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Recently, a divorce variety show has attracted the attention of many netizens.
Wang Quexin, Wu Yating, this star couple who were praised by many people as "the most couple", finally broke up because of some contradictions that could not be crossed.
After the parents are separated, the most worrying thing is undoubtedly the fate of a pair of children.
In the show, Wu Yating, who has returned to a single state, can't help but wet her eyes when talking about her children, and as a mother, the situation when she and her ex-husband fight for custody of their children is also debatable.
Insisting on letting her two children grow up together and divorcing Wang Lixin, Wu Yating's experience was devastating
The combination of Wang Quexin and Wu Yating is not a real star couple, although Wang Quexin is a singer who has become popular very early, but Wu Yating is a real outsider.
The two were married by Fengzi, and in Wu Yating's recollection, we learned that the baby in her belly had no heartbeat at that time, so it had to be removed, but Wang Lixin still decided to marry Wu Yating.
Because in the eyes of boys, marrying a girl because he loves her, whether he has children or not, he will not change.
But it was such an enviable marriage that came to an end after only four years, during which the two gave birth to a son and a daughter, had many happy times, and were also envied by others as a happy home.
The reason for Wang Quexin and Wu Yating's divorce is very routine, gathering less and leaving more, and the feelings are weak... But why they must be separated, perhaps only they themselves know.
In the show, Wu Yating smiled and said goodbye to the past, but when it came to children, her eyes were full of sadness.
Wu Yating said that the original two divorced, Wang Quexin was ready to take a child alone, but she considered that the other party is usually too busy at work, even if she has children, she will most likely leave the children to the elders in the family, so after careful consideration, she decided to keep both children by her side.
As a stay-at-home mother, how did Wu Yating fight with her ex-husband for custody of her children?
She used the word "please."
Wu Yating said that she was soft and hard to Wang Lixin, and finally almost begged him to put the two children together to grow up, because as a mother, she knew that only when two children lived together, they would establish intimate feelings with each other.
In the end, Wu Yating won, she successfully left a son and a daughter by her side, but her process of "humble snatching" made countless baoma break through defenses.
Some people said that through Wu Yating's narration, we can see the heartache and helplessness of a stay-at-home mother, when women give up their careers for the sake of their families and children, when the gap between themselves and their partners is getting bigger and bigger, and finally even fighting for the custody of their children has to be quietly depressed...
More than a year after the divorce, Wu Yating chose to come back to work in order to better raise her two children and start a new life.
Today, she is a anchor with goods, and although the job is very hard, it is also a new challenge for people who have transitioned from full-time mothers to working mothers.
In life, when some couples choose to divorce because of emotional discord, the destination of the child has become a problem that many parents need to seriously consider.
Especially in two-child families, whether it is a parent who takes one or lets siblings grow up together not only determines the child's growth environment, but also relates to the cultivation of brotherhood.
After a parent divorces, how should the relationship with the child be handled?
Frankly speaking, the breakdown of a parent's marriage is an injury that cannot be ignored for the child, but the marriage forced to be maintained for the sake of the child is meaningless in itself, and it is not beneficial to the child's growth.
After the parents divorced, although the marriage relationship between them has been dissolved, but in terms of blood, they are still the father and mother of the child, so in addition to fulfilling the maintenance obligation according to law, parents should also pay more attention to and accompany the child.
Second, regardless of the relationship between the two after the divorce, one parent should not denigrate the other in front of the child, and do not let the child become a person who hates the biological parents.
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