Today friends agreed to eat together, and the neighboring family brought two children, one more than 6 years old and one more than 4 years old. During this period, the two children always ran around, so that we were all very worried that the hot soup and hot dishes in the hands of the waiter would be sprinkled on the children, and the waiter was also worried, seeing the children running over, always avoiding in advance and working carefully.
In this case, whether it is your own child or not, do you feel anxious in your heart, if the child is still your own, it feels like it is not angry, eager to immediately pull the child over, knock a few slaps on his ass, and then use the brothers' good glue to glue the child to the chair.
The reason why children are particularly noisy in some public places is because they are curious about the outside world; second, they are more excited to go out with their parents, especially to go out and play.
On the one hand, parents should understand the child's psychology and protect the child's curiosity; on the other hand, of course, it is necessary to put the protection of the child's safety in the first place, and according to the child's personality and the background at that time, appropriately adopt some methods to guide the child to avoid unsafe behavior.
Meet your child's psychological needs.
Parents should first understand the reasons behind their child's behavior, whether it is excitement, curiosity, boredom or impatience, etc., and find a way to meet his psychological needs. For example, when it comes to the restaurant, parents should not only care about chatting, but also take their children around, one is familiar with the environment, and the other is to satisfy the child's curiosity.
Quietly and firmly emphasize the rules and stop the child's misconduct in a timely manner.
When he found that the child wanted to run out, he immediately whispered and firmly told him: "Shhh, you have to be quiet, it is very unsafe to run around like this, and knocking down hot soup and hot dishes will burn you." "And hold his hand or read picture books with him and so on."
Use toys and small snacks to distract your child's attention.
If your child doesn't listen to their parents at all and is still noisy, try toys and small snacks. When children play with familiar toys and eat delicious snacks, their emotions can be relieved, their mood can be relaxed, and their attention will be diverted, and they will concentrate on playing with toys or snacking.
Take the child directly to a quiet place and tell him public etiquette.
If the above methods cannot make the child quiet, it is recommended that parents directly take the child away from the public place and find a quiet corner for the child to calm down. Wait for the child to calm down before returning to the table.
Of course, the best education is still pre-education.
Before going out, parents should clearly tell their children what you want from him, what kind of places you want to go to, and what regulations you must abide by, so that he can be fully mentally prepared. Guide him to make a commitment to follow the rules and clearly tell him what the consequences will be if he does not keep his promises, and if this happens, parents must do what they say and let their children experience the consequences.
Parents can also read some relevant picture books for their children, so that children can intuitively understand what rules are in different public places, which behaviors are prohibited, and how to do it is safe and popular.
Only on the basis of respecting and understanding the child's psychological needs, parents can use the child's favorite way to teach by example, and constantly strengthen the child's safety awareness and rule awareness, which can not only protect the child's curiosity, but also effectively guide the child to develop safe and decent behavior habits in public places.