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Family, friendship and love are three very important parts of our lives, good love can not be sought, family affection is the most selfless, in the face of difficulties, the most reliable is undoubtedly parents and brothers and sisters.
But in fact, friendship plays no less important role in times of crisis than family affection.
This means that we usually need to spend some effort to manage friendship well.
Think about how many people would you ask if you were going to borrow money?
The person you dare to open your mouth to borrow can be said to be a relatively good friend, and the person you hesitate to open your mouth is most likely a friend who has been somewhat estranged.
And those who lend you money without saying a word, are they the people who usually contact you most frequently?
Think again, if one day you come home late and can't get a taxi, what will you do?
Assuming that your family is not around, assuming that you are single at this time, is it not the best way to send out a call for help from friends around you?
A bottle of wine takes a long time to drink, and the same is true for friendship.
When you need help when you encounter difficulties, it is often sudden, and if you suddenly go to a friend who is not often contacted for help, I think it may make both sides more embarrassed and awkward.
Therefore, in order to avoid finding no one to ask for help in times of difficulty, or no one is willing to help, then we must pay attention to the management of friendship, brew the bottle of friendship wine early, and drink it at any time when needed.
However, the benefits of running friendship are not only for such utilitarian purposes, but also for the sake of human kindness and help, but also to make you better.
In the process of running friendships, you can improve your communication skills and problem-solving skills.
Because in order to manage friendship, you need to think about how to maintain the relationship between the two sides from time to time, etc., when getting along with different friends, you will inevitably encounter contradictions, you have to think about how to solve the contradictions, which will naturally improve your communication skills.
In addition, in the exchange with different friends, the collision of information will definitely make you gain a lot.
For example, talking to friends who study medicine, being able to understand the relevant situation of the pharmaceutical industry, chatting with friends who like fitness, you can know more about healthy sports and so on.
It can be seen that it is necessary to manage friendship well in normal times.
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Hearing this, some people may say: I know that friends are important, but it is too tiring to run friendships!
Yes, it is true that managing friendship is not simple, it can be done well without time and effort, but it is not as difficult as we think, you can operate from old to new, from far to near.
First of all, start with old friends to manage friendships.
Old friends include our classmates and friends from elementary and middle school, and friendship with these people is the most need to manage, but also the easiest to manage.
We know the roots of our old friends, have a lot to say, often reminisce about the past, and when we have time, we will gather together, and don't ignore our old friends.
Second, manage friendships with friends and colleagues around you.
When studying and working, we will meet new friends, we can communicate with them more, seize the opportunity to get along well, such as asking them to go out together, study together, etc., are all good ways to maintain a relationship.
Finally, make friends with people with lofty ideals and positive people.
In various occasions in ordinary times, if you meet some people with ambitions and dreams, you can try to communicate with them as closely as possible, and communicate more, which will be good for your own thinking and future career.
You can ask them questions that they don't understand, and in general, they will tell you their own thoughts, so that they can get fresh ideas and maintain relationships, why not?
This article is original by [Lemon Psychology Classroom], pay attention to me, take you to increase knowledge together!
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