Gao Tingyu jumped to the championship podium, Japanese and Korean athletes were lined up on both sides, and the Winter Olympic venue resounded with the "Volunteer March". Gao Tingyu's 34.32 seconds broke the record of the Winter Olympics, Gao Tingyu's gold medal broke the "flag bearer curse" around the Chinese Olympic delegation, today we take a look at the story behind Gao Tingyu's gold medal, the so-called "four years of a dream, a loving mother shed more tears, the coach bothered to think, the personality is too rare." ”
One or four years to achieve a dream
Four years ago, on the podium of the Winter Olympics in Pyeongchang, South Korea, Gao Tingyu stood in the third place position. In an interview after the game, Gao Tingyu admitted that he hoped he could stand in the middle of the podium, and he thought that every athlete would think so and want to win the gold medal. In the camera, he shouted three words to himself four years later: Practice well.
Four years later, the dream came true. Gao Tingyu is not a "god operator", he responded to the "gold oath" four years ago at the press conference, let's not press the table for the time being, come to see Gao Tingyu's mother, a crying mother.
Second, loving mothers shed many tears
Gao Tingyu's mother had previously been interviewed by the media, and when it came to the New Year, her tears flowed uncontrollably. Other people's children go home early every New Year's Day, reunite with their parents, and share the joy of the world. Gao Tingyu always rarely comes home during the New Year, because he is busy with training. Reuniting with her children in the New Year is a luxury for Gao Tingyu's mother.
Although she cries every New Year,Gao Tingyu's mother didn't complain much, because she knew that her children were not only doing what they liked, but also trying to use their own efforts to win glory for the country. In order to fight for the glory of the motherland, the small family has to make some sacrifices, maybe this is the pattern of Gao Tingyu's mother.
For each of us ordinary parents, broadening our horizons, deepening our own cognition, and building a larger pattern for our children; being able to think differently, love our children with our hearts, and build a loving family for our children is our responsibility, and perhaps the best gift we can give to our children.
Gao Tingyu's mother is a warm mother, and she firmly remembers the first time Gao Tingyu cooked herself - instant noodles with two poached eggs and a little green vegetables. When she said this, Gao Tingyu's mother's eyes showed attachment, and she also joked that after the Winter Olympics, she was ready to urge her son to learn to cook, and when he was old, let him cook for himself.
Her mother said that Gao Tingyu would cook for herself when she came home, and she still remembers the first meal Gao Tingyu made for herself - instant noodles + green vegetables + 2 poached eggs. She also joked that after the End of the Winter Olympics, she would urge Gao Tingyu to learn a few more dishes, so that she could only eat instant noodles when she was old.
It can be seen that the relationship between her mother and Gao Tingyu is excellent. There are probably not many boys who can pick up a stir-fry spoon and take up the pot and cook for their mothers. Such a mother, such a son, such a family atmosphere is so enviable. Having such a family is undoubtedly Gao Tingyu's luck. And Gao Tingyu's luck is not only reflected in his family, but also in his relationship with the coach.
Third, the coach takes pains
Many coaches have the label of "severe", Gao Tingyu's coach not only has "strict", but also has another side, he is good at communicating with Gao Tingyu and is good at encouraging Gao Tingyu. At the press conference after winning the championship, Gao Tingyu was asked a question: How did you get through your own trough?
Gao Tingyu's answer is that everyone will have a low period, (I can walk through the trough) without the encouragement and support of the coach, without him, maybe after I won the bronze medal in the 2018 Winter Olympics, I would choose to retire. He has always encouraged me, both giving me hope and taking me to new heights.
After all, children who can become professional athletes are a minority, and few professional athletes can meet coaches who are "soul-in-tune" with themselves. But I believe that every child can have a "soul coach" parent.
As ordinary parents, if we see more of the highlights of our children before they reach adulthood, instead of holding on to their shortcomings all day long, if we use their shining points to motivate them more rather than frequently degrade them, I believe that each of our children can grow healthier and have more motivation to work forward.
Fourth, personality is too rare
After talking about mom and coaching, let's talk about Gao Tingyu himself. Let's listen to a few "Famous Quotes of Gao".
When asked how he felt about winning the first gold in Chinese men's speed skating, Gao Tingyu said: "I just hope to give everyone a good start, and I can't stop it at the beginning, take a few more pieces." ”
Asked how he felt about fulfilling his promise to "stand on the highest podium" four years ago, Gao Tingyu said: "As a person, a Chinese, it is to do what you say." ”
When asked how to prepare for the day's competition, Gao Tingyu said: "The competition is a real knife and a real gun, and no one will let anyone!" They have all come to the door, who are they still accustomed to? ”
When asked what he thought of the "Flag bearer's spell", Gao Tingyu said: "They are about to scare me to death!" But how to say it, as the flag bearer for the Chinese delegation, I still hope that the Chinese team can win the flag, and I have always comforted myself. But when the game is played, it doesn't matter what magic spell he doesn't spell, ah, on the field, the slide is over. ”
When asked why he has a slow personality but likes speed skating, Gao Tingyu said: "My personality is quite slow, but I like the speed of skating, I also like the sound of the wind whistling, and the excitement." ”
The above few answers, in addition to making us feel the uniqueness of "Northeast people are all duan hands", can also let us experience the optimism of Gao Tingyu.
I think whether a person is optimistic or pessimistic, of course, has the role of DNA, but it is also related to the atmosphere of their own family, the thinking and behavior patterns of their parents, right? If parents sigh every day and let their children be sunny and happy every day, it seems a little unrealistic.
In addition, there are many parents who will label their children with various labels because of certain personality traits of their children. Takato is slow, but likes to skate at a speed. If his parents had labeled him "unable to learn to skate" when he was a child, because of his "slowness", then Gao Tingyu would not have achieved today.
I think that high-level parents should be parents who are willing to accept their children and accept more possibilities for their children, rather than parents who stubbornly push their children to the path they want, right?
What do you think about Gao Tingyu's victory and his "God Prediction" four years ago? What educational significance do you see in Gao Tingyu? Let's talk in the comments section.
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