Play against a three-year-old
After the New Year, the little granddaughter is three years old, talking about a set of sets, and sometimes forcefully speaking, making you cry and laugh. Sometimes, it is very funny, often causing the family to say that she is a pistachio. Can play naughty, endless, so that you have no tricks available.
No, I got up together this morning and said that she didn't go to "Kento", there was no reason, she just didn't want to go to "Kento". "Kento" is currently a small nursery for young children who are currently attending, going early and returning late, eating two meals a day in the morning and at school. My daughter has to go to work, and if the little one doesn't go to kindergarten, I have to take the child alone and cook food, which is really difficult to cope with. In the face of this situation, there are many ways to solve it, one is to force her to go, and if she does not go, she must go, and even scare and scold. But in this way, the matter is temporarily solved, that is, it is not cleared from the roots, and it will bring a bad mood to yourself for a day, and it will affect the work. The second is to coax and deceive, and as long as she is willing to go, she will agree to any conditions proposed by the other party. In this way, although the matter is solved for a while, it leaves hidden dangers, and no matter what the little guy does in the future, she or he will find this or that reason to refuse, and threaten him with this. Practice has proved that children who have been coaxed out for a long time will become more and more difficult to bring. When you grow up, you are likely to become a bear child. The best way is to convince people with reason and completely enlighten them from the depths of the soul.
I said, yes. As soon as the little guy heard it, he immediately became happy. I said, only for Grandpa to go to "Kento", and the two of us work in exchange, you cook food at home, clean, wash clothes. The daughter said that Grandpa was out of school, and you were responsible for picking him up.
The little guy listened and was stunned. It turns out that there are so many things to do at home.
When I saw her like this, I immediately gave her a step: you choose two things. She was silent for a few seconds, and replied sheepishly, or she went to "Kento".
For early childhood education, sometimes the education of older children can use the same method, so that the other party can think in a different position, exchange hearts for hearts, and compare hearts to hearts. Don't think that children are small and don't understand the reason, because children have reached the age of three and already have a certain level of cognition. Heart disease can only be treated with heart medicine to achieve the best effect.
The only way to raise young children into sensible children is to use scientific methods.
Author: Zhou Guangxing
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