Why do well-behaved children learn well when they are young, they are very sensible, and those children who give their parents headaches when they are young will actually mix well when they grow up! Does it have something to do with our homeschooling? The reason is actually very simple, because these children know how to express themselves, say their own ideas, see through the irrationality of things, can break the routine, and the practice is also very strong, and these are the basics of our work in society!
Raise good kids
During the holidays, when several of our mothers are chatting together, we often say that the holidays have no space at all, and we sleep very late every day, why sleep late, because only the children have their own space when they fall asleep, they are reluctant to sleep, and they are tortured by the various behaviors of the baby every day, and they have to endure the baby's countless times of crying. I wish the child could be obedient, and we let him do whatever he wants! This may be the dream of parents.
In the process of children's growth, we will always consciously or unconsciously measure a child with obedience and understanding, is it very well-behaved on the outside? Is it good to be good at school? Sometimes when I see a very well-behaved child, I will also praise the child for being really well-behaved. Some children are very sensitive and will find that as long as they behave well, adults will like it and praise it. And those naughty, disobedient children will be punished, not only at home, but also with school teachers, then these children will strive to become a well-behaved child. How do you tell if your child is such a child? If your child is particularly dependent on you, clinging to you. The second is, for example, to take the child to the beach, you change your mind temporarily, he is very unhappy, but still obedient, showing a lot of understanding. The third is to be particularly afraid of parents getting angry, as long as parents are angry, children will coax their parents in various ways. These children are not particularly sensible, particularly well-behaved.
Good boy
But adults don't realize what the other layer of obedience means? If you understand what it means to be well-behaved? Believe you won't want to make your child too well-behaved. Obedience means pleasing others, pandering to others, and losing oneself. When they were young, well-behaved children, after growing up, there will be more psychological problems, their life domination has become others, living for others, their independent ability is also relatively poor, their autonomy is also very poor, and their hearts are very depressed, and they have completely become a flattering personality. If you are a rotten good person who does not know how to reject others today, you can reflect on perhaps when you were a child, you were particularly obedient.
Of course, we parents do not force the child to become a well-behaved child because of their own peace of mind, as long as the child is within the bottom line of our requirements, allowing the child to be unruly, mischievous, and give freedom So that the educated child will be more assertive and more confident.
Let your child become the child who can be angry, can be naughty, can cry, and he can feel happiness more easily in the future.