Whoever said that life is far more bloody than the TV series Dog.
Seeing today's Weibo hot search, I did believe it: # Man gave Xiao San property wife sued for invalid gift # Man gave Xiao San more than 5 million and real estate Raised children for 8 years to find out that it is "Xi Dang Daddy" #
Recently, the Longhua Court in Shenzhen, Guangdong Province, accepted three cases.
In 2010, the husband met Xiao San, and after two years of xiao san, he gave birth to his eldest daughter, and the husband spent more than 1.11 million yuan to buy a suite for Xiao San.
In 2020, the husband did a paternity test and found that the eldest daughter was not biological. In December of that year, the wife sued her husband, the third eldest and the eldest daughter for the return of all the purchase price and interest, etc. After a mediation agreement, the property was transferred to the wife.
In 2021, the wife sued to demand that the third and eldest daughter return more than 5.47 million yuan and interest of more than 1.81 million yuan donated by her husband. The court ruled that the gift contract was invalid and the case was currently being enforced.
In June 2021, Xiao San gave birth to her youngest daughter and sued her lover for a one-time payment of 6.48 million yuan in child support. Currently, the third case is scheduled for February 2022.
The whole thing is very bloody, the husband's decades of cheating history, the wife's forbearance and outbreak, the unscrupulousness of the little three, the entanglement of interests, the emotional divergence and confusion, the husband wears a green hat to his wife, and is "happy to be a father" by his lover.
At the end of the day, the lover once again conceived her little daughter and asked for a huge amount of money.
Xiaobian really wants to say: retribution is not happy.
01 In this farce, who wins.
Definitely not a wife, the husband has been in Cao Ying's heart for decades, and he has a home outside the home, how is such a grievance swallowed.
I really don't understand what the point of keeping such a marriage in name only is.
Such a marriage is not just a matter of resignation and will, but is heartless, betrayal, hurt, cheating, concealment, disappointment to despair, chilling.
The winner is not Xiao San, in history, Xiao San has borne the insult of destroying the family, suffered moral condemnation, and has never seen the light, and the little three in the incident are even more empty.
But this third party is also capable, and actually got pregnant with the little daughter (according to the time, it should be conceived before the paternity test), and gave birth smoothly, in any case, the little daughter is the man's biological son, so he won back a round.
It must be said that they are all masters, regardless of whether they are in any way, and those who want to be profitable are the men in the incident.
After so many years, the benefits of both ends have been accounted for, and now that he wants to get out, how can he do as he wishes.
Even if the wife wants to return the property, she is already discouraged, and Xiao San has spent her youth in vain. And can the man sandwiched between two women still be as dashing as ever?
If you know this, why should you be in the first place, but even if you turn back the time, such things will still happen again and again, because human nature is like this, and desire is not endless.
02 Wife, husband, lover and symbiotic relationship
Many people in the comments section said that there are many similar men and women around.
The well-informed wife, the husband who has cheated on her for a long time, and the young and beautiful girl who knows three times.
Everyone performs their duties, everyone gets along harmoniously, and such a relationship can even be maintained for ten years, knowing that one party intends to change and break the situation.
It can only be said that human adaptation is really strong.
The wife felt unbearable at first, but it was more difficult to make a decision to divorce, endured, and endured for many years if she was not careful, and gradually got used to it, it didn't matter, just live well.
Being a little third is also, at the beginning it was not without shame, just doing it, and gradually it seemed that there was no feeling, who was not living a life, who could manage whom. Even many times you can overtake in curves and realize your dreams in life.
Since both ends are stable, men are naturally happy.
Today's society provides such conditions for men, and material temptations, emotional scarcity, and human greed and desire constitute a complex social environment.
Too much dirt, darkness, obscurity, forbearance, selfishness is hidden under the glossy exterior.
Existence is reasonable.
The existence of Xiao San is exactly in line with the needs of some men and some women.
The current institution of marriage requires us to love only one person and be loyal to only one person, and such a character is not innate to us, or even contrary to human nature.
People crave good things, and even marrying the person they love the most will gradually lose their freshness, and marriage will become boring.
Not only men, but also women, not mainly in your feelings, but in your behavior; how you respond to your feelings.
It is to think about how to manage the relationship between husband and wife well and grow together, but to find another way and return to the embrace of desire.
03 Face up to the weaknesses of human nature
Life is full of changes, and we can never talk about it from one thing.
Everything has its opposite, the main thing is that we can face up to the weaknesses of human nature and not be tempted by it.
It's hard.
No one is a saint.
That's why the love and hate of red dust men and women are intertwined, struggling back and forth between responsibility and desire, carrying weights forward under the pressure of family and career, switching back and forth in various social roles, or seeking temporary relief, or falling deeper and deeper, indulging in it and unable to extricate themselves.
No one is born bad, and we don't intentionally hurt others.
Just unconsciously, mizu is deeply trapped. All tragedies should not have begun in the first place.
At the beginning of the story, we are all teenagers who chase dreams, young people who long for love, wives or husbands who imagine having a healthy and happy family.
Just alive and alive, the road gradually deviated, and people scattered.
Marriage breaks the dream of love, then go with the flow, no one will look back!
Not a single snowflake was innocent at the time of the avalanche.
In marriage, your grievances and unhappiness, although there is credit for others, but you are not innocent.
For example, the wife in the incident, her forbearance, her bottomlessness, her self-righteous sacrifice and tolerance are all important conditions that lead to the development of the event.
Marriage is not a blood-linked relationship, it has a way out, at least you can choose to leave and start over, right?
04
Junichi Watanabe concludes in the book "Man This Thing":
It's not so much that there are men and women in this world, but that there are only men and women in this world.
Although in essence, men and women are always ambiguous two creatures, they are indeed the best fit to hug and warm each other.
Therefore, men and women should understand each other, enrich each other's perceptual imagination, and thus establish a more colorful and fulfilling relationship between men and women.
Text/Song Qian
Be true to yourself and love life.