pencil case
On February 27, the sun sprinkled all over the mountain city, and the reporter met Jin Zibei, Jin Ziqiao's sisters and brothers, and their mother Tang Shi. Jin Zibei is 8 and a half years old, in the second grade of primary school, and Jin Ziqiao is 7 years old, in the first grade of primary school. Speaking of their parents and fathers, the two sisters and brothers told reporters that their fathers and mothers are their idols and their best friends.
Speaking of the idea of writing "pen box letters" to children, Tang Shi, a post-80s hot mom who is engaged in charity work, said that it began on a very ordinary night, and the records of the circle of friends show that it was October 21, 2021. That night, Tang Shi sorted out the pencil boxes for the children as usual, and when she saw the pencils that were almost finished and the erasers that were missing half a piece, she couldn't help but smile - sorting out the pen boxes for the children was like opening a blind box, always full of "surprises", and even reminded her of what the children looked like when they were in the classroom.
"Yeah, don't all children like to open blind boxes?" Tang Shi suddenly had inspiration and felt that he could turn the pen box into a "blind box" and send a little surprise to the child. Thinking about it, Tang Shi decided to write a letter and stuff it into the children's pen boxes. When Tang Shi's husband learned of her idea, he was also very supportive and decided to act together.
The first "pen box letter" written by the couple to the children was: Smart people, do tomorrow's things today... May you be a smart child and a master of time— Mom and Dad.
The letter was written in duplicate on two sticky notes and placed in the pen boxes of the two children.
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68 "Pen Box Letters" have been sent
Tang Shi still remembers that on the day the children received their first letter, on the way home from school, they were talking and sharing the letters they received all the way, and kept saying: "Mom, I received a letter from you to me." "Mommy and Daddy, you guys are so cool!" Classmates are envious when they see it. ”
The children's feedback gave Tang Shi and her husband the motivation to persevere. Next, every school day, the children will write down a "pen box letter".
Tang Shi quietly revealed the secret to reporters: "The children asked me why I never saw my parents write letters, and I said that this is magic." In fact, we wait until the children are asleep before quietly writing, so as to give them enough surprises. ”
The reporter saw that in these letters, there are parents' confessions to the children: you are a good child with a difference, a heart and liver baby of your parents, thank you for coming to us;
There are also parents' "little spoilers": parents also have shortcomings, oh, please tolerate our shortcomings and help us change... Become better with each other;
There are also parents' "small classrooms", using pinyin plus Chinese written famous quotes: learning is like sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat.
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The children sent surprise replies
During the period of writing the letter, the most touching and surprising thing for Tang Shi and his wife was to receive replies from the children one after another.
The first reply was written by Golden Seed Shell. On December 6, 2021, Golden Seed Shell wrote on a piece of homework paper: Mom and Dad, I will be a good child in the future... Won't let you worry... I love you!
Two days later, Jin Zibei wrote a second letter, she wrote with a peach heart-shaped card: Mom, you are the most beautiful and kind mother in the world, I love you!
The third reply came from Kim Jo on December 22, 2021. He drew love on two pieces of homework paper and wrote: Mom, I love you, come on Mom.
Tang Shi said that these three replies were also received through the children's pen boxes, and she and her husband would smile heartily while being moved — the children learned to quietly send surprises, warmth and love in the same way.
For the matter of writing the reply letter, Jin Zibei and Jin Ziqiao were a little embarrassed and shouted: "This is the secret between us and our parents and mothers!" Then they said: "The feeling of receiving the letter is a bit like a fairy tale, very surprised and looking forward to it." ”
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Many parents also wrote "pen box letters"
"We will continue to write until the two children graduate from elementary school." In order to commemorate and record, Tang Shi will take pictures of the written "pen box letter" and send it to the circle of friends every day. What makes Tang Shi happy is that this matter has gradually become a warm fashion - some parents and friends have followed suit while praising it, and written a "pen box letter".
Ms. Wang, a good friend of Tang Shi, said that she was usually a little bit unspeakable, and the first "pen box letter" she wrote to her child was: "Baby, my mother loves you very, very much!" What Ms. Wang did not expect, on the same day, the child came home and said, he cried after reading the letter, and said: "Thank you mother."
Similar stories also happened continuously, and every time he received feedback, Tang Shi was full of emotions. Tang Shi said that she has always believed that "love must be spoken to children", and she and her husband have always belonged to parents who are good at expressing love. But there is no shortage of shy parents around, and now, they can also rely on the form of "pen box letters" to boldly say love to their children, which makes her extremely pleased, "which can make children feel warm, but also feel that life is full of rituals." ”
Finally, Tang Shi said with great anticipation: "Haha, I hope that more and more children will receive their parents' 'pen box letters', so that children can walk into the campus every day, sit down and open the pen box, feel the love and expectations of their parents at the first time, and start a day of campus life with such a warm mood." ”
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Edited by: Tao Ye
Reviewer: Luo Zaifang
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