Missing someone and not being in touch are nothing more than these 3 things
Some people say that if you miss someone, you should contact them.
However, not all people who miss can be contacted casually.
It is not that there is no network, it is not that there is no mobile phone, it is not that the mobile phone has no phone bill, and it is not that there is no contact number, but that the identity of the contact is lost, and there is no excuse and reason to contact.
Missing a person and being unable to contact most of them are the following 3 reasons.
01
No suitable identity, no reason to contact
Missing someone and being patient with no contact is not an ordinary relationship.
That person must have been familiar with him, otherwise he wouldn't have missed him.
Missing and not connecting, there must be no intersection now.
As people say, it is a veritable and most familiar stranger.
That person has been in your world, lived in your heart, you have paid for him, you have poured out for him, you have laughed for him, you have cried for him, and you have even been fascinated by him. In the end, the karmic division ended, and I had to break up and go my separate ways.
At the end of the song, people scattered, and the past is difficult to break, not because my memory is too good, but because the past is too wonderful.
The laughter when we are together, the feelings when we are together, and the bits and pieces are engraved in the heart.
Can't erase, can't cut, can't forget, doesn't want to read, can't do.
I miss it, but I can't meet, I want to contact, but I don't have the identity and reason to bother.
02
Lack of confidence
I know that I love it very much, but I am worried that the other party does not care about me.
Obviously, I want to contact, but I am afraid that the other party thinks that he is indifferent.
I miss it, but I can't meet him.
It's not that your love is not innocent enough, it's that you lack self-confidence.
The reason for the lack of self-confidence is because the other party is too high, the self is too low, afraid of their own enthusiasm, ignored by the other party, can only give up the contact, silently miss in the heart.
Perhaps, some people will say that such love is so humble. Such thoughts, there is no sense, you should show your courage, miss to contact, even if the other party rejects, at least did a thing that you do not regret.
03
Don't like to take the initiative
People who do not like to take the initiative are not without love in their hearts, but expect others to confess. Even if you are very afraid of losing, you are not willing to take the initiative to contact.
It's not that he doesn't use a cell phone, it's that he doesn't like to be active.
Everyone knows that diligent contact is conducive to communication, and more communication can increase mutual trust.
Good feelings are out of the way, good relationships are cultivated; good love is managed.
If you do not take the initiative, I do not take the initiative, no matter how close the heart, it will be far away; no matter how really love, it will change; no matter how beautiful the dream, it will not be realized.
Because in this world, everyone is busy, and no one has extra time to guess other people's minds.
You either love or you don't love.
If you love, and you don't say it, miss it, and don't contact it, you should be alone to bear the pain of lovesickness and the regret of missing out.
If you really love someone, you have to show your courage, summon up your courage, and say out loud that I love you.
If you really miss someone, don't skimp on your phone bill, dial the phone to contact, say what you want to say, don't hide it, say the words in your heart, roar out your love, no matter what the final result is, it is better to say than not to say.
If you have lost the identity of contact because of your deep affection, then you should not choose to use acacia to comfort your soul. Instead, love yourself and wait for the next fate to come.
When fate comes, cherish it, and when they are together, they will use their hearts to maintain it.
May your love have flowers and fruits.
May your thoughts be understood; may your side be accompanied, not for a moment, but for a lifetime.