At the Beijing Winter Olympics, the Chinese ice hockey team, ranked 32nd in the world, although it lost all four games, but facing the three world's top five teams in the group - the United States, Germany and Canada, the Chinese men's ice hockey team still scored 4 goals in these 4 games, obviously reaching the goal of the Winter Olympics, and it is worth the Chinese ice hockey fans to be happy!
However, interestingly, outside the Winter Olympic ice rink, there is a big focus, focusing on the national ice hockey team player Ying Rudi and his father, Yingda!
It turned out that Yingda took her young daughter Yingwendi, who was also learning ice hockey, as a guest to explain some of the games of the Chinese ice hockey team, but some viewers and the media kept mentioning that Yingda loved the two children born to his current wife, but after divorcing Song Dandan, he and his eldest son Inbatu were almost desperate.
Obviously, these speculations about past affairs have affected the future prospects of Yingda's younger son, so Yingda and Yingrudi have begun to stand up and speak out:
In response to this in this TV show:
"Some people say, did I give all my love to Impayan?" To his brother Batuu, even they didn't know he existed – that's total nonsense! As long as I have the conditions, I will treat all children equally! Who am I going to favor? Without this, my attention could only be more, not less! ”
At the same time, Yingda did not forget to exaggerate his young son and daughter again: "Perhaps through this Winter Olympics, the ice hockey project has not been so niche, I think my biggest contribution is to contribute my two children (referring to Ying Rudi and Yingwendi, who play ice hockey) - my son has always been the captain of the men's ice hockey national team!" ......”
However, some viewers commented: Yingda big brother, at the Beijing Winter Olympics, the captain of the Chinese ice hockey team is Ye Jinguang, who is nearly 37 years old - your "son has always been the captain of the Chinese ice hockey team", who should we believe?
In fact, whether Yingrudi has "always been the captain of the Chinese ice hockey team" or not, this may not matter, but he is deeply proud and understandable that Yingda can contribute to a player on the Chinese ice hockey team.
Their Ying family can also be regarded as a "famous family", not to mention too far, only in modern times, their family has produced a lot of celebrities, and Yingda has also said that their family has not yet produced celebrities in the field of sports, so he spent a lot of money to train his son to practice ice hockey, and even in the backyard of the American family, a small ice hockey rink was specially built, Anda also said on TV: The youngest son Ying Rudi is now in the professional ice hockey league, with an annual salary of up to 980,000 yuan!
Of course, publicly boasting about his son, Daxiu's father loves like a mountain, this is not the real reason why people spit on Yingda - the reason is that he is crazy about his father's love for his younger son and younger daughter, but how he treated his eldest son Batu in words and deeds after divorcing Song Dandan, but he was repeatedly compared: without contrast, there is no harm, so the public looks down on Yingda so much.
However, Indah's claim that "conditional contact with Batuu" has also been questioned by people: what is "conditional" to contact? - Father-son connection, father-son relationship, should not be unconditional? Even if it is divorced, the child is innocent, shouldn't it be unconditional, or unconditional, or unconditional to create conditions to care for your children?
Indah's statement that "there are conditions to contact Batuu" was quickly "punched in the face" by the words of his younger son Ba Rudi!
As a member of the national ice hockey team, Yingrudi, although he did not play much time at the Beijing Winter Olympics, he also received a lot of attention - this is obviously related to his father Yingda and his brother Batuu off the field, and many people have asked him this question online, and Yingrudi replied in the video:
"Yes, I'm Batuu's younger brother. I had no contact with my brother, he hadn't contacted me, I would have liked him to contact me, but he never contacted me. ”
"There were a lot of people who said I should contact him, and I thought about it, but the problem was: my family always welcomed him back and hoped he would contact me, but I couldn't get in touch with him!" Because you can't disturb people's family life, not to mention whether you have considered it or not, maybe he doesn't want me as a brother! ”
The meaning of Yingrudi is: First, I have never contacted my brother Batuu at all- so, can Indah contact the eldest son like this? Moreover, there is also a restriction of "conditional contact". The second is that Yingrudi means that the brother must contact him first, because it is out of good intentions: he is afraid of affecting Batu's family; third, Yingrudi is more inclined to think that "the older brother Batuu does not want to recognize him as a younger brother."
Through Yingrudi's words, do you still believe that Yingda will contact the eldest son Batu?
Moreover, the Internet has a memory, and if the "preface" does not match the "afterword", it will be punched in the face by itself!
At that time, after divorcing Song Dandan, what Yingda said on TV or video programs is now widely available on the Internet.
In the video, when someone said that his eldest son, Inbatu, Indah immediately interrupted: "Now let's have doubts first, people call batu, this 'English' word, first appropriate doubts, first put here."
- This means that Indah is either dissatisfied with Song Dandan's only calling his son "Batu", or Song Dandan changed the name of his eldest son from "Impbatu" to "Batu"? So is it unsatisfactory to Indah?
It is also more likely that Yingda thinks that he is divorced, the son is awarded to the woman, and he hates his ex-wife, which transmits this hatred to the son, psychologically and verbally, some of them do not recognize that this is their son, right?
Indah also said on the TV show at the time: "Because I think that if I am divorced, don't come back to me!" Since we are divorced, there is no need, or we should not get along like friends, and the one who does not want to hurt is not my current wife, but my current children! ”
"I tried to tell him (Batuu) about it, and I still cared about him and had contact with him, but I couldn't play the role of father in this situation, which was not good for him at first, but it was actually unfair to his current stepfather."
On the surface, what Indah said at that time was quite reasonable, and it seemed that he was thinking about others: one was for the sake of his successor wife, Liang Huan, and their sons and daughters; the other was for the sake of Batu's stepfather.
In fact, whether at home or abroad, after divorce, it is very rare for an indigent person like Indah to say such a ruthless word as the child born to his ex-wife, and basically no longer interact with each other in real action, right?
Marriage can be divorced, and husband and wife can no longer have a relationship or contact, but they should be more in contact with their children, so as to facilitate the growth of the children who are most hurt, which is what a father should do the most, right?
And the incomparable love of Indah for his current child and the indifference to the son born to his ex-wife, so strongly contrast, it also shows that Indah is not a cold-blooded and heartless person, but only a reaction and retaliatory emotion and behavior under his extreme hatred for his ex-wife (including the children born to his ex-wife), right?
In the love-hate family affair between Yingda and Song Dandan, it is really difficult for outsiders to beak, because it is difficult for us to figure out what really happened between the two of them - but through the rumors and rumors on the Internet that may not be very accurate, people can still perceive some clues, right?
For example, there is information circulating on the Internet that Yingda and Liang Huan, the screenwriter of "I Love My Home", had a scandal that year, and the number of times he returned home was getting less and less, song Dandan was alone at home with a child, so he asked Yingda "if he was with Liang Huan", but Yingda strongly denied it - however, after the divorce of the two, Yingda did "flash marriage" with Liang Huan!
However, the divorce between the two was first proposed by Song Dandan, who publicly stated:
"Indeed, to be honest, I filed for divorce — because I had the only affair in ten years. I was too lonely, too much in need of love, and then I fell in love with someone very quickly, and on the third day, I called Indah and I said: I have an affair, let's get a divorce! ”
From this, we may be able to guess why Yingda hates Song Dandan so much that after the divorce, even the son basically broke off the relationship.
First, as a man, and are all celebrities, Song Dandan first proposed divorce, which was a great blow to men, and his face was very hanging.
Second, Song Dandan even admitted that he also "cheated in marriage" after Yingda, which is equivalent to wearing a hat with color on others, which is obviously the most unbearable blow for men!
Third, Song Dandan is also an artist-level celebrity, it can be said that he is stronger than the director and actor Yingda in terms of fame, status, and financial resources, then he was first divorced by Song Dandan, which also hit a man's incredibly fragile heart.
Therefore, it seems understandable that Yingda hates Song Dandan so much that it hurts their common son, right?
How Yingda treated his son at that time, in fact, Song Dandan's words can be corroborated:
Song Dandan said on his social media that year: "Men can divorce, they can reorganize their families, they can love their current wives and children, they can show their father's love in front of the media with their sons, they can call themselves drivers, nannies, cooks, coaches 'four-legged fathers'... But you can't treat your former child when he was 7 years old, he begged you to take him out to play once, you ignored it; 11 years old, you don't give the phone, you don't give; 14 years have been like a stranger... It's okay to perform a loving father, but I don't allow you to continue to hurt my son, you're not human! Batuu: You've grown up, please forgive Mom for her impulsiveness today! ”
Comparing These Words of Song Dandan, we know how desperate Indah is for his eldest son Batuu - then, Batu, who has never received his father's love, is now married and married, and when his grandfather Ying Ruocheng died, Yingda did not let him go home to mourn, then it is conceivable that now Yingda can have much contact with Batu?
Moreover, in the face of such a father, and such a vengeful relationship between Liang Huan and their children, how do you want Batu to take the initiative to contact you?
Yingda and Yingrudi, father and son, are now facing the voice of public opinion that is unfavorable to themselves, or afraid of affecting their own development, under such a voice, in fact, it is unfair to Batuu, who has never responded to this, and your words are equivalent to throwing an "ice hockey (cold and cold emotional ball" to Batuu!
"It is not appropriate to tie the knot", but "the bell must be tied to the ringer"! Indah and his eldest son Batuu's feud, only Indah himself is the initiator and unlocker of the problem!
Even if Yingda is simply just to calm the unfavorable voices of public opinion, especially for the image of the younger son and daughter, and to pave the way for their future, in fact, they should not let their children be so "inward-scrolled" anymore, as a father who has buried a half-amputated body in the loess soil, he should put down his hatred most generously, first recognize his son, contact and love him more, instead of saying such as "the surname is not surnamed Ying is doubtful first"! 【Original Review: Yu said that hugh】