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When WeChat first emerged, most people's mood was curious, and they would insist on publishing the state and mood of the day every day, and there would not be too much suspicion and comparison, just simply record a good life. At that time, the likes and comments of friends, without a hint of jealousy, were very sincere.
However, in the later WeChat circle of friends, the more people you know, the taste will also change.
Some people send a lot of moods a day, while others are silent.
People who used to love dynamics slowly become silent, which will give people an association, such as whether the other party has encountered any ups and downs in life, and then no longer posts the circle of friends.
People who can't live with the curiosity in their hearts will find the answer in various ways, and the result will affect the normal life of others.
I advise you not to bother a person who does not like to send a circle of friends, they have faded the smell of green on their bodies and begun to understand what the truth of life is. Your excessive concern will only seem very unbounded.
01: People who don't like to send a circle of friends, live more soberly
Feng Tang said: "Every cattle man must have a firm core, so that it is not easy to be blown away by the wind in the universe." ”
A person knows what he wants, can take on the future life, in order to truly be closer to the ideal self, it is not easy to see the direction of progress because of the evaluation of others.
Each of us has different habits and personalities, and the degree of need for one thing will be different. Some people will send a circle of friends every day, and when others give comments, they can get the sense of existence they want, and they hope that they can make everyone mistakenly think that their lives are living well.
But this kind of disguise is actually very tiring, and it will only make your life more and more empty.
The more determined people are, the less they have to feel the joy of life in this way. Some people have a hard time understanding their friends, how not to send a circle of friends, will overly disturb each other, and even force friends to send a message of their own life dynamics many times.
But they are not unwilling to run a circle of friends because they have a bad life, but they are very determined in their hearts and enjoy everything they get in front of them.
You really don't have to bother too much with this type of person, they have a clear plan for the future, and they know how to nourish themselves, and they don't lower the bottom line of dating in order to look sociable. Your approach again and again will only annoy the other party.
02: People who don't like to send a circle of friends are more dedicated to their feelings and more mature in their hearts
When we were young, we were always eager to be recognized by the outside world, and we always did our best to satisfy our vanity. But later, after experiencing more and more, the heart slowly matures, and you will find that the world is actually your own, it has nothing to do with others, and we don't have to make others satisfied and become not like it.
If you're really attractive and really successful, then you don't need to ask for outside attention because they will naturally come to you.
Those who do not like to send a circle of friends tend to be more single-minded about their feelings and more mature in their hearts. They identify a person who will treat each other wholeheartedly, and they identify one thing and will do their best to do it well.
They don't care about other people's evaluations, and they don't live in the eyes of others, but always be firmly themselves.
Such a person has long said goodbye to useless social networking and found the center of gravity of life. They do not need to ask for a certain sense of existence by sending a circle of friends, because they know that life is like people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge, there is no need to send it to others, and there is no need to care about what others think.
Everyone lives for themselves, and only by understanding this will you become a little more mature.
There is a kind of person who is just the opposite, they are always obsessed with creating a person in the circle of friends, thinking that in doing so, they can become a fan of the opposite sex. But in fact, a really high-level person can see through such a childish trick at a glance, and the more you show off, the more prominent you are, the more people think that your level is very low, and the pattern is very small.
In this way, not only will he not like you, but he will find you unattractive.
Some people will not send a circle of friends for a long time, and they will not change their WeChat avatar for a long time, which shows that they don't care how others see themselves, and only want to spend time and energy on really important things. Such talents are people who are truly mature in their hearts and truly worthy of deep friendship.
So I advise you, don't casually pick up a person who doesn't like to send a circle of friends, you may not be able to move. They don't play with feelings, and they don't play with life.
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