When the opposite sex is together, men are inexplicably attracted to women, have thoughts about women, and look forward to two people holding hands together, at this time, men will have two choices: choose a crush, silently pay attention to women's bits and pieces, secretly like women, and hide their feelings in front of women; choose explicit love, find the right time, bravely confess to women, and take action to pursue women.
Men choose a crush, no doubt in the taste of a cup of bitter coffee, taste, feel bitter, after tasting, often sleepless at night, tossing and turning, the woman's heart and mind.
Men choose love, take action to pursue women, if they get the woman's heart, they will naturally feel happy, if they are rejected by women, men may be worried.
Does man have any other choice than that? Of course! Men can choose to elevate themselves, make themselves better, show their charisma to women, attract women's attention, and let women choose themselves. You know, a good way to pinch a woman's weakness: self-added, when a man can create value for a woman and bring a good feeling to a woman, the feelings of two people will naturally slowly heat up.
1. Broaden your own insights and be a guiding light for women.
A man in front of women, appear shallow, only know how to talk to women about some superficial topics, when women encounter confusion, encounter some problems, men can not help, can not give women some reasonable advice, at this time, women may feel disappointed.
On the contrary, if a man knows how to improve himself and make himself better, he can continue to broaden his horizons and improve his cognition.
In front of women, men can show their erudite side, show their own intelligent side, when women feel confused, or encounter problems, men can be women's guiding lights, give women some help, at this time, women often feel satisfied, can't help but look at men.
2. Enhance your ability to be a solid support for women.
If a man has no ability, can't manage his own life, when he encounters things, he is crazy and doesn't know how to solve it, or the man evades his own responsibility and pushes the responsibility that originally belongs to himself on others.
Women and such men live together, will feel that men can not support themselves, can not give themselves happiness, just as when women encounter difficulties, hope that men give themselves some help, men say to women, "love can not help", at this time, women will naturally feel sad, feel that such men are difficult to rely on, how can they be devoted to men?
On the contrary, when a man interacts with women, if he can improve his ability, make himself more powerful, become a woman's dependence, and in some critical moments, he can protect women, and men can naturally get women's approval.
3. Develop your own career and give women a better life.
When men get along with women, they don't want to give women a better life, they don't focus on their careers, and they don't focus on improving themselves.
Men live in mud every day, do not think of making progress, indulge in vices, can not listen to women's advice, women will naturally feel that living with such a man, no hope, and are not willing to pay attention to this man, the relationship between the two people will often become very weak in the end.
On the contrary, if a man can take the initiative to take on his own responsibilities, know how to improve himself, develop his career, sublimate his personality, and make himself more reliable. Men will think of women in their hearts, and will think of creating a career to make themselves more outstanding, and then give women better living conditions, which often wins women's favor and closes the distance between two people.