A lot of people, walking and walking, dispersed.
A lot of feelings, everywhere they fade.
People's feelings are actually so faded.
One doesn't ask, one doesn't say
Many feelings have faded, all because one does not ask, one does not say. Silence is always the beginning of alienation. Between two people, there is no continuation without communication, and there is no feeling without contact.
If one does not ask, one does not say, no matter how familiar people will gradually lose their common language, and even the deepest feelings will gradually lose the fulcrum of understanding. Without even saying a word, this relationship is almost at the end...
If you care about a person, don't be stingy with your own language, just ask, so that you can know what the other person is thinking and experiencing. If you value a person, don't skimp on your own ideas, just say it, and don't expect others to guess your voice out of thin air.
One does not retreat, one does not let go
Many feelings will fade, because one will not retreat, and the other will not let go. There are not so many suitable people in this world, in fact, they are all mutual accommodation.
People will always encounter conflicts when they get along with each other, even the best friends will quarrel, and even loving couples will have conflicts. If a contradiction occurs, one does not let go, one does not retreat, ends in a quarrel, or ends in a cold war, over time, this feeling will be hurt deeply and become very cold.
In fact, there are not so many wins and losses and right and wrong in the relationship, if we always want to win each other, we will only lose each other's friendship. Take a step back, let an inch, and the road ahead for each other is broader and longer.
One does not wait, one does not chase
Many feelings have faded, all because one does not wait, one does not chase. Everyone's pace of life is actually different, if you can't cooperate with each other, you can only get farther and farther apart.
Being a human being is like walking, some people walk faster, some people walk slower. People who walk in front, if they forget to look back, they will always lose the people around them, and the people who walk behind give up catching up will always watch each other gradually disappear from the field of vision.
Life always likes to put a lot of differences and misunderstandings between people, these differences may come from the region, may come from money, may come from status, as long as the estrangement is getting bigger and bigger, the distance is getting farther and farther, the feelings are getting weaker and weaker.
But as long as the people who walk in front stop and wait, and the people who walk behind do not give up catching up, the distance between them will not be far, and this feeling will never fade, and they will continue to go on.
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