Wei Wei is a female singer of the times in the 1980s and 1990s, and her rough and heroic voice is very distinctive and is the memory of a generation.
She participated in the Youth Song Contest (CCTV Young Singers Television Grand Prix) and won the second prize to make her official debut, and her representative works include "Dedication of Love", "Asian Majestic Wind", "I Want to Have a Home" and many other songs. And has been on the CCTV Spring Festival Gala many times.
In those years, Wei Wei, Tian Zhen, Liu Huan and others dominated the song world, and was the benchmark in the singer world!
While her career is booming, she has always been emotionally ridiculed!
01 Running for love in Sweden
In 1963, Wei Wei was born in Inner Mongolia, his original name was Zhang Juxia, and later changed his name to "Wei Wei" to mean "I am the only one". Wei Wei's father was named Zhang Yu, an old revolutionary, and his mother was called Wei Xiuqun, an amiable old man.
Wei Wei has a talent for singing and dancing since he was a child. He learned his art at the age of 6 and was active on major stages at the age of 8
In 1986, Wei Wei became popular because he participated in the Youth Song Contest, and since then, he has become one of the most representative female singers in China.
After Wei Weihong became red, she abandoned her first love boyfriend Fu Disheng and turned around to be with The married Hou Yaowen. Became the "little three" who broke up the marriage of others, this relationship made her controversial at the time, and was spurned by the audience!
For this love, she left her hard-working business for several years, followed Michael Smith to Sweden, and soon, they formed a family! Wei Wei's unfortunate life has just begun!
In the first two years, Wei Wei felt very happy, there were people who loved him, there were people she loved, it was enough! But in the years that followed, Michael Smith seemed to have changed as a person, scolding her for a small matter, and Wei Wei endured for the marriage for the sake of her three sons.
Later, Michael Smith will beat her up for a trivial matter, afraid that Wei Wei will run away, michael Smith will also withhold her pass so that she can't go anywhere!
Wei Wei couldn't stand it anymore, and finally, she took up the weapon of the law to protect herself, she Divorced Michael Smith, and obtained custody of her three sons.
In this way, in 2005, Wei Wei returned to China with his three sons.
Although this transnational relationship lasted for more than a few decades, it was not happy at all. After marriage, Wei Wei was completely passive and became an accessory to her husband.
02 The contradiction between Wei Wei and his father
Wei Wei, who returned to China, did not take her three sons back to her hometown in Inner Mongolia, because her relationship with her father was very stiff!
His father, Zhang Yu, was once an old Red Army soldier with integrity, and Wei Wei had various scandals since he left home and stepped into the entertainment circle, which made his father Zhang Yu very angry.
Every time Wei Wei returned home, his father was always disgusted and unpleasant. Even when he later went to Sweden with Michael Smith, his father was firmly opposed, and the father and daughter had a big fight, and when they went out, they would not come back.
Even when Wei Wei went to Sweden, he never contacted his father, only occasionally called his mother and brothers and sisters, and in this way, the father and daughter had not spoken for a long time!
The news of Wei Wei's return to China was known to the paparazzi, and the news that Wei Wei was abused by her Swedish husband Michael Smith broke out, and the father was very worried after knowing it, so the father dialed his daughter's phone, and the father and daughter finally had contact.
Wei Wei felt that he was wrong at this moment, that he was young and crazy at the beginning, and wanted to make up for his debt to his parents. As a result, Wei Wei took both parents to Beijing.
But Wei Wei and his father did not enjoy many years of happy times. A few years later, his father developed cancer.
During his father's illness, Zeng and Wei Wei said: "If you want to live a good life, you must educate your three children well." Dad has a bad temper, don't blame me" Wei Wei listened, tears flowed, and he and his father missed too much time.
In 2010, Wei Wei's father Zhang Yu left, and his mother Wei Xiuqun, because she couldn't stand the bad news, was in tears, listless, and lost her yearning for life! Because the father was the mother's day! Now it's like the sky is falling!
Although parents often quarreled when they were young, where was the quarrel between husband and wife? Just as the so-called bedside quarrel and bedside, together for more than 50 years, has long become an indispensable part of each other's lives, suddenly walked one, mother Wei Xiuqun can not accept.
In order to let his mother out of the shadows as soon as possible, Wei Wei and his brothers and sisters took turns to guard their mother's side, and Wei Wei's three children often accompanied their grandmothers to let their mothers know that they were accompanied!
03 Wei Wei took three children to let his mother finally get out of the pain
In order to let Grandma pass the time on weekdays, Wei Wei's three sons specially bought a new mobile phone for Grandma and downloaded various old movies in the mobile phone for Grandma to watch!
Slowly, it seems that the mother Wei Xiuqun came out of her grief, began to get up every day to prepare breakfast for the children, and then sent the children to school, after arriving, she went to the market to buy vegetables, sat down to chat with other old people on the way home after buying vegetables, and then went home to prepare lunch.
The three children also like to be with grandma, in order to let grandma get in touch with more new things, grandma likes opera performance, and the three children also teach grandma how to use the computer to watch opera on the Internet. With the company of the children, Grandma seems to have found a new joy in life.
That night, after they had finished their meal, the family gathered around the couch watching TV, which was playing a talk show. The content of the program is:
The father of a 12-year-old boy, because of a quarrel with his wife, ran away from home, for 4 years, there is no news of his father, the boy wants to write to his father, do not know where his father is? Where do I want to send it? In order to find his father, he went to the TV station, hoping to get his father's address.
The boy cried bitterly on TV, and expressed his miss for his father without scruples.
Wei Wei's three children watched the show and also cried, and their hearts were also missing their father, because their mother, usually, did not dare to show it, for fear that her mother would be sad. They wiped the tears from the corners of their eyes and turned back into the room.
All this was seen by Grandma Wei Xiuqun, who understood the feelings of the three children very well, and the feeling of leaving his favorite relatives was really uncomfortable.
After the three boys followed their mother back to China, they never contacted their father, and their father often called, but Wei Wei just didn't give them the opportunity to talk and chat.
Although the three children listened to their mother's words and understood their mother's approach, they could not suppress their thoughts of their father in their hearts.
Mother Wei Xiuqun took advantage of the children's return to the room and talked to Wei Wei alone.
She talked to Wei Wei about the children watching TV and advised her: "The affairs of the two of you adults should not involve children." Children are innocent, no matter how bad your business was before, after all, it has been so long, the children have grown up, have their own ideas, and need the love of their fathers. Since your father left, I think that people live in this world, except for life and death, there is no threshold that cannot be passed. You can't ignore your children's feelings because you've been wronged. ”
His mother's words made Wei Wei think for a long time. In the past few days, she has been reflecting on whether she is really too selfish?
On this day, it was Mother's Day, and the three children made greeting cards and gifts for their mothers, which made Wei Wei very moved.
But the painting drawn by the younger son on the greeting card touched the heartstrings of Wei Wei's painstaking meditation these days, and the younger son painted a portrait of a family of 5 holding hands in the sky, while the little boy looked up at the sky, and the tears in the corners of his eyes slid down.
After Wei Wei finished reading the painting, she thought about the misunderstanding between herself and her father for more than ten years, and thought that she knew the importance of family affection after her father left, and finally, she persuaded her selfish psychology to let the children find the father's love that had been lost for many years!
She dialed her ex-husband's phone, saying she would not stop him from contacting the children in the future, and gave them the children's mobile phone numbers.
When the three children returned to China to contact their fathers for the first time, they were surprised at first, and when they were sure that it was their father, they were so happy that they took off. After that, the three children will have a video chat with their father and share interesting things about their lives!
Under the persuasion of his mother, Wei Wei let go of his ex-husband's hatred, untied the knot in his heart for many years, and also gave the children the right to obtain fatherly love.
Wei Wei did not dare to imagine that if he did not forgive his ex-husband, the children were doomed to lose their father's love in the process of growing up, and the future would certainly be full of various regrets. It will even cause children's psychological problems, all thanks to the mother's timely persuasion!
In the summer of 2012, the three boys went back together to their home, which had been separated for many years, Sweden, and the reunion of the long-term reunion made the ex-husband understand the preciousness of parting and reuniting.
Can afford to put it down! I have to say that Wei Wei's education of his son is also very successful, and his three sons are also very successful. The eldest son was admitted to the department of Chinese of Peking University, the second son was admitted to the department of medicine of Peking University, and the third son was also the champion of boxing competitions.
In the darkest moments of her life, it was the three children who gave her the strength to hold on and let her out of the haze; when she was still obsessed, it was her mother who woke her up and let her let go of the past and live again!
The greatest wealth in life is not how much wealth you have! But when you're tired, home, is your eternal harbor! After experiencing so much, Wei Wei's second half of his life was undoubtedly happy!
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