Feelings are not that you pay, you can get the other party's cherishing and love, the best thing is that you love yourself first, in order to have the qualifications to love others.
In this world, there are happy people and unfortunate people, and not everyone can harvest their own happiness. When you see others living happily, it is not that she has a good life, but that she has obtained it by her own ability.
The reason why you can't get the favor of a man is not that you have a bad life, but that you don't have the ability to conquer a man, and you can't grab his heart.
A man who is good to a woman, that is purposeful, and does not treat her well for no reason. The reason why I do this is because of love, which has touched her heart.
And for some women, no matter how hard they try, they can't get the man's heart, nor can they get the man's love.
But for some women, they never humble and flatter, nor do they deliberately cater to men's preferences, they feel that everything is just a matter of fate.
It is often this kind of woman who raises her own value and is very cold, it is easier to attract the attention of men and make men want to possess her impulses.
They constantly improve themselves and learn to take good care of themselves, so as to win the favor of men.
But there are some women, they are very humble, in the face of love, they are willing to sacrifice themselves, but also willing to do everything for men.
On the contrary, the more a woman does this, the more she cannot get the love of a man, and after a long time, she loses interest in her, and in the end, the only thing a woman gets is hurt.
Women who make men irresistible generally have these strengths.
Economic independence
Women, whether before or after a relationship, cannot rely on a man. You must know that only when you are financially independent, you have the right and confidence to speak.
Only an economically independent woman can live a more noble life and will not be looked down upon by men. And you don't have to reach out and ask him for money, you have money, you can buy whatever you want.
Women who have lost their independence, what do they end up getting? It is only the abandonment and ruthlessness of men, but the disgust and indifference of men.
Moreover, men will also feel that she is a burden and just want to get rid of her as soon as possible and get rid of her as soon as possible.
Therefore, only when a woman is financially independent, you can have the confidence to speak, and you can be more confident. Economic independence is a kind of skill, a kind of ability, in order to be looked up to by others.
Only when you are financially independent can you have a double harvest of career love and master your own love. In the feelings, you can afford to put it down, and you don't have to bend it.
Know how to be spoiled
I believe that no man can resist the tenderness of a woman, and once a woman is gentle, he has no resistance.
Therefore, why men like gentle and kind women is because women's tenderness can really conquer men's hearts.
Gentle women are the key to attracting men and the key to their own charm. Once a man hits your gentle country, it's hard for him to come out.
No matter how tough a man is, he can't resist the tenderness of women, and gradually, he will show his heart in front of women.
No man likes a strong woman, and in front of a strong woman, he has no value and is not valued, so let men dare not come close.
When a woman behaves very weakly and is very good at spoiling, men cannot resist and will definitely be touched by her tenderness.
Know how to be self-disciplined
Excellent women, their lives are very disciplined, will do everything they say, and will never procrastinate.
Because they know that once they relax, they will make themselves worse and worse, and even collapse.
No matter in any way, she will force herself to complete, otherwise she will be replaced by others, replaced by society. Only by working hard can you live a better life.
If you live a muddy life all day, you will not get any good life, and you will only make yourself worse and worse. Such a woman cannot attract the attention of men.
A self-disciplined woman, she will make herself more excellent, she will also have her own plans, and then step by step to complete.
Whether it is her own appearance or work affairs, she handles it in an orderly manner, and it can be said that nothing can be difficult for her.
Only by relying on herself can women live a better life and deserve better love.